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is it true that if you're looking for a relationship it doesn't come true, but if you're not looking, it happens?
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Posted 9/24/10
i was just wondering if it applies to everyone.
Posted 9/24/10
oh i just give the girl 50 dollars and expect something in return
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Posted 9/24/10
i guess so...im not sure..>< since i dont have any experience...hahaha:)!)
Posted 9/24/10
I've heard that many times, that if you be patient enough & constantly look for a bf/gf, they will find you. I sorta believe it, but that quote varies for different people.
Posted 9/24/10
I think if your not looking for a relationship you'll eventually find someone more compatible to you... or you'll end up alone for the rest of your life
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Posted 9/24/10
yes, well said. (you explained it better than me)
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The reason this is true to some extent is that when you are LOOKING for someone you tend to seem desperate at times. When you are not looking for someone you give off that vibe that attracts people around you.
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Posted 9/24/10
I've heard that in most cases that happens... but I'm everyone's different, right? ^^;
on another note, if you're just desperate for someone then you might end up with someone who takes advantage of you or something, and that's probably why that quote applies.
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Posted 9/24/10
Not strictly true. But it might be indirectly true, for this simple reason;
If you are actively looking, you might come off "strong", seem a little forward or aggressive with your intended target, and scare them off.

I think your question might apply more to men than women. I've met a great deal of women, who interestingly enough gets off on the "hunt". They like to "turn" a guy. Seduce him. Feel that they won something in this guy. Although this was traditionally a male thing. We'd beat our chests, show off our tailfeathers or fight rivals to prove how superior we were and attract females. And although this still goes on, it has less to do with finding a relationship, and more to do with our ego.


I don't know the answer though. Personally i have never ever looked for a realtionship. So i have no idea if i would have had more or less relationships if i had looked for them, they always seem to develop naturally. I think it really depends on the type of person you are attracted too.
Some people will get spooked by an aggressive approach, others might need obvious strong advances to reassure them that it's ok, and feelings wont be unrequited.
Posted 9/24/10 , edited 9/24/10
It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.
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Posted 9/25/10 , edited 9/25/10

Northerner wrote:

It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.


This doesn't make sense. If we all just sat back and relax, who's gonna do the work of searching? o_o
Posted 9/25/10

Mizzxvii wrote:


Northerner wrote:

It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.


This doesn't make sense. If we all just sat back and relax, who's gonna do the work of searching? o_o


Take a casual approach to things. Don't rush.
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Posted 9/25/10

Northerner wrote:


Mizzxvii wrote:


Northerner wrote:

It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.


This doesn't make sense. If we all just sat back and relax, who's gonna do the work of searching? o_o


Take a casual approach to things. Don't rush.


That didn't answer my question
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Posted 9/25/10

Off111 wrote:

Not strictly true. But it might be indirectly true, for this simple reason;
If you are actively looking, you might come off "strong", seem a little forward or aggressive with your intended target, and scare them off.

I think your question might apply more to men than women. I've met a great deal of women, who interestingly enough gets off on the "hunt". They like to "turn" a guy. Seduce him. Feel that they won something in this guy. Although this was traditionally a male thing. We'd beat our chests, show off our tailfeathers or fight rivals to prove how superior we were and attract females. And although this still goes on, it has less to do with finding a relationship, and more to do with our ego.


I don't know the answer though. Personally i have never ever looked for a realtionship. So i have no idea if i would have had more or less relationships if i had looked for them, they always seem to develop naturally. I think it really depends on the type of person you are attracted too.
Some people will get spooked by an aggressive approach, others might need obvious strong advances to reassure them that it's ok, and feelings wont be unrequited.


Nicely put.

People say you'll find someone when you least expect it. I think we all should just let nature run its course.
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Posted 9/25/10
i dunno...
all i know is the right timing will come
wether you seek for it or not
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