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Posted 10/18/10
^ Agree.
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Posted 10/18/10

ayshika wrote:

ewww.... why would you do such a prideless n shameful thing to begin with?!

gross.. .


Is it shameless and prideful to be caught masturbating in your room instead?
I'm just saying, a relationship comes with it's pro's and cons, having a relationship without the obligatory parental visits, time spent watching that girly movie or holding hands staring at puppies & sunsets or even skyping or homework.....
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To be caught doing that is dumb as well <.<
A relationship that involves just sex...what sort of relationship is that?
But maybe it's just too much to expect people in this modern society to feel that such intimate and special acts should really only be done with that people whom you have feelings for O.o
Yes, i may sounds ridiculously old but that's the truth. One of the many reasons people get hurt so much nowadays is because of carefree sex like this isn't it?
People should be able to control urges like these and not just sleep with anyone out there to satisfy themselves.
Makes you look super unattractive in my opinon. And then again, in MY opinion.
So do what you like, not like i care O.o
I just think its gross is all *shrug* ^^"
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Posted 10/18/10 , edited 10/18/10

ayshika wrote:

To be caught doing that is dumb as well <.<
A relationship that involves just sex...what sort of relationship is that?
But maybe it's just too much to expect people in this modern society to feel that such intimate and special acts should really only be done with that people whom you have feelings for O.o
Yes, i may sounds ridiculously old but that's the truth. One of the many reasons people get hurt so much nowadays is because of carefree sex like this isn't it?
People should be able to control urges like these and not just sleep with anyone out there to satisfy themselves.
Makes you look super unattractive in my opinon. And then again, in MY opinion.
So do what you like, not like i care O.o
I just think its gross is all *shrug* ^^"


It's a relationship with no emotional ties and only the physical pleasure. People don't get hurt in these kind of "open relationships" as long as both individuals remain mature and objective in what their relationship entitles to. People get hurt because of "that fucking slut Cindy slept with my boyfriend" issues; not the actual sex part. The act of sex is merely sex; the act of betrayal is what hurts people, not the sex. Make a clear distinction.

I don't understand how people automatically connect this kind of relationship to "slut". A slut is someone who sleeps around with multiple partners without any strings attached. The OP suggests that it is only ONE person; hence not a slut. The practical purpose of having this kind of relationship is to release any form of physical and sexual frustration periodically without having to deal with all the emotional bullshit (which anyone who has been in a relationship knows, is bullshit).
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Posted 10/18/10


makix wrote:

It's a relationship with no emotional ties and only the physical pleasure. People don't get hurt in these kind of "open relationships" as long as both individuals remain mature and objective in what their relationship entitles to. People get hurt because of "that fucking slut Cindy slept with my boyfriend" issues; not the actual sex part. The act of sex is merely sex; the act of betrayal is what hurts people, not the sex. Make a clear distinction.

I don't understand how people automatically connect this kind of relationship to "slut". A slut is someone who sleeps around with multiple partners without any strings attached. The OP suggests that it is only ONE person; hence not a slut. The practical purpose of having this kind of relationship is to release any form of physical and sexual frustration periodically without having to deal with all the emotional bullshit (which anyone who has been in a relationship knows, is bullshit).


Omg... can't believe you guys actually feel this is so right you even argue about it XD
After all it's a guy thing to have these sexual frustrations and urges that they can't control. So i guess i wouldn't understand... Just so uncool tho :/
I personally think casual sex is not moral and plain weird >.<
And that's where i started in the beginning... not gonna change my view
lol where did the random cindy come from XD
eghm... right, as i was saying. It's just not decent ne ^^"
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Posted 10/18/10
no I think I'm too emotional
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Posted 10/18/10 , edited 10/18/10
i had 2 guys friend who were twins and fell for me

it was crazy

but noting happened
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Posted 10/18/10

ayshika wrote:

Omg... can't believe you guys actually feel this is so right you even argue about it XD
After all it's a guy thing to have these sexual frustrations and urges that they can't control. So i guess i wouldn't understand... Just so uncool tho :/
I personally think casual sex is not moral and plain weird >.<
And that's where i started in the beginning... not gonna change my view
lol where did the random cindy come from XD
eghm... right, as i was saying. It's just not decent ne ^^"


Yeah...it's not just a guy thing to have sexual frustrations and urges(how would that account for all the females that engage in these acts?)

Anywho, most people aren't really in touch enough with their feelings to keep such a relationship strictly physical or to be able to tell the difference between love and sex (and there is a huge difference there)
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Posted 10/18/10

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I was gonna ask what's a hook up buddy until I read the comments. No I'll never do that type of thing.


Exactly the same for me... Except if i really, REALLY wanted to live out some crappy tv show or sitcom or whatever... Yup, the ultimate dream... To live out something that seems it's off the television... =ω=

But on a serious note, i won't ever do that. I can't picture myself thinking it'll feel right... =/
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Posted 10/18/10

ayshika wrote:

eghm... right, as i was saying. It's just not decent ne ^^"


You are so grossed out by the thought of randomly sleeping with someone, that you don't even take the time to rationalize what is being said to you;
If it's such a guy thing, who do we do it with? Gays and rape victims? Quit the ostrich prophecies and look around
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Posted 10/19/10

Lemonii wrote:

You are so grossed out by the thought of randomly sleeping with someone, that you don't even take the time to rationalize what is being said to you;
If it's such a guy thing, who do we do it with? Gays and rape victims? Quit the ostrich prophecies and look around


Look around at how out of it the world has become? Yeah maybe im just too grossed out to look at that.
I don't think you got my point. I CAN'T rationalize such acts without feeling wrong about it.
So give it up trying to make me think like you ok?^^"
I'm not a judgemental person... so even if I met a person like that i'd think its up to them and i wouldn't hold that against them.
People have their issues *shrug*
I can be friends with anyone
But nothing's gonna stop me from thinking this is just not right...sleeping with someone you have no feelings for.
Way to make the person you WILL love to the core in the future feel special huh XD

@Maigraith: I know some girls have that too <.< But often girls are far better at controlling such things.
It's easy for guys to go around sleeping with people... for girls you do know it's different right? Just more than one guy and you'll have earned the reputation of being a slut :/

And like some are saying here, it can't be carried out without at least 8/10 of these people starting to have feelings for the other person.
And probably...probably.... at the end of it, when you do find the person you love, can you guarantee you won't feel guilty? (especially if you decide to keep this going even after starting to date someone. Isn't that cheating? o.O)

My biggest point here.

We're people and will do have emotions that are inevitable sometimes and that's often very easily triggered off by intimate acts like sex!
So even if i were to agree to this... the likelihood of ending up hurting someone's feelings IS high.

We're not animals O.o
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Posted 10/19/10
never had a hook up buddy.
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Posted 10/19/10 , edited 10/19/10
If you get to the point where you can have sex with someone and not feel something for them, I fear for your emotional state.

You shouldn't be having sex with someone you don't love in the first place... that's just gross.
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Posted 10/19/10
Someone approached me about being a hook up buddy once. I told her I don't want anyones feelings to get hurt. She was like, it's OK, I had a hook up buddy in high school and it was fine - and I was like... peace be the journey, ho.

She was ridiculously beautiful.. and talented. Still a whore, though. Shame!
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Posted 10/19/10
i tried the friends with benefits with my ex.....did..not..work...
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