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The Female Mind
Posted 9/7/10 , edited 9/7/10
Ever notice how when you walk into a room with a cat, and say you initially ignore it while everyone else might seem to notice it and want to interact with it, then it automatically sees your disinterest and wants attention from you? If you keep ignoring the cat, and even push it away when it tries to get close to you, it tends to have an even greater desire to get close to you for attention. Women are very much the same way, that is, if they find you attractive for various reasons. If you exude a powerful masculine presence in all situations, women notice it, especially through body language, since women are ten times better than a man at reading body language. Women are usually not swayed with riches and nice treatment. As they say nice guys finish last. Women prefer personality over looks. If you truly act like a man should, you can get with women (even beautiful women) much easier, even if you're not so great looking yourself. Confidence and humor are big. You'd think teasing a woman about certain things would get you nothing, but women can't help but feel attraction for those who have the gall to say these things to them. You don't abuse a woman, you amuse her. It does not require fancy gifts and restaurants, since all that just communicates to her that you are insecure and want to buy her affection. You don't convince a woman ''logically'' to be with you, you must attract her naturally, and the mechanics of that are incredibly powerful beyond all logical reasoning.

So, go out and walk like a man, talk like a man, and generally act like a man does naturally. Do not be a sissy, and let the ladies chase you instead of you chasing them.
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Posted 9/8/10 , edited 9/8/10

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Ever notice how when you walk into a room with a cat, and say you initially ignore it while everyone else might seem to notice it and want to interact with it, then it automatically sees your disinterest and wants attention from you? If you keep ignoring the cat, and even push it away when it tries to get close to you, it tends to have an even greater desire to get close to you for attention. Women are very much the same way, that is, if they find you attractive for various reasons. If you exude a powerful masculine presence in all situations, women notice it, especially through body language, since women are ten times better than a man at reading body language. Women are usually not swayed with riches and nice treatment. As they say nice guys finish last. Women prefer personality over looks. If you truly act like a man should, you can get with women (even beautiful women) much easier, even if you're not so great looking yourself. Confidence and humor are big. You'd think teasing a woman about certain things would get you nothing, but women can't help but feel attraction for those who have the gall to say these things to them. You don't abuse a woman, you amuse her. It does not require fancy gifts and restaurants, since all that just communicates to her that you are insecure and want to buy her affection. You don't convince a woman ''logically'' to be with you, you must attract her naturally, and the mechanics of that are incredibly powerful beyond all logical reasoning.

So, go out and walk like a man, talk like a man, and generally act like a man does naturally. Do not be a sissy, and let the ladies chase you instead of you chasing them.


I totally agree, but biblically speaking there is one thing I do not agree on, ahaha. You must be like where the hell are we talking about religion here, sorry. But then again it has to do with the topic and the bible has all the answers(my opinion). We women do not fall in love with a guy personality, WE DON'T. In today society they'll say that a women will fall in love with their ear while guys are visual creatures... WRONG. We are BOTH visual creatures. I believe it becauce the bible says it and because I believe it myself.

"Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."Samuel 16:7

I won't lie. I would date a guy who is physically hot or just the same attractive level as me. Then the personality goes second. After a while, personality become first and physical becomes 2nd during a long relation.
Posted 9/8/10

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Ever notice how when you walk into a room with a cat, and say you initially ignore it while everyone else might seem to notice it and want to interact with it, then it automatically sees your disinterest and wants attention from you? If you keep ignoring the cat, and even push it away when it tries to get close to you, it tends to have an even greater desire to get close to you for attention. Women are very much the same way, that is, if they find you attractive for various reasons. If you exude a powerful masculine presence in all situations, women notice it, especially through body language, since women are ten times better than a man at reading body language. Women are usually not swayed with riches and nice treatment. As they say nice guys finish last. Women prefer personality over looks. If you truly act like a man should, you can get with women (even beautiful women) much easier, even if you're not so great looking yourself. Confidence and humor are big. You'd think teasing a woman about certain things would get you nothing, but women can't help but feel attraction for those who have the gall to say these things to them. You don't abuse a woman, you amuse her. It does not require fancy gifts and restaurants, since all that just communicates to her that you are insecure and want to buy her affection. You don't convince a woman ''logically'' to be with you, you must attract her naturally, and the mechanics of that are incredibly powerful beyond all logical reasoning.

