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Superscript wrote:

Okay bro, if getting laid more than other guys and stuff floats your boat who am I to sink it. I just looked at the term on the online dictionary, I didn't make that up( http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/casual+sex) Beyond that I don't even take this seriously enough to debate.


Please don't be dumb, do you always believe everything you read on line?
http://www.merriam-webster.com/

http://oxforddictionaries.com/?attempted=true

The term casual sex is a slang, that's why you cant find it side a "real" dictionary like merriam or oxford.

The definition of casual sex can be found here:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=casual%20sex
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Posted 10/1/10

Yohannbear wrote:


BulletproofAnaDoll wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:

I dont think majority of the user here would understand the concept of casual sex....

with that being said sex isnt always about love and bonding but very much getting your fix later on in a hectic and busy life....


Not agreeing with the subject does not mean one doesn't understand it.
I can't speak for the others, but I know what "casual sex" is, and I am against it.


well using the excuse "i dont want std" has nothing to do with casual sex... thats why alot of people dont understand it.


Then you should refer to those people, who used that "argument."
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Posted 10/1/10

Yohannbear wrote:


Superscript wrote:


animeaddict0 wrote:

whats that???
the only casual i know are parties and dresses not sex....
can someone please explain........


Just sex for fun, without bothering about all the relationship stuff that would go with it.. usually when people have casual sex they don't know each other very well and then part ways after wards.


Your mixing up one night stands and casual sex....this is why i say most people dont understand what casual sex is....


They didn't mix it up.
Some call one night stands "casual sex," while others use the term to describe sex in a "casual relationship."

Casual sex lacks emotional ties, and occurs outside of a committed relationship.
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Posted 10/1/10

BulletproofAnaDoll wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:


Superscript wrote:


animeaddict0 wrote:

whats that???
the only casual i know are parties and dresses not sex....
can someone please explain........


Just sex for fun, without bothering about all the relationship stuff that would go with it.. usually when people have casual sex they don't know each other very well and then part ways after wards.


Your mixing up one night stands and casual sex....this is why i say most people dont understand what casual sex is....


They didn't mix it up.
Some call one night stands "casual sex," while others use the term to describe sex in a "casual relationship."

Casual sex lacks emotional ties, and occurs outside of a committed relationship.


Thats why its wrong, causal sex and one night stands are completely different things. Again i will explain:

One Night stand: You meet a girl at a bar you take her home and sleep with her and you never talk to her again. All happens in one day.

Casual Sex: My best friend of 10 years Sally broke up with her BF and is very sad so I offer to let her rebound off me. I still talk to her and we are still best friends and we both pretended nothing has happened. Many years down the line we have sex again and we pretend nothing has happen.

All I can say is how many times have you had casual sex and one night stands?

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Yohannbear wrote:


BulletproofAnaDoll wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:


Superscript wrote:


animeaddict0 wrote:

whats that???
the only casual i know are parties and dresses not sex....
can someone please explain........


Just sex for fun, without bothering about all the relationship stuff that would go with it.. usually when people have casual sex they don't know each other very well and then part ways after wards.


Your mixing up one night stands and casual sex....this is why i say most people dont understand what casual sex is....


They didn't mix it up.
Some call one night stands "casual sex," while others use the term to describe sex in a "casual relationship."

Casual sex lacks emotional ties, and occurs outside of a committed relationship.


Thats why its wrong, causal sex and one night stands are completely different things. Again i will explain:

One Night stand: You meet a girl at a bar you take her home and sleep with her and you never talk to her again. All happens in one day.

Casual Sex: My best friend of 10 years Sally broke up with her BF and is very sad so I offer to let her rebound off me. I still talk to her and we are still best friends and we both pretended nothing has happened. Many years down the line we have sex again and we pretend nothing has happen.

All I can say is how many times have you had casual sex and one night stands?



I will say it again, since you didn't understand the first time:
It wasn't WRONG.
BOTH of the examples you mentioned are labeled as casual sex.
"Casual sex" would be a category, and "one night stand" would be a "sub-category."

All I have to say is, I've never killed anyone. Do I have to have killed someone to know what "killing" is?
You don't have to have tried something to know the definition of it.
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BulletproofAnaDoll wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:


BulletproofAnaDoll wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:


Superscript wrote:


animeaddict0 wrote:

whats that???
the only casual i know are parties and dresses not sex....
can someone please explain........


Just sex for fun, without bothering about all the relationship stuff that would go with it.. usually when people have casual sex they don't know each other very well and then part ways after wards.


Your mixing up one night stands and casual sex....this is why i say most people dont understand what casual sex is....


They didn't mix it up.
Some call one night stands "casual sex," while others use the term to describe sex in a "casual relationship."

Casual sex lacks emotional ties, and occurs outside of a committed relationship.


Thats why its wrong, causal sex and one night stands are completely different things. Again i will explain:

One Night stand: You meet a girl at a bar you take her home and sleep with her and you never talk to her again. All happens in one day.

