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do you hate it when people compare and rank beauty?
Posted 9/6/10 , edited 9/6/10
this has been bothering me, I notice that people tend to say one person is more attractive physically then an other 8P for instance I always see both guys and girls do this *and It annoys me*

person 1: see those guy/girls there?
person 2: yeah, the one on the left is cute but the other is hotter?

-_- what I wanna know is, why do people rank and rate peoples looks to one another? especially when I know pretty darn well that they dont wanna be compared to other people. kinda like the "do asian men date black women thread: it botherd me because most people are posting stuff like "yeah these girls are pretty but Asian women are more attractive" and bla bla bla my rant is, looks arent everything and beauty is only skin deep so why are u comparing people's looks when you say that you want to be judged for your personality? dont you think the way a women/man carries her/himself as a person should matter more?

honestly this is why I hate beauty pageants because all these women are being judged on there appearance more then talent and personality

what do u guys/girls think?

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Posted 9/6/10 , edited 9/6/10
I'm more a personality can trump looks but I'd be lying if I said I didn't care.
And there will always be shallow people in the world who only care for looks, not that bothered myself. To be expected tbh considering our generations notorious obsession with looks.
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Posted 9/6/10 , edited 9/6/10
yeah its odd, I really dont like seeing those "hottest celebs" things on certain sites and stuff because I honestly dont think any of them are hot. I have a different way of looking at it.

but yeah when it comes to relationships the girl MUST have a good personality, looks are a great bonus. i found this out recently when i fell head over heels for a hot girl, but she has a unfavorable personality(she knows shes hot,flirts with every guy she sees even when she knows I like her and she likes me and looks down on people) so im not going after her anymore
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Posted 9/6/10 , edited 9/6/10
I guess its just instinct. Personality is more important to me but ofc they have to at least look decent
Posted 9/6/10 , edited 9/6/10
I know what ur saying but what I mean is, when u look at an attractive person would you ever rate her looks to anyone else's? thats the point im trying to make 8'D..what I wanna know is who other then me and certain people look at attractive people think everyone we find appealing is just as appealing as the rest with out thinking one's more appealing then the other?

kinda like this"

bf/Gf: oh I love my gf/bf, he/she's gotta great personality but that person over there is hotter

*that stuff makes me mad*

Posted 9/6/10
The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.
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Posted 9/6/10 , edited 9/6/10

Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks. Down to individual
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Posted 9/6/10
well beauty is in the eye of the beholder so comparing whos hotter with other people will really get you nowear
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Posted 9/6/10

Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks
indeed, looks are a big bonus, but when it comes to relationships they need to have a good personality otherwise it just falls apart

Posted 9/6/10

Fadadio wrote:


Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks
indeed, looks are a big bonus, but when it comes to relationships they need to have a good personality otherwise it just falls apart



agreed, its okay to be attracted to the person ur with but its better to put there personality before there looks
as my ma says "looks dont last forever"

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Posted 9/6/10 , edited 9/6/10

Fadadio wrote:


Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks
indeed, looks are a big bonus, but when it comes to relationships they need to have a good personality otherwise it just falls apart



I find those with exceedingly good looks tend to have horrible personality as well. Arrogant
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Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks. Down to individual


When a man selects a mate, he wants beauty first. However, women prefer personality over all.
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Posted 9/6/10

Aztecnology wrote:


Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks. Down to individual


When a man selects a mate, he wants beauty first. However, women prefer personality over all.


Yeah, I doubt all men are as shallow as that or as stupid. Looks will fade overtime.
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Posted 9/6/10

Aztecnology wrote:


Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks. Down to individual


When a man selects a mate, he wants beauty first. However, women prefer personality over all.
maybe for some men, but I have learned that personality is a must if you want to have a relationship go the distance

Posted 9/6/10

Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:


Narcissistic wrote:


Aztecnology wrote:

The subject of inner beauty is brought up a lot when we think of people wanting to compensate for a lack of physical beauty. If one cannot shoot high enough to have all they want, then they will likely settle for less.


I think that is rubbish, I would consider myself quite good looking (not arrogant) yet I would put personality and "inner beauty" as above looks. Down to individual


When a man selects a mate, he wants beauty first. However, women prefer personality over all.


Yeah, I doubt all men are as shallow as that or as stupid. Looks will fade overtime.


Not all, just the vast majority. As a man ages, he will have to learn to appreciate his partner's inner beauty.
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