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is it true that if you're looking for a relationship it doesn't come true, but if you're not looking, it happens?
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Posted 9/25/10

Northerner wrote:

It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.


I've never ever believed in sitting back waiting for someone to magically appear at your doorstep saying hi honey I'm home. I honestly believe you just simply have to always be out on the lookout for one but not to the point of being desperate enough to date w/e comes crawling to you.

Just be who you are and I'm sure finding one will be easy enough...at least its always worked for me.
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Posted 9/25/10
i think you can always find someone out there if you want to, if you are that desperate (find a text/chat mate/ask someone out)
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Posted 9/25/10
Probably..Maybe..let's see what happens to me
Posted 9/25/10

Mizzxvii wrote:


Northerner wrote:


Mizzxvii wrote:


Northerner wrote:

It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.


This doesn't make sense. If we all just sat back and relax, who's gonna do the work of searching? o_o


Take a casual approach to things. Don't rush.


That didn't answer my question


Don't be too aggressive.
Posted 9/25/10

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Northerner wrote:

It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.


I've never ever believed in sitting back waiting for someone to magically appear at your doorstep saying hi honey I'm home. I honestly believe you just simply have to always be out on the lookout for one but not to the point of being desperate enough to date w/e comes crawling to you.

Just be who you are and I'm sure finding one will be easy enough...at least its always worked for me.


Yeah, you can't expect someone to psychically know you are in a particular place. The product needs advertisement.
Posted 9/25/10
Go out an meet new people (preferably not online) in the flesh. Don't think of it as a relationship-seeking thing simply meeting new people and then see what becomes of it.

Getting out more is the only way.
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69 / M / Limbo
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Posted 9/25/10
Nah thats bullshit. Don't believe it... don't believe anything!

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23 / F / Califonia
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Posted 9/25/10
I think this phrase refers to "dont look so much, it would eventually happen"
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23 / M / Canada [Oh Canada~]
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Posted 9/25/10
It doesn't matter for me, I always attract the weird women who are out to get me. Why can't they leave me alone in the library.


I want to read not flirt with you.
Posted 9/25/10
Well..I think if it's obvious you're looking, you'll lessen the chances. 0_o Makes you seem desperate and, of course, that's a big turn-off. I'd rather a guy come along for me, not the other way around.
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21 / M / California
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Posted 9/25/10
Not necessarily a true statement, but that's how it is sometimes. I can look for a relationship and actually get into one, but I think it's better to just try to meet people with no ulterior motives. So if/when something sparks, it'll be special and unexpected.
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Posted 9/25/10
haha, never fell in love yet.
so idk. it does happen.
it's funny how a girl gets with a guy,
and later on she finds out her guy friend liked her.
the guy friend never noticed he liked her. haha. :D
he's been DENYING IT! LOL.
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Posted 9/25/10
Yes and no. People are more likely to make positive connections when they are relaxed and time passes more slowly when you are waiting for something, so it seems like not looking is the best answer. At the same time, when you are not open to the possibility the opportunities are not seen when they do arrive. Best just not to worry about it too much.
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Posted 9/25/10
You should just chill out and someone will eventually notice your awesomeness
I'm saying this with my long experience of 0 relationships...
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Posted 9/25/10

Northerner wrote:


Mizzxvii wrote:


Northerner wrote:


Mizzxvii wrote:


Northerner wrote:

It has been said that your true love will come and find YOU. So, just sit back and relax.


This doesn't make sense. If we all just sat back and relax, who's gonna do the work of searching? o_o


Take a casual approach to things. Don't rush.


That didn't answer my question


Don't be too aggressive.


Still didn't answer my question
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