So, go out and walk like a man, talk like a man, and generally act like a man does naturally. Do not be a sissy, and let the ladies chase you instead of you chasing them.
Aside from what you mentioned in bold, I would like to point out that powerful masculinity can use dignity and grace, and that's where culture and discipline should come in. There's power in dignified presence, and nothing says masculinity quite like graceful movements. In other words, a mastery of both masculinity and feminism can be a very potent combination for attractiveness.
Posted 9/8/10
This information seems somewhat biased, even though a small portion of it is true.


Women prefer personality over looks.


This is a yes/no type of question, and I say this because not only am I guilty of doing it myself, but I know a lot of other females are as well. Usually when I meet a guy, the first thing I notice is yes, his looks. Personality is second. It's not because I'm a superficial person per say, but because no matter how good a person's personality is, if you do not find them physically attractive than you will not connect with them.


Women are usually not swayed with riches and nice treatment.


Again, this seems somewhat off the mark. A man has to have some type of income, otherwise I will not be interested in dating him. In this world, money matters. Both partners should be financially stable. Women also expect some type of exceptionable treatment


You don't abuse a woman, you amuse her. It does not require fancy gifts and restaurants, since all that just communicates to her that you are insecure and want to buy her affection.


Though a sense of humor is nice, going out once in awhile and receiving a gift just because isn't bad either.
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An attractive appearance and lack of demonstrable poverty get's you the interview. You get yourself the job.
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LosingOrbit wrote:

This information seems somewhat biased, even though a small portion of it is true.


Women prefer personality over looks.


This is a yes/no type of question, and I say this because not only am I guilty of doing it myself, but I know a lot of other females are as well. Usually when I meet a guy, the first thing I notice is yes, his looks. Personality is second. It's not because I'm a superficial person per say, but because no matter how good a person's personality is, if you do not find them physically attractive than you will not connect with them.


Women are usually not swayed with riches and nice treatment.


Again, this seems somewhat off the mark. A man has to have some type of income, otherwise I will not be interested in dating him. In this world, money matters. Both partners should be financially stable. Women also expect some type of exceptionable treatment


You don't abuse a woman, you amuse her. It does not require fancy gifts and restaurants, since all that just communicates to her that you are insecure and want to buy her affection.


Though a sense of humor is nice, going out once in awhile and receiving a gift just because isn't bad either.
Well it is true that you couldn't get a good judgment about a man's personality, without you know how well his behaviors and mannerism are. Besides, personal hygiene is important, as long as it doesn't get in the way of daily functions IMHO.
Posted 9/8/10 , edited 9/8/10

LosingOrbit wrote:

This information seems somewhat biased, even though a small portion of it is true.


Women prefer personality over looks.


This is a yes/no type of question, and I say this because not only am I guilty of doing it myself, but I know a lot of other females are as well. Usually when I meet a guy, the first thing I notice is yes, his looks. Personality is second. It's not because I'm a superficial person per say, but because no matter how good a person's personality is, if you do not find them physically attractive than you will not connect with them.


Women are usually not swayed with riches and nice treatment.


Again, this seems somewhat off the mark. A man has to have some type of income, otherwise I will not be interested in dating him. In this world, money matters. Both partners should be financially stable. Women also expect some type of exceptionable treatment


You don't abuse a woman, you amuse her. It does not require fancy gifts and restaurants, since all that just communicates to her that you are insecure and want to buy her affection.


Though a sense of humor is nice, going out once in awhile and receiving a gift just because isn't bad either.


