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Do you think losing your virginity defines your social status?
Posted 9/17/10
I'm still a virgin, and I really don't care. If I lose it I lose it. It's not like I'm losing my life. And I do live in the U.S., But I wasn't born here. I was born in Israel, and that's part of Asia. So really you're a virgin, good for you. And if you're not, it doesn't mean you're dirt or anything, just that you lost it that's all. By the way this is just my opinion so don't start criticizing me -.-
Posted 9/17/10
I dont think it should, its none of anyone's business, I guess as long as the person doesnt go spreading there dirty laundry to other people as well as strangers then it shouldn't be bad.
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Posted 9/17/10
Saving myself for someone worth enjoying the experience is a worthy cause. But the truth is all that inexperience can cause the other person to find it uncomfortable experience. But you don't learn that stuff in high school with the rest of the people who lost it you can miss out on some extra fun. Unless you have a really good teacher for the first one you make love to your going to end up being compared to other people if the other one has experience too.

Now I did grow up in a Christan Society, So I know all the stigma behind losing it. But the Truth is I just don't care about that stuff right now cause it really is dangerous to sleep with someone unless you use protection. Plus using protection is the best way to protect your self and I Don't feel like going to the store and Buying it. Just so I can have someone look at me and say oh good luck or something like that. Plus I really don't want kids till i'm 30 and have a decent job to afford diapers and baby food along with everything I need in my life.
I don't want my kid to grow up with both parents working there butts off Just to make ends meet. I wan't to have a stable life first. Mistakes happen and I was one of them. I'm not making the same mistake my parents made. Plus I'd feel better if the girl bought the condoms Cause I think that is hot.
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Posted 9/17/10
i could care less. i like cars and sports more haha
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Posted 9/17/10
I would say that I hate people who lose their virginity to become part of the norm or to become popular because it's meaningless. My little sister's best friend who is 14 lost her viriginity to her boyfriend but I think that's too young. I mean if you love the person it seems right, right? But High school for me is too early because almost always you will find someone who you will really love and don't you want to save it for someone who you will truly love? And sometimes you will regret losing it especially if the person you lost it to turns out to be a ****head you know? So for me I would rather stay abstinent and independent and become successful.
Posted 9/17/10
Status? Like I give a fuck about whether or not someone knows I had sex. I'm not a porn star.
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37 / F / Williamsport, PA
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Posted 9/18/10
I don't think it really matters much. People should definitely follow their own personal beliefs with that sort of thing though, or they'll regret it later. When I was in high school people liked to gossip about you whether you did anything or not. The cliques were formed by other standards.
Posted 9/23/10
Im a loser, so I would say I dont care. Also, I have no social status. Im all alone here in this damn country.

*looks at parents 200 miles off* i miss my mommy
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Posted 9/23/10
very important, i plan on losing my virginity to the man i marry, who ever uses it for a social status i think is really shallow, and dumb, idc if ur a virgin or not, all the same status to me
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Posted 9/23/10
very especially if your 12 it basically says your a slut lol
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Posted 9/24/10
Yes and no!!!

I think if you feel losing your vaginity will make you popular ... you have serious issues ... it will only make you a slut, whether you a man or woman!!!
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Posted 9/24/10
We've got a lot to worry about like bills, "love", school.. Than worrying about virginity.

Well like the other guy said, it depends on your morals.. True..

Here's my opinion though.. Since I grew up in Asia, it's kinda important like.. You know after marriage.. But.. For me.. It doesn't matter when.. It's yours.. You decide for it.. Make sure you don't get pregnant at the wrong time though.. That would suck.. In Asia some girls brag that their still a virgin, etc. etc. but they have piece of shit attitudes.. Here's what I thought.. I would marry a whore who changed and stop doing that business for me than a virgin who I don't get along with.. Or a gold digger or whatever..
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