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Why is it so hard to talk to girls?
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20 / M / U.S.A
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Posted 9/8/10
is it really that hard i usually do it with no problem
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Is it really hard?
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_-_-Dandelion-_-_ wrote:

Why is it so hard to talk to guys? XD


Lets talk : )

I think at a young age a guy who talked to girls was seen as weird. Girls always seen as the opposite and most guys don't want to be associated at first.
Right from the start theres 2 groups.
Then adolescence happens.
The groups start to become more mixed but the barrier never seems fully restore, theres always that boundary made harder from both guys and girls not socialising a lot, early on. I'd certainly as a younger child woul rather sit next to guy then a girl.

Hmmm, I've just seen a huge spider : ).
Posted 9/8/10

BlazziNBrowNY wrote:


_-_-Dandelion-_-_ wrote:

Why is it so hard to talk to guys? XD


Lets talk : )

I think at a young age a guy who talked to girls was seen as weird. Girls always seen as the opposite and most guys don't want to be associated at first.
Right from the start theres 2 groups.
Then adolescence happens.
The groups start to become more mixed but the barrier never seems fully restore, theres always that boundary made harder from both guys and girls not socialising a lot, early on. I'd certainly as a younger child woul rather sit next to guy then a girl.

Hmmm, I've just seen a huge spider : ).



It's funny because when I was younger, I'd hear a lot of guys talk about how weird girls are. A lot of guys still secretly think that way even at my age. That's where boobs come into play.

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Posted 9/8/10

_-_-Dandelion-_-_ wrote:


BlazziNBrowNY wrote:


_-_-Dandelion-_-_ wrote:

Why is it so hard to talk to guys? XD


Lets talk : )

I think at a young age a guy who talked to girls was seen as weird. Girls always seen as the opposite and most guys don't want to be associated at first.
Right from the start theres 2 groups.
Then adolescence happens.
The groups start to become more mixed but the barrier never seems fully restore, theres always that boundary made harder from both guys and girls not socialising a lot, early on. I'd certainly as a younger child woul rather sit next to guy then a girl.

Hmmm, I've just seen a huge spider : ).



It's funny because when I was younger, I'd hear a lot of guys talk about how weird girls are. A lot of guys still secretly think that way even at my age. That's where boobs come into play.



I mean sure even at 18 if i had a chioce between sitting next to two people that I didn't know it would be the boy every time, just due to feeling more comfortable. But I've never had a conversation about how weird girls are in recent years. We are a lot like girls in some ways, at least my friends are, just talk about the girls we like

Anyways. Its very late in England. I best sleep.
Write some more tommorow. : )
Take care.
Posted 9/8/10

BlazziNBrowNY wrote:


_-_-Dandelion-_-_ wrote:


BlazziNBrowNY wrote:


_-_-Dandelion-_-_ wrote:

Why is it so hard to talk to guys? XD


Lets talk : )

I think at a young age a guy who talked to girls was seen as weird. Girls always seen as the opposite and most guys don't want to be associated at first.
Right from the start theres 2 groups.
Then adolescence happens.
The groups start to become more mixed but the barrier never seems fully restore, theres always that boundary made harder from both guys and girls not socialising a lot, early on. I'd certainly as a younger child woul rather sit next to guy then a girl.

Hmmm, I've just seen a huge spider : ).



It's funny because when I was younger, I'd hear a lot of guys talk about how weird girls are. A lot of guys still secretly think that way even at my age. That's where boobs come into play.



I mean sure even at 18 if i had a chioce between sitting next to two people that I didn't know it would be the boy every time, just due to feeling more comfortable. But I've never had a conversation about how weird girls are in recent years. We are a lot like girls in some ways, at least my friends are, just talk about the girls we like

Anyways. Its very late in England. I best sleep.
Write some more tommorow. : )
Take care.


Well I don't have much more to say about this but alright XD Goodnight.

You too.
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freyt wrote:

1. Girls try to guilt trip you ("You don't have to deal with pregnancy so screw you!")
2. Girls have "Girl-talk" time.
3. We at least feel that we need women more than women need men.
4. Fear of rejection, obviously (if we're single we're pretty much keeping an eye on every single potential GF)
5. We feel that girls look at something more than the content of our character, looks, and actions (wtf could this be? I don't know)
6. We're easily overwhelmed by their beauty.
7. Sometimes they say something strange and we don't know how, or we're afraid to react.
8. Girls are complicated
9. All guys "know" that girls have tons of secrets that they keep behind our backs.


Interesting, but that's the beauty and fun in trying to talk to girls after all. If it was easy, there'd be no fun at all. lol
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20 / F / In My Own Little...
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Well i think its that guys dont noe what to say to girls cuz they might listen to diffrent music, artists, tastes in things .
if i was a guy i wouldnt be much afraid of rejection of a girl . its just a person....
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Posted 9/8/10
we're not very nice :p
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the reason it's hard is because you over complicate it.
in general if you don't act like an idiot, people are easy to talk to
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33 / M / St.Louis Mo
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Posted 9/8/10
Trust me i feel your pain.
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TheQuantomKing wrote:

Well for me i fear rejection but i also fear ending up alone..so i frantically try to find a girl to go out with..BUT since im semi-hardcore Otaku, i dont listen to mainstream music, and since im naturally shy, clumsy, and awkward girls see me as this weird 6"2 black guy =/ so they tend to avoid me or see me as a friend only =(



I know what ya mean. when i try to go out with a girl and she finds out I'm in to anime and into an Otaku; she gets weirded out . I'm never going to give up on what i love cause of that though
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25 / M / Brandon, FL
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Posted 9/8/10
I'm to shy to talk to girls unless I'm really interested in them. Even then its still hard to talk to them, then they think I am weird because I watch anime and stuff.
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Posted 9/8/10 , edited 9/8/10

Taiwangirl wrote:

the reason it's hard is because you over complicate it.
in general if you don't act like an idiot, people are easy to talk to


i dont see any reason why it should be hard to talk to people even a dean

tho imo its easier to talk to girls than guys for w/e reason
Posted 9/8/10
everybody hates rejections and making fun of themselves
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