Casual Sex: My best friend of 10 years Sally broke up with her BF and is very sad so I offer to let her rebound off me. I still talk to her and we are still best friends and we both pretended nothing has happened. Many years down the line we have sex again and we pretend nothing has happen.

All I can say is how many times have you had casual sex and one night stands?



I will say it again, since you didn't understand the first time:
It wasn't WRONG.
BOTH of the examples you mentioned are labeled as casual sex.
"Casual sex" would be a category, and "one night stand" would be a "sub-category."

All I have to say is, I've never killed anyone. Do I have to have killed someone to know what "killing" is?
You don't have to have tried something to know the definition of it.


Okay one last try:

In order to have casual sex both person A and person B has to be emotionally void with each other in complete agreement. in order to have casual sex. They can go on interaction with each other like nothing has happened, that is why its called "casual" sex.

When your in a one night stand situation person A could be head over heels and in love with person B and person B just wants to get laid, then stop talking to person A the next day. Thats what you call a "ONS"

Also sweetie experiencing something and reading a definition out of a book is completely different. Wont you agree if i read about breaking up with someone in a book and then do it in real life with someone i love very much the definition of breaking up to me would change?






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Casual sex is both yes and no as a one night stand, but it depends on how a person perceives what "casual sex" means to them. In my opinion here's what casual sex means....

The Same:

*No strings or emotional attachment. Specifically for sexual pleasure.

The Difference:

* One night means for one night only with no strings attached. You don't see, talk, communicate or pursue any further contact or sleep with them again.

* Casual sex can be a recurring sexual encounter with the same person or anyone you choose with the understanding that there is no strings attach.

But that's just how I perceive it in my opinion.

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Posted 10/1/10
no... I guess....

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ewwwww . - is what i can say. ~~
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Posted 10/1/10

Yohannbear wrote:


BulletproofAnaDoll wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:


BulletproofAnaDoll wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:


Superscript wrote:


animeaddict0 wrote:

whats that???
the only casual i know are parties and dresses not sex....
can someone please explain........


Just sex for fun, without bothering about all the relationship stuff that would go with it.. usually when people have casual sex they don't know each other very well and then part ways after wards.


Your mixing up one night stands and casual sex....this is why i say most people dont understand what casual sex is....


They didn't mix it up.
Some call one night stands "casual sex," while others use the term to describe sex in a "casual relationship."

Casual sex lacks emotional ties, and occurs outside of a committed relationship.


Thats why its wrong, causal sex and one night stands are completely different things. Again i will explain:

One Night stand: You meet a girl at a bar you take her home and sleep with her and you never talk to her again. All happens in one day.

Casual Sex: My best friend of 10 years Sally broke up with her BF and is very sad so I offer to let her rebound off me. I still talk to her and we are still best friends and we both pretended nothing has happened. Many years down the line we have sex again and we pretend nothing has happen.

All I can say is how many times have you had casual sex and one night stands?



I will say it again, since you didn't understand the first time:
It wasn't WRONG.
BOTH of the examples you mentioned are labeled as casual sex.
"Casual sex" would be a category, and "one night stand" would be a "sub-category."

All I have to say is, I've never killed anyone. Do I have to have killed someone to know what "killing" is?
You don't have to have tried something to know the definition of it.


Okay one last try:

In order to have casual sex both person A and person B has to be emotionally void with each other in complete agreement. in order to have casual sex. They can go on interaction with each other like nothing has happened, that is why its called "casual" sex.

When your in a one night stand situation person A could be head over heels and in love with person B and person B just wants to get laid, then stop talking to person A the next day. Thats what you call a "ONS"

Also sweetie experiencing something and reading a definition out of a book is completely different. Wont you agree if i read about breaking up with someone in a book and then do it in real life with someone i love very much the definition of breaking up to me would change?



No, I would not agree.
There are definitions for things.
After you experience something, it doesn't change what the thing was in the first place.
If an apple is an apple, it remains an apple after you eat it.
Can you give me an apple, and then after I eat it, I say it is a pear?
If you read about breaking up, and then break up with someone in real life, the act of "breaking up" remains the same.
Maybe you broke up differently from the way the person in the book did it, but you're not changing what "breaking up" actually is.

And for your information, a one night stand is a single encounter in which, neither individual A nor individual B, have any intention or expectation of establishing an emotional/romantic relationship, ergo, casual sex.
You can keep denying it but they are both considered casual sex.
Now if you can't understand that then I can't help you.
But stop arguing facts with me.

(The only reason you keep denying that a one night stand is casual sex is because your own experience of casual sex was not a one night stand.)
Posted 10/2/10
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Nope. Only with my bf that i <3
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GAPeachGT wrote:

I don't think I have the mentaility for casual sex. I just get too attached :3 not to mention im extremely jealous x_x


Same with me. No casual sex for me!
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No wai jose!
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