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Sex before Marriage?
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Posted 11/19/11
Sex before marriage is okay.
As long as you know you and your partner are ready.
Emotionally and mentally.
And don't waste it on a two week or five month relationship.
Wait for the right moment, and guy.
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19 / F / Leaf village
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Posted 12/12/11
i suppose it's relative to each person. if i'm going to marry someone, though, i'd want to be sure he satisfies me in bed.
Posted 1/5/12
I strongly believe in sex after marriage.
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28 / some where heaven...
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Posted 1/20/12
well its a preparation after marriage......
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19 / F
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Posted 2/5/12
No.
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21 / F / Ireland
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Posted 2/5/12
No thanks. Intimacy only after marriage or else be kicked out of the house by parents.

I myself agree with that statement too.
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Posted 2/6/12
Sex prior to marriage is fine. Especially since there is a huge group of people who are not allowed to get married in certain states. What's more important is SAFE sex before (and after) marriage.
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Posted 2/7/12
As long as both are in on it, it’s is safe and both are prepared to take the consequences Do what the hell you want! I don’t care… it’s not like I have to care…
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Posted 2/8/12
One of the tough questions. Before marrige? Sure why not. There is definatly an unfair scrupulation between guys and girls though. Guys get a notch on the belt where as girls become more and more "dirty" and "get around" Bottom line is both sexes get turned on and horny. Some people dont ever want to think of marrige or a relationship for that matter. I do think its sad that all the traditions are dying out though. things were held to higher standards back in the day. . . maybe there was a benifit to this. But whatever you choose. . . use fricken protection. If your a chick. . . dont let your guy make you feel like shit for him not wanting to use a condom. Kick his ass to the curb. Guys. . . dont be selfish and lazy and complain. . . "oh it doesnt feel as good". Do you really thinks its worth it beign a father at this point in your life cause you too fucking selfish and lazy. . . common sence is a dying thing.
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Posted 2/9/12

wickedcookie wrote:

i tink its ok
as long as ur sure
jz b careful...
i hav 1 question though:
hw r we s'pose to make sure our partner is free of HIV?
ask before doing IT?
but arent most inclined to lie at d heat of the moment?
or ask b4 dating smoebody? but that would be hinting u wanna hav sex...?


The way to solve that is by having your first date at Planned Parenthood. Get those issues taken care of promptly, since you can see his/her own results with yours. If you cannot trust the person who is bumping uglies with you, then I'd not consider them a viable candidate for that grace.
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30 / M / Edmond, Oklahoma,...
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Posted 2/9/12
As for me, not having sex before marriage is the equivalent of not trying on pants before buying them. Don't get upset when you take them home and they don't fit.
Besides, play it smart and plan ahead. Technology for contraception has existed since the Egyptians and the glories of the internet render ignorance a crime, so get educated.
Last thought is make damn sure you want their privates mingling with yours; things do go wrong occasionally. Be sure to take responsibility if and when they do.
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27 / F / Sweden
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Posted 2/24/12
haha of course you shall have fun and enjoy yourself before marrige if that is something you want.. Do not let religion block your personal experiance of life.. to try things is normal.. to know what you like and dont like.. Tho i do also respect those that wait.. but i honestly feel sorry for those that do marry and realise that their partner do not give them any satifying moments...
Best way to answer this.. so long it feels right for you... how can it be wrong?
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Posted 2/29/12
Id say its ok. For some thatd be spending 25 years just thinking about what it feels like or just curious as to what sex is all about. I do not believe in self deprivation of any sort whether its morally or physically or knowledgeably. If your ready to do it jump head first in it just know consequences can happen
Posted 3/2/12
im a musliim and dis is against our religoin to so its wrong lol
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Posted 3/7/12 , edited 3/7/12
I think it's fine. I'm not picky. If you lose your virginity before your marriage to someone you love, is it so terrible? Sex is just a part of life. You don't need to wait to consummate a relationship if you feel truly ready to do so, simply because of the rules of your religion. It's YOUR LIFE, therefore, YOUR CHOICE to have sex before marriage or not.
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