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Why is it so hard to talk to girls?
Posted 10/11/10

Oturanjp wrote:

A word of wisdom, "Confidence in yourself is the best cologne to wear to a great first impression."


Incorrect, "The only cologne a gentleman needs is the smoke of his pipe."

To the topic, I would attribute the issue to biological responses to infatuation, such as increased heart rate, increased neural activity, etcetera, all while ones mind is racing in attempts to calculate the best possible responses and actions to produce a favorable outcome in the situation. The most favorable outcome will ultimately not be achieved due to all of these effects causing one to fear that any action may be the incorrect action causing a loss of any future opportunity with the specific person of interest.
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Fear of rejection. A man's confidence often relies highly on whether or not he can get with women successfully.


true lol
they hate to lose
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Posted 10/11/10

freyt wrote:

1. Girls try to guilt trip you ("You don't have to deal with pregnancy so screw you!")
2. Girls have "Girl-talk" time.
3. We at least feel that we need women more than women need men.
4. Fear of rejection, obviously (if we're single we're pretty much keeping an eye on every single potential GF)
5. We feel that girls look at something more than the content of our character, looks, and actions (wtf could this be? I don't know)
6. We're easily overwhelmed by their beauty.
7. Sometimes they say something strange and we don't know how, or we're afraid to react.
8. Girls are complicated
9. All guys "know" that girls have tons of secrets that they keep behind our backs.


nice summer
p.s psst what kind of secrets ?
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Fear of rejection. A man's confidence often relies highly on whether or not he can get with women successfully.


true lol
they hate to lose


that isn't funny and jcole's song dreams can explain what some of these guys are feeling lol jk
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Posted 10/11/10

cha1nsawyofac3 wrote:


cuteanimegirl07 wrote:


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Fear of rejection. A man's confidence often relies highly on whether or not he can get with women successfully.


true lol
they hate to lose


that isn't funny and jcole's song dreams can explain what some of these guys are feeling lol jk


well since i am close to most of the guys my friend 80% are guys lol
when we talk about this its so funny

i wonder how guys and girls misunderstand each other
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Posted 10/11/10

LOLWHAT11 wrote:

Just do it don't be afraid. they won't bite lol .


Aww don’t be shy you know you like a good nibble, drawing blood is just a bonus....I don't find talking to girls hard it the start of the conversation that's hard I never know what to say after "Hey how you doin".....
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Posted 10/11/10
It isn't?
Man up?
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Posted 10/11/10
i agree with the post above
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Posted 10/12/10

cunom wrote:

We can be the most confident of speakers , the coolest guy on the block, and even with the highest level of education we still get shy a round girls. Why is this?


its time to stop being a wuss. No girls think wussies are attractive, and just think of them as the "friend" types
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Posted 10/12/10
no idea... lolz
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Posted 10/20/10
idk to you guys
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Posted 10/20/10
just talk! (: we wont bite
Posted 10/22/10
Depends on the girl, some girls talk wayyy too much and you can't even get a word in. Otherwise I guess its down to confidence
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Posted 10/22/10
Is it?
Posted 10/22/10
Talkin to girls isn't....hard......it's actually super easy
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