Ans so it is that there will always be a number of women wanting rich and handsome men. I despise these creatures. They have precisely no maturity, and cannot be called women. A princess will always need the knight in shining armor to save her.
Posted 9/8/10
Uh, women...really like their shoes.
Posted 9/8/10

jandarujora wrote:

Uh, women...really like their shoes.


And they dress up mostly to compete with other women, not to impress a man.
Posted 9/8/10


That's right, I'm a despicable human being because I'd rather have a man who is fairly attractive and has a job. Excuse me for wanting a man who has his own and doesn't depend on the needs of others. I'm so selfish for that.

I'm not the type who would settle for less, for I wasn't raised to and the whole princess image is nowhere near comparable to me. Most of my life I've lived in a family with just women and even if there were men around, they never set a good example, nor did anything. So everything was left to the women, so yes I have grown picky, but not because of any reasons you've mentioned.
Posted 9/8/10

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That's right, I'm a despicable human being because I'd rather have a man who is fairly attractive and has a job. Excuse me for wanting a man who has his own and doesn't depend on the needs of others. I'm so selfish for that.

I'm not the type who would settle for less, for I wasn't raised to and the whole princess image is nowhere near comparable to me. Most of my life I've lived in a family with just women and even if there were men around, they never set a good example, nor did anything. So everything was left to the women, so yes I have grown picky, but not because of any reasons you've mentioned.


A complete loser fits no one's expectations, except for a woman who wants a project. There is such a thing as shooting too high, like if every woman will only see herself settling down with Leonardo DiCaprio. This is not to say that a great deal of women would abandon their current partners to be with someone as cool as he, or that they'd suddenly expect their man to become just as cool. If given the chance, I would love to have some time with a very classy woman, and treat her like a human being, and not something beyond that.
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What a minute here Money, money,3 looks 4 height, 5 hair on head not the body, butt crazy rich and easy to manipulate and talk with out slobbering over himself many women will go for it and the closer he is to dieing the odd get better. Money is a girls best friend but i would have to ask my mother about that one that how she did it. Me I am just crazy as a shit house rat and the word love has no meaning to me at all. I been alone all my pathetic life made money and always wounder what in the hell am i doing here. Men are to pushy and grab ass for me. I do not trust women to many are out for money. heck even some men I know want my money not me.
Posted 9/8/10

Aztecnology wrote:


LosingOrbit wrote:



That's right, I'm a despicable human being because I'd rather have a man who is fairly attractive and has a job. Excuse me for wanting a man who has his own and doesn't depend on the needs of others. I'm so selfish for that.

I'm not the type who would settle for less, for I wasn't raised to and the whole princess image is nowhere near comparable to me. Most of my life I've lived in a family with just women and even if there were men around, they never set a good example, nor did anything. So everything was left to the women, so yes I have grown picky, but not because of any reasons you've mentioned.


A complete loser fits no one's expectations, except for a woman who wants a project. There is such a thing as shooting too high, like if every woman will only see herself settling down with Leonardo DiCaprio. This is not to say that a great deal of women would abandon their current partners to be with someone as cool as he, or that they'd suddenly expect their man to become just as cool. If given the chance, I would love to have some time with a very classy woman, and treat her like a human being, and not something beyond that.


When you're used to shit you want something better, so tell me, what's wrong with wanting something better? You make it seem like having expectations is a bad thing. No where in my sentence did I say I wanted a rich man, how is a man a loser for having a job? Neither did I say he had to be handsome, but attractiveness is important, and don't lie to me and say it isn't. Also, I hella doubt he'll look like Leonardo; that's not being realistic.

For once it would just be nice to have a completely well rounded individual in my life after going through so much insanity, is that so much to ask?
Posted 9/8/10 , edited 9/8/10
Posted 9/8/10

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This is human nature, and the nature of all creatures.


Exactly.

So I might have taken your words out of context, but you didn't make it very obvious who you were referring to, or was that your intentions all along? Either way, whatever type of person I am to you is none of my concern. In the end, I'm still looking for that special someone, but right now I'll just focus on studies. My education is more important.
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