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What do girls look for in a guy
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Posted 10/27/10
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So im 23 im a guy and to be honest all my girly friends tell me im attractive sweet and kind, sometimes overly kind and overlty forgiving. literally i am the type of person who would risk my life for a complete stranger and I value all the small moments in a relationship.

Im 6ft 3 inch about 192cm and I wouldnt consider my physique or looks too be bad considering i train 3 times a week in kung fu.

my question is why is it then i see a lot of girls in clubs yet very few even second glance me, even though i smile and talk to them sometimes. they just don't seem interested.

So what the hell do girls look for ????? Im so confused.
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they look for somebody who's good looking,kind,funny, understands them, and who is not a overly jealous masochist like my dad. thats pretty much what they look for.
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PenguinNiki wrote:

they look for somebody who's good looking,kind,funny, understands them, and who is not a overly jealous masochist like my dad. thats pretty much what they look for.


Not to mention have a shred of indivuality. I look for the same things in a female.

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The answer to this question extends farther than the end of the universe


so true.

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31 / M / Jacksonville, FL
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Women can smell confidence. Are you assertive? Do you make the first move? Do you walk around like you know what's going on and know who you are?

Also, there is such a thing as being "too kind".
Posted 10/27/10
somebody who understands them??
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69 / M / Limbo
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They want you to look good, have money, and act like you dont give a shit about them. Sad, but true. But not for all women... just most.
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someone who is never afraid to be himself...and can be so cute without knowing it...genuine smile and attitude...at least, for me that is....
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some one who has a sense of humor, kind, and cute(personality) (;
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26 / M / This Dying World
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Men will never understand what a woman is thinking.

Perhaps when we unlock the puzzle in their heads, then maybe just maybe, we will have progressed as a species.
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dude i completely understand im the same way but i unfortunately only get the chicks that use and abuse me
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Sasagawa_X wrote:

OK

So im 23 im a guy and to be honest all my girly friends tell me im attractive sweet and kind, sometimes overly kind and overlty forgiving. literally i am the type of person who would risk my life for a complete stranger and I value all the small moments in a relationship.

Im 6ft 3 inch about 192cm and I wouldnt consider my physique or looks too be bad considering i train 3 times a week in kung fu.

my question is why is it then i see a lot of girls in clubs yet very few even second glance me, even though i smile and talk to them sometimes. they just don't seem interested.

So what the hell do girls look for ????? Im so confused.


You said that you're sometimes overly kind and forgiving, and you sound like a really nice but naive guy. If you're hoping to be noticed in the clubs then forget about it, those girls are out there for fun and games and wont take things seriously.
I dont think there's anything wrong with your physical appearance or personality, you're just looking for attention at the wrong place and time.
Show interest to a more honest and down to earth girl, she'll appreciate you for who you are. GL
Posted 10/27/10
to be yourself, to give the girl your true attention even though your friends are there, to treat them slightly special than and equal. someone who's good-looking, honest, smart, has a lot of money, understands them :L it's basic?
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Posted 10/27/10
They look for appearance and eventually personality.
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