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Guys paying for girlfriends in dates
Posted 1/10/08
well its chilvary and well i dont care if the girl paid lol
Posted 1/10/08
that's just plain sick.. for the guys who do that, they are TOO desprate! For the girls... who actualy ACCEPT the pay... I can't believe they would stoop that low!!!!!!!!
Posted 1/10/08
we use "IOU's" lol

lol

ill buy a meal, she'll buy the next meal.

kinda of an unspoken agreement.
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Posted 1/10/08
One reason why it's hard to find an actual good girl friend, cause you don't know if she's actually dating you cause of you, or if she's dating you cause of your money. (i'm srry if this is offending to you girls, but there are girls out there willing to do that and i'm sure of it)
Posted 1/10/08
Hey, if the guys want a girl, they must do their best to win her. Although i admit there are some bitchified girls who just likes being pampered. But really, guys are just too shallow. What they want is looks so that they can show off to their friends. What are we women, trophies?? Please, I for one will never want that. I know my self worth. Hence, it is a must that the guy should treat girls at a date. Who would want to hang out with broke guys? That is sad.
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Posted 1/10/08

mangopop wrote:


Chaebi69 wrote:

I never let a girl pay, period -.-


Is it really that terrible to let a girl pay once and a while?


No, but I tend to treat the girls like a queen.

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Posted 1/10/08

Chaebi69 wrote:


mangopop wrote:


Chaebi69 wrote:

I never let a girl pay, period -.-


Is it really that terrible to let a girl pay once and a while?


No, but I tend to treat the girls like a queen.



Does that mean paying for everything? If she objects to you paying every time, would you deny her that?

I guess I'm just curious. My ex would not budge when it came to money. He spends it on me, I just sit and look pretty. I just thought it was ridiculous and a bit insulting. He even went as far as taking me to a car dealership. I don't want to even think about how much he spent on gifts. I know his intentions were good, but they go against what I believe.

This thread reminds me of a particular scene from the boondocks..

Riley: Well I don't see what's the big deal with hoes anyway.
Huey: Riley all women are not hoes. We're talking 20-25 percent tops.
Riley: Ok but if they not all hoes then why do I got to pay to take them out to eat then. I mean I'm paying that's payment.
Huey: I don't know, cause that's just what you do. You meet a girl you take her out to dinner but your not paying the girl your paying the restaurant.
Riley: But I'm paying which makes her a hoe! Why do I just give her the money I was goin' spend on dinner and that hoe can go grocery shopping.


Funny shit.
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Posted 1/10/08

mangopop wrote:


Chaebi69 wrote:


mangopop wrote:


Chaebi69 wrote:

I never let a girl pay, period -.-


Is it really that terrible to let a girl pay once and a while?


No, but I tend to treat the girls like a queen.



Does that mean paying for everything? If she objects to you paying every time, would you deny her that?

I guess I'm just curious. My ex would not budge when it came to money. He spends it on me, I just sit and look pretty. I just thought it was ridiculous and a bit insulting. He even went as far as taking me to a car dealership. I don't want to even think about how much he spent on gifts. I know his intentions were good, but they go against what I believe.


No no no... There's a difference between spending for your girl's need and spoiling her. And of course, there are times when you each buy your own gifts during occasions. But I mean, it's a different thing when dating. Men must pay and show them that they can take care of the ladies.

As for your ex, well iono, he must be god damn rich xD (no offense intended). Spending isn't much of a big deal. Sometimes before, my ex would bring her purse with nothing but cell phone and make ups etc. She know that she have a man to take care of things. Haha... Buying a car... Hell no, she have her own dad for that lol.
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Posted 1/10/08
Guys pay because its gentlemanly. (It's an english thing)
If girls offer to pay, i ignore them.
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Posted 1/10/08
it sucks...they cost alot
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Posted 1/10/08
i think guys and girls should spilt cost. not all guys are rich and some of my friends have to work part time for the money . girls should not let their bf pay for everything.
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Posted 1/10/08
i think it should be equal but i agree its alredy a habit for males to pay for the date^^ i do^^
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Posted 1/10/08
Hmm, Perhaps its because I'm from the UK.... but don't you pay for your Girlfriend anyway? Its the courteous thing to do ^^
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Posted 1/10/08

ferver wrote:

it sucks...they cost alot


Then you don't deserve to have a girlfriend. If you can't pay for her regular expenses, forget having a family. Since the cost will drive you insane once it reaches 3 folds.
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Posted 1/10/08
i usually say we split the bill or something coz, but he always gets upset when i do that so he ends up payin for it..
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