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Sex before Marriage?
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Posted 1/30/08 , edited 4/18/08
Marriage is just a stupid tradition, its not like it really matters. Would be dumb to base whether or not you can have sex on a stupid tradition imo. At least base it on age or something sensible.
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yeah it's true that sex with minors has a lot of risks but it's the same with adults 'cause many of them aren't well prepared,sexually speaking......i think the best solution is the sexual education but for the moment there aren't many project like that.When i said sexual education i meant a real one where the person in charge explains the risk and how to protect yourself...but today in school when a project like that comes they put us together, mixed,boys and girls,and they begin to tell us about menstruation, male body...etc and that's the most stupid thing 'cause we all start to laugh and that's all we learn from that discution.
Now the big question is ...sex before marriage is good...when u have a boyfriend\girlfired for 1-2 years i think is good 'cause it's strenghting your relationship and also u will be more close one to each other....but for one night stand on cause u are drunk and u forgot to use condoms...that's your fault and stupidity.Maybe is better to wait after marriage but then again.... maybe u won't be compatible ...sex puts a lot of question signs...majority of couples have this problem....sexual incompatibility ...choose the right time the right person and be sure of yourself ...that's my advice for all the the beginners for the hidden path of sex:)
Posted 1/30/08 , edited 4/18/08
In this day and age it's impossible not to have sex before marriage. I don't think it's wrong as long as you do it with the person that you love. Plus practice makes perfect so when the honeymoon arrives you will be a sex master :O
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i guess its ok unless the dumbass husband-2-b doesnt get her pregnant.
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It's not necessarily wrong, it's just not the right decission. If you're having sex with someone whom you truly love, and it's protected sex, it doesn't seem to be wrong. In my opinion, as long as the two people who are having sex love eachother, it can never be wrong.
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I agree that having sex with person you love (and he loves you) isn't a bad thing... But first of all you have to make sure that having sex before (or after) marage is safe. That both partners are loyal to each other and not cheating (and increasing posibilities of getting some illnesses)
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BEFORE you don't wanna buy the car without testing it first
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I think it's better to wait till ur married.... but it's just my opinion though ^^ there are people in this world who mind about their partners being a virgin or not... (even without the HIV issue) but then again... the decision is yours.... just choose wisely!!!!
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Posted 1/30/08 , edited 4/18/08

midgetman155 wrote:

BEFORE you don't wanna buy the car without testing it first


Whore alert!
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yep ofcourse as long you dont forget protection
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not ok....cuz what if he won't take responsibility?
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I think it is fine, do what you choose. I don't see the harm in pre-marital sex.
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I think its fine.anyone who thinks otherwise just never had a good love making session to get them addicted.thats their loss. However if their reason for holding back is religion or waiting for the right one then its ok to wait. I don't know about you guys but I went and got ready for the right one and she's just as addicted as me. Needless to say she is pregnant. But like I said she is the right one so I'm happy. You know I used to think pregnant women lose a bit of thier appeal but that is BS!! And strangers agree with me. So I don't know about you guys but I'm gonna get laid tonight.end of topic.
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For me marriage is just a title, people can be happier without that. In the end I think all that matters is you plan on staying with and supporting the person your having sex with. Although I will admit that there's probably only one or two couples on earth that have stayed together for the rest of their lives without getting married.

Summing it up:
Pre-Marital sex: OK
Going out and finding a hooker: Not so much.
Posted 1/30/08 , edited 4/18/08
It's fine
I mean as long as your careful
and as long as it's for *love*

but if youre just doing it for fun
or what ever than it's no longer
special.
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