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Sex before Marriage?
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27 / M / New York
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Posted 1/23/08 , edited 4/18/08
Since it doesn't really have the capacity to harm someone in a physical way if people take the appropriate precautions, I say it's fine. I've done it myself, though I do intend to marry that girl.

Our society is no longer bound by religion (at least not presently and directly), nor should it ever be. If there is no harm done, we should focus on our own lives rather than those of other people.
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Posted 1/25/08 , edited 4/18/08
i find marriage in general to just be a religous deal and dont even believe in it, so id have to say sex before marriage is ok
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Posted 1/25/08 , edited 4/18/08
Hmm i dont know since im a christian and i totaly belive in it but i screw it up..but anyways its better you save up your virginity for the person u get married thats one of the best thing you can give ur partner..also i dunno bout girls i dont want my bed cover with blood in my honeymoon LOL
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22 / F / California
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Posted 1/25/08 , edited 4/18/08
If your gonna have sex all I have to say is be safe. Use protection. I hate it when a girl gets an abortion when she gets pregnant after having sex and not using protection. Take responsibility for your actions.

I don't think it's wrong to have sex before marriage. It's a choice.
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30 / M / Istanbul
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Posted 1/25/08 , edited 4/18/08
wow so many ppl here think its wrong ^_^

Well do whatever you want u'r responsible for ur own body..

But hey what if you think it's "still" wrong after the marriage haha
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23 / F / Ontario, Canada
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Posted 1/26/08 , edited 4/18/08
I think its ok. Honestly, most people wait because the wanna find the right person to do it with, but most couples now adays really dont seem like the right ones for eachother, ending in divorce. Its not like im saying go out nd be a big whore, but as long as ur inlove with the person i think its alright.
OH! and dont be stupid and not wear a condom...cuz thats the thing that pisses me off most about people that have sex before marrige..then there like..."HOW DID THIS HAPPEN! *tear*"
...2 of my firends went through that this year. Im so accidental pregnancys..CONDOMS PEOPLE!!!
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
reasons for going at it before marriage:
- knowing if you like your partner enough in sexuality
- having experience, maybe you don't like being new at things on an important day
- just for the heck of it, experiencing life and different people I guess
reasons for NOT going at it before marriage:
- STD's
- Pregnancy
- lowered rep if you're a female
- religion
- maybe that person you're marrying deserves a virgin if that's what they want...
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25 / F / Intoxication
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
reserving yourself for someone you're bound to hate down the line is a waste
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26 / F / Michigan, USA
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
~ If you're going to post here please explain why you're for or against sex before marriage. This is a discussion, not a poll.
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21 / F / there.
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
i don't agree.. sex is not a habit..
but.. some people are liberated
nowadays..
they don't even think what
would happen next
just for the sake of their
pleasure..
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22 / F / boring, bland ohio
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
What about gays and lesbians who in some states are barred from getting married. Should they have to wait for marriage?
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21 / F / New York State
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
ok. but there is such a thing as being too young...

rape is NOT okay however....

also if the guy (or girl) has an STD it is their responsibility to tell them...

and if there is an unexpected pregnancy i would expect the guy to do the honorable thing
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24 / F / the united states...
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
i think its better to wait tll marriage .. dont want to go into marriage with baggage and std's im just saying
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Ive got to say that Im against sex before marriage. You got someone else to compare to when you're actually with someone. If you have multiple partners, all the more harder to keep your mind straight from lingering to what you have done while youre with the one who loves you. Cheating and having multiple partners only remind you that you arent having sex with anyone else while youre having sex with someone who loves you. But seeing how we live in a postmodern world, it seems I cant imply that for everyone. Screw it. It is.
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28 / M / House Adasho
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Posted 1/27/08 , edited 4/18/08
Men and women should get to know each other before marrage in the biblical sence.....by which I mean by reading the bible together
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