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Why is it so hard to talk to girls?
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26 / M / Secret Base
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Posted 9/11/10
Talk to them about what? Please make your question clear.

If you mean as in chatting them up, then I guess I don't because there's a very good chance I'll be rejected so I wouldn't want to waste the effort. Please I see girls generally as a hold in my wallet anyway... Bad attitude I know.

If you mean talking to them in general, then I'm not shy at all. As long as I get SOME response out of them I can usually strike up a conversation, but if all they want to talk about is shoes and PMS then I'm kinda scrwed, so depends on the person.
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Posted 9/11/10 , edited 9/11/10
It isn't. At least....it shouldn't be.

The more you think about it, the most difficult it will be, I guess. I associate with others while believing the idea that all humans are nothing more than flesh, blood, and bone. If you think about it that way, everyone is the same and it would be foolish to have trouble talking to somebody your level.
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Posted 9/11/10
dude... we're people... we don't bite...
unless you want us to but that would require quite an intimate relationship and since you can't seem to approach us in the first place there's no point in asking us to but even then it would seem weird to ask us to bite you. Most girls wold run away if someone asked them to bite them, unless that girl is into that stuff but those people are very rare but it's even harder to find someone who asks someone to bite them... those people are like one in a million, maybe... although I don't know that much about that stuff, I don't want to bite anyone neither do i want anyone to bite me... so my point is
don't think too much...

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Posted 9/11/10

cunom wrote:

We can be the most confident of speakers , the coolest guy on the block, and even with the highest level of education we still get shy a round girls. Why is this?


Seriously, based on the qualities you provide, it just means the guy likes the girl. If you're a confident in nature, having a conversation ain't that hard. Unless you're a natural shy person, there's actually no difficulty to interact with people in your class.

Furthermore, girls are not complicated creatures. They just had their little woes and what's not in their head that are not very polite to say it out loud. If you understand their little woes, then, basically, you've had conquer them (as a friend of course)
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Posted 9/11/10
it's also hard for women to talk to guys ! this is the way humans work !!
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22 / M
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Posted 9/11/10
Rejection and I don't want to be an embrass of myself in front of her. I'm always nervous when I talked to
hot girls or cute. Ahaha! Some of my friends really good talking with them, but not me. I'm okay with it.
Still learning it. My friends told me don't be a pussy or afriad about it. It's a girl.
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Posted 9/11/10
guys are scared of us. aaw...
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26 / F
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Posted 10/11/10
Just do it don't be afraid. they won't bite lol .
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19 / F / Stalking you.Yes...
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Posted 10/11/10
Note to the guys:
I don't know about other girls, but i have a hard time starting a conversation with a guy, but every time a guy starts a conversation with me it tends to be easy to carry on.
if you want an opinion of a girl,
just ask me
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Posted 10/11/10
Chill out, don't think about it and go talk to her, usually were flattered when someone takes interest
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LOLWHAT11 wrote:

Just do it don't be afraid. they won't bite lol .


Some well .
Posted 10/11/10
I'm always stuck in the friend zone. It's a bit depressing.
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Posted 10/11/10
Its really not that hard talking with women, just like talking to anyone else. The problem some people run into when talking with the opposite sex is that they think way to hard about what to say and what not. Just have to carry a conversation like you would with anyone else.
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Posted 10/11/10

cunom wrote:

We can be the most confident of speakers , the coolest guy on the block, and even with the highest level of education we still get shy a round girls. Why is this?
its just the way it is brotha

Posted 10/11/10
I always start with common interest than expand upon that. Don't let them know your nervous because some women are the biggest tease in the world.
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