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Real Life Self Defense Scenarios
Posted 11/4/10

WhenDreamsDie wrote:

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After speaking to the driver and also to other women who live in the area and ride the bus on a regular basis I learned that most of the time the bus is fairly full, the attacker is most often a mentally unstable homeless person or a gang member. The other passengers either ignore the assualt or simply watch as it happens. Sometimes, if the assault is severe the driver will actually leave the bus. Thats how it is here on our downtown busses any time of day. I also know from experience that in Japan when the busses get crowded day or night, there is the problem of being felt up even when standing. I don't know where you live that this would be an uncommon thing but Kudos to your bus system if they can keep the crazies under control better than ours can.

Yeah I heard about that in Japan, I've been there many times but luckily I've never been felt up. My area is quite safe but I understand that a lot of gang culture occurs in America, we have some here in the UK but not where I live, its mainly East London areas alone that have gang culture.
Posted 11/4/10

Chained_Angel wrote:


WhenDreamsDie wrote:

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After speaking to the driver and also to other women who live in the area and ride the bus on a regular basis I learned that most of the time the bus is fairly full, the attacker is most often a mentally unstable homeless person or a gang member. The other passengers either ignore the assualt or simply watch as it happens. Sometimes, if the assault is severe the driver will actually leave the bus. Thats how it is here on our downtown busses any time of day. I also know from experience that in Japan when the busses get crowded day or night, there is the problem of being felt up even when standing. I don't know where you live that this would be an uncommon thing but Kudos to your bus system if they can keep the crazies under control better than ours can.

Yeah I heard about that in Japan, I've been there many times but luckily I've never been felt up. My area is quite safe but I understand that a lot of gang culture occurs in America, we have some here in the UK but not where I live, its mainly East London areas alone that have gang culture.

I live in the states and visit Japan often. I've come across iit n other countries too. That's why I thought it would make a good scenario to practice.
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Posted 11/20/10

WhenDreamsDie wrote:



I generally avoid busses all together but if I must be on the bus I do try to get into a spot that is easier to avoid the pervs. It only happened to me once and he had one arm pinned so, since he was so much bigger than me (I'm only 5ft tall and 90pounds) I used the only other hand I had to grab his privates and squeeze as hard as I possibly could until he threw me out into the aisle to get the "crazy woman off him". The other passengers did nothing which I hear is fairly common. When I spoke to the driver he said the guy is a homeless dude and that stuff like this happens all the time with the homeless who ride our inner city busses. They just like to terrorize the other riders because they know they can. He said they very seldom actually "hurt" anyone; just intimidate people or maybe feel up a woman or masturbate using some females hand by force now and then. The driver seemed to think it was nothing more serious than a prank would be. The guy got detained after I called, while still on the bus, to report it but he was back out the next day when I drove to the mission because he waved at me as I drove into the lot.


you forgot to twist and pull
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Posted 11/20/10

Eastwell2002 wrote:


WhenDreamsDie wrote:



I generally avoid busses all together but if I must be on the bus I do try to get into a spot that is easier to avoid the pervs. It only happened to me once and he had one arm pinned so, since he was so much bigger than me (I'm only 5ft tall and 90pounds) I used the only other hand I had to grab his privates and squeeze as hard as I possibly could until he threw me out into the aisle to get the "crazy woman off him". The other passengers did nothing which I hear is fairly common. When I spoke to the driver he said the guy is a homeless dude and that stuff like this happens all the time with the homeless who ride our inner city busses. They just like to terrorize the other riders because they know they can. He said they very seldom actually "hurt" anyone; just intimidate people or maybe feel up a woman or masturbate using some females hand by force now and then. The driver seemed to think it was nothing more serious than a prank would be. The guy got detained after I called, while still on the bus, to report it but he was back out the next day when I drove to the mission because he waved at me as I drove into the lot.


you forgot to twist and pull
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LOL I suppose I did... I always forget something important when I need to defend myself. ;-)
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Posted 11/20/10

WhenDreamsDie wrote:


Eastwell2002 wrote:


WhenDreamsDie wrote:



I generally avoid busses all together but if I must be on the bus I do try to get into a spot that is easier to avoid the pervs. It only happened to me once and he had one arm pinned so, since he was so much bigger than me (I'm only 5ft tall and 90pounds) I used the only other hand I had to grab his privates and squeeze as hard as I possibly could until he threw me out into the aisle to get the "crazy woman off him". The other passengers did nothing which I hear is fairly common. When I spoke to the driver he said the guy is a homeless dude and that stuff like this happens all the time with the homeless who ride our inner city busses. They just like to terrorize the other riders because they know they can. He said they very seldom actually "hurt" anyone; just intimidate people or maybe feel up a woman or masturbate using some females hand by force now and then. The driver seemed to think it was nothing more serious than a prank would be. The guy got detained after I called, while still on the bus, to report it but he was back out the next day when I drove to the mission because he waved at me as I drove into the lot.


you forgot to twist and pull
'grab,squeeze,twist and pull


LOL I suppose I did... I always forget something important when I need to defend myself. ;-)


LOL I dunno. I guess what you did was probably enough for him to think twice

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