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Sex before Marriage?
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Posted 1/21/08 , edited 4/18/08
It's fine just as long as both people are ok with it. That means that they know what they are getting into and if something were to happen then they deal with it.
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Most the people posting that is it wrong are underage. This is great btw, you don't need to be having sex when you are still kids.

Although you think it is wrong now, your opinion will do a complete 180 when you reach adulthood. Especially after you get your freedom from your parents. For many, this will be going to college. You will be surprised how much you change.
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bluxberry wrote:

Do what you want to do be as safe as possible and be prepared for consequences if there are any. I don't mind sex before marriage but I'm tired of people who come crying to me because they are pregnant and it was a "mistake" or they were too drunk to remember and blah blah blah.


i absolutely agree with dealing with consequences if any, but i do believe that sex before marriage is a NO-NO according to both my morals and religion...
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who need marriage.................FUCK all the way
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i'm not promiscuous but i'm not a virgin.
i don't want to be with a guy who is a man whore either.
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25 / F / Oklahoma
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blakram74 wrote:


Itachisbedbuddy wrote:

It's fine just as long as both people are ok with it. That means that they know what they are getting into and if something were to happen then they deal with it.


But can everyone deal with it. Your a lady, any guy you may encounter may pretend to be a man, but what happens when the shit hits the fan - what he does is the measure of a man. Too often you see full grown children who make the babies and hate the ladies.


People are going to live their lives the way they want to and if that means sex before marriage, then so be it. I personally don't believe in sex before marriage, but I dont have a problem with other people doing what they want to do.
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Posted 1/22/08 , edited 4/18/08
I think its ok if both couple agrees with it.... But i strongly disagree with one night stand
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31 / F / KSA
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i'm totally against having sex before marriage coz MOST- not all- of men are not commited or able to carry responsibility of their actions..
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C'mon people! Let loose
Oh wait....sex before marriage sometimes leads to unplanned pregnancy
Hehe nevermind!
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i'm not against it, but i'd wait til i find the girl i would want to marry first
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if its with the peson u love, and ur willing to accept any consequences that come out of it (ie a kid) then its okay. however i think that people who sleep with others 4 the skae of it, or just coz they want sex itself are wrong
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26 / F / Where the clowns...
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Posted 1/23/08 , edited 4/18/08
Uh yeah... anyway.

Sex before marriage... It's your own business, really. I say to wait until you're at least 16 and/or wait for love,but you can do your thing, as long as you're responsible for your actions.

I don't necessarily think better of people who wait, just that they are very very patient, and falling into a minority now.
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22 / F / Tampa, FL
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Hmm....sex before marriage. Touchy, touchy.

I honestly have nothing against it, but I think before you do it both you and your partner should have a good and trusting relationship and be 100% ready. Sexual activity is normal and healthy, and it's sad that primitive concepts of morality preach sex being wrong. It's a controversial issue nowadays, especially with the brainwashings of religion, the teachings of our parents who have also been brainwashed and the highly inaccurate sex education classes making young people consider sex to be "bad".

Yeah, sex can have it's consequences, but that's what protection is for, and even if you're not ready, foreplay activities with your partner (masturbation, oral, etc.) are also very healthy. As long as you're not sleeping around with every Joe and Jane, you're fine.

All that being said, I find the gender bias towards sex a bit disappointing. If a teenage boy wants to or has had sex, he will receive praise from his friends and support from his parents. A girl, on the other hand, would only be known as a whore and if her parents found out, I can't say they'd be too happy. Yes, I know about the old sexism of society, which frankly still exists, but I'm sure most women would agree with me that it's a bit frustrating not being allowed the same freedoms as males, and not only in the sex department.
Posted 1/23/08 , edited 4/18/08
fuck as much as possible before you get married...cuz you never know, it might have been the best time of your life..the single life..
And yes, sex before marriage is awesome, in the end it is even more awesome if you don't get married at all, marriage is for puss***

Flo~
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Posted 1/23/08 , edited 4/18/08
Just as long the relationship leads to marriage. Of course both parties care a whole lot for each other, not because of some "accident" that lead it to marriage.
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