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Why is it so hard to talk to girls?
cunom 
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We can be the most confident of speakers , the coolest guy on the block, and even with the highest level of education we still get shy a round girls. Why is this?
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Fear of rejection. A man's confidence often relies highly on whether or not he can get with women successfully.
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Why is it so hard to talk to guys? XD
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_-_-Dandelion-_-_ wrote:

Why is it so hard to talk to guys? XD


Touche.
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Idk i suck at it kinda when i think im doing good something stupid happens and im like ah sugar honey iced-tea
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Guys can talk to girls. Its the fear of not being liked or even rejection and other things as well.

If i was a guy I would just go over and start conversation. BUT NO pick up lines. XD there just bad.
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Well for me i fear rejection but i also fear ending up alone..so i frantically try to find a girl to go out with..BUT since im semi-hardcore Otaku, i dont listen to mainstream music, and since im naturally shy, clumsy, and awkward girls see me as this weird 6"2 black guy =/ so they tend to avoid me or see me as a friend only =(
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its easy to talk to girls but if you like her alot thats a different story
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why is it so hard for "you" to talk to girls.
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1. Girls try to guilt trip you ("You don't have to deal with pregnancy so screw you!")
2. Girls have "Girl-talk" time.
3. We at least feel that we need women more than women need men.
4. Fear of rejection, obviously (if we're single we're pretty much keeping an eye on every single potential GF)
5. We feel that girls look at something more than the content of our character, looks, and actions (wtf could this be? I don't know)
6. We're easily overwhelmed by their beauty.
7. Sometimes they say something strange and we don't know how, or we're afraid to react.
8. Girls are complicated
9. All guys "know" that girls have tons of secrets that they keep behind our backs.
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Posted 9/8/10 , edited 9/9/10
idk, why is it so hard to talk to boys? D:
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Fear of rejection left me when I got my first piece of lady flesh. From that point on, the infinite pursuit of ass overcame any feeling I could get from girls rejecting my attempts at courting them.
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How to get over that fear is simple...don't approch them as a potential lover, but as a simple friend like any dude you meet. That's all.
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Posted 9/8/10 , edited 9/9/10

TheQuantomKing wrote:

Well for me i fear rejection but i also fear ending up alone..so i frantically try to find a girl to go out with..BUT since im semi-hardcore Otaku, i dont listen to mainstream music, and since im naturally shy, clumsy, and awkward girls see me as this weird 6"2 black guy =/ so they tend to avoid me or see me as a friend only =(


Wow me too!!!I thought i was alone
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DRO1 wrote:

Fear of rejection left me when I got my first piece of lady flesh. From that point on, the infinite pursuit of ass overcame any feeling I could get from girls rejecting my attempts at courting them.






LOL
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