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Guys paying for girlfriends in dates
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24 / F / new zealand
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Posted 1/9/08
hmmmm...guys are usually the one who pays for the girls during dates..
its one of the unwritten rules of dating..lolz..

guys..whats your point of view in this??
is it kind of a burden sumtyms??especailly when you dont have money..lolz..
or is it a sign of superiority??hmmm...is it??
girls,,have you ever paid for something on a date??
me..never..but sumtyms i feel like i owe them something..
hehe
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I paid once. The guy got offended. But it wasn't really a date were just friends hanging out, but still it was weird. I would think a guy friend would be okay w/ me paying for myself. But whatever.
Posted 1/9/08
lol..aha..ive never dated..tho if i did
ill split the check..ahah
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M / sydney, australia
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i'm a feminist in that i think socially males and females should enjoy equality. i think dates should be 50/50 unless it's like her birthday or an occasion like that

girls who mooch off of guys is one of my pet peeves and honestly how can any female respect herself after letting someone pay their way in life. i just don't agree with the whole thing

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28 / F / Thailand
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I'm always willing to split the bill on a first date or whatever, but now I've been with my guy for 2 years, and it's just natural he pays haha..
Though I'm usually willing to fork up some money if he's short at the moment lol, or for special occasions like his birthday~
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23 / F / ...somewhere lyin...
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is nice but i think sometimes they should split sometimes
Posted 1/9/08
oh hell i always pay.
meal, movie, gas, amusement park, paintball, hotels, wherever...
Posted 1/9/08
i never tell my boyfriend to pay because i feel bad...... T^T''' i usually tell him to pay thats only if its under $5...haha..yaa... ><''
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51 / M / Oregon
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I'm old school. I think the guy should pay, unless it has been discussed before going that you are paying for your own. Going "dutch".
Gentlemen pay. Oh, and the way he treats the waiter/waitress is how he'll probably be treating you in 3 months, so watch him and his manners. Or lack of manners.
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25 / F / VA
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Posted 1/9/08
we usually split the price, but usually he pays a little more by just a few cents
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24 / F / new zealand
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Posted 1/9/08

n_n303 wrote:


Lena_08 wrote:

I paid once. The guy got offended. But it wasn't really a date were just friends hanging out, but still it was weird. I would think a guy friend would be okay w/ me paying for myself. But whatever.


yeah i offered sometimes and he'd always get pissed..eh but i like it that way


i agree..
hahaiz..men..with their egos..
but i also like it that way..
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27 / F / Look behind you.
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Posted 1/9/08
First date, I think the guy should pay. If you're steady, then don't let him waste all your money on you! I think in a relationship both sides need to contribute in many ways, including money. A relationship is about sharing, so why not share the bill?

However guys who too willingly let the girl pay are a real turn off for me.
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F / Bothell, WA, USA
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Sorry. Don't Bitch. I made mistake that human.
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hahahaha i do the i forgot my wallet trick hahahahaha
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25 / F / Yokohama, Japan
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Posted 1/9/08

applexshampoo wrote:

i'm a feminist in that i think socially males and females should enjoy equality. i think dates should be 50/50 unless it's like her birthday or an occasion like that

girls who mooch off of guys is one of my pet peeves and honestly how can any female respect herself after letting someone pay their way in life. i just don't agree with the whole thing




Okay, I'm not this convinced of my own views, but I hate the sense of obligation I get when someone, anyone - not just guys - pays for me. And I can't understand how girlfriends can stand (pretty much) begging for stuff from their boyfriends. To me it indicates a serious lack of dignity and responsibility.

Personally - I've never dated, but my best friend's been a guy for the last three years - I hate guys paying for girls. It makes me feel little and useless. I pay my own way, and actually, I think I've used more money on him than he has on me. (I just think it's better to have someone indebted to you than be indebted to someone.)
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