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Sex before Marriage?
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If you are ready and prepared, then I have no problem with it. Remember, once you have done it, you can never go back. Hopefully, they will know if they're in love.

As for me, Im waiting until marriage/when Im in love.
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I think its ok. Honestly, most people wait because the wanna find the right person to do it with, but most couples now adays really dont seem like the right ones for eachother, ending in divorce. Its not like im saying go out nd be a big whore, but as long as ur inlove with the person i think its alright.
OH! and dont be stupid and not wear a condom...cuz thats the thing that pisses me off most about people that have sex before marrige..then there like..."HOW DID THIS HAPPEN! *tear*"
...2 of my firends went through that this year. Im so accidental pregnancys..CONDOMS PEOPLE!!!


dont put too much faith in condoms.

as for no sex before marriage i'll have to disagree.....as long as its not my sisters or future daughters, i really dont care.....ohhh yea as long as its safe sex, then we should all be happy.
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I would probably want my daughter to have sex after marriage since I'd be overprotective. I'd be worried that she would get hurt by someone.

However, feelings of love and the act of sex are undeniable facts of human existence. Humans develop a sense of dependency and connection with other human beings (or things ). And we have to eventually have sex to procreate or we'd go extinct. Marriage, in comparison, is merely something that has been made up by culture and society. I'm not saying that marriage isn't important. I want to get married one day as well. However, since sex and emotional attachments to another person are more vital than the institute of marriage; I don't see how sex before marriage is wrong unless you're religious. (then you believe in something that tells you to follow this and I can't really tell you otherwise)

I do agree that sex after marriage and saving yourself for the one that you will spend the rest of your life with is romantic. But that's as far as I go with agreeing with it. For anyone that I have romantically loved in my life, I wouldn't mind sharing the intimate act with them.

Sex as a recreational act. I admit that I am in this group a tiny bit (since some people find this bad or w.e). But there really is no actual connection with love and sex. As long as both people respect the other's boundaries and aren't lying/forcing the other person, it's merely something that 2 (or more) people engage in.

Also, since most marriages end up in divorce anyways, who are they to say that sex before marriage is wrong? They just broke their wedding vows so screw them.

If I was a virgin now and had to decide? I'd probably hope to find someone who I wanted to marry. But I'd want to have sex with them before we got married since I'm sure that we both want to do it and there really isn't anything holding us back unless one of us is very religious.
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life is short so just do it
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Out of honesty, my girlfriend and I have been going out for two years and we are still virgins. I don't rush her and she doesn't rush me to do it. Although we are active in other activities, we haven't had intercourse yet. When we are both ready is the day we will do it. She said this to me when I first met her....."You know, I wouldn't even go out with you if you weren't a virgin." I asked her why and she said because she has dated guys that weren't and they ended up cheating on her because she wouldn't give them ANY sexual activites. I was like what?!?!
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I think it is wrong, and my religion does too, it does not completely make my decision, but influences it.

I noticed that teenage boys that are christian, are hornier than anyone else because we don't fornicate, XD
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20 / F / Meh...
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I dun really care but I'd save it 4 marriage...
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22 / M / France
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Well, its okey I think XD
but not to sleep with every single person on earth
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People should have intercourse when they and their partner are ready.
If the right time for them is before marriage then so what?
To me sex before marriage is ok. Just be prepared and be safe.
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22 / M / France
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your right XD
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i regret that it never existed anymore...
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25 / F / Canada
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to me it all depends on how you feel as a person, me i don't care but my best friend does. so it's all a matter of your opinion. though i do hate that bloody double standard for guys and girls
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26 / M / Texas
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Sex is for a husband and his wife only.
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24 / M / Under the sky
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Sex before marriage? yes
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29 / F / Canada
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it's crazy how many religious buffs are also anime freaks/ japanphiles~
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