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Why is it so hard to talk to girls?
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21 / M / California
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Posted 9/8/10
It isn't very hard for me o.o I might be shy at first, but I'll open up eventually.

If you're having problems, it's probably just in your head. You have to stop thinking that you're messing up/going to mess up or you actually will. Just be confident!
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31 / M / Yakima Valley...WA
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Posted 9/9/10
A word of wisdom, "Confidence in yourself is the best cologne to wear to a great first impression."
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27 / M / soul society
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Posted 9/9/10
wow, i thought i was the only one lol
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33 / M / St.Louis Mo
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Posted 9/10/10
I wonder if girl have the same problem
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26 / M / California
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Posted 9/10/10

freyt wrote:

1. Girls try to guilt trip you ("You don't have to deal with pregnancy so screw you!")
2. Girls have "Girl-talk" time.
3. We at least feel that we need women more than women need men.
4. Fear of rejection, obviously (if we're single we're pretty much keeping an eye on every single potential GF)
5. We feel that girls look at something more than the content of our character, looks, and actions (wtf could this be? I don't know)
6. We're easily overwhelmed by their beauty.
7. Sometimes they say something strange and we don't know how, or we're afraid to react.
8. Girls are complicated
9. All guys "know" that girls have tons of secrets that they keep behind our backs.


That pretty much sums it up imo. Number 4 especially.

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Posted 9/10/10

idk, maybe just doesnt want to get hurt
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Usually guys who talk to me, flatters alot..and it's making me awkward. I prefer guys being casual....i dont like cheezy talks.
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23 / M / At The Moment & T...
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not really hard for me. (unless i really dont want to talk to the person)
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Posted 9/10/10
Why make it so hard?
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22 / M / Earth, CA
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Posted 9/10/10
to judgmental
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Posted 9/10/10

TheQuantomKing wrote:

Well for me i fear rejection but i also fear ending up alone..so i frantically try to find a girl to go out with..BUT since im semi-hardcore Otaku, i dont listen to mainstream music, and since im naturally shy, clumsy, and awkward girls see me as this weird 6"2 black guy =/ so they tend to avoid me or see me as a friend only =(


Ten years from now you will be just like me;
Money in your pocket, confidently awkward and accepting of your role in life, with many women that love you for who you are.
Ten years ago, I always wondered why nso few would give me a shot, but the poor females need to hit their heads first before we become eligible picks; sort of like a second round draft pick
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Tsekatsu wrote:

I'm to shy to talk to girls unless I'm really interested in them. Even then its still hard to talk to them, then they think I am weird because I watch anime and stuff.


I used to be afraid of that. But now I'm super open with it. Guys don't seem to mind that I love comic books/manga or that I wear star wars t-shirts to school.
You just have to be open with that part of yourself, people will get used to it. They only think it's weird if you do it on the down-low or wear ninja head bands. Confidence is hott.
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Posted 9/11/10
From the Discovery channel:

in groups they are cutthroat and vicious tacticians, catch the sickly, small, or slightly chubby one alone -- and its all gravy from there
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22 / M / The Netherlands
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Posted 9/11/10
fear of rejection
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33 / M / St.Louis Mo
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Posted 9/11/10
Yep that about sums that up.
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