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why guys often send the wrong signs??
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it's the way they are interpreted that is wrong
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32 / F / Philippines
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may be it's more proper if research is done properly and if you can clarify it directly with the person...
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astralmage wrote:

maybe just to make it interesting?lol i dont know


Oh its fun and games till the girl gets Date Raped then she gets ignorant and innocent.
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The good friend situation uh ?


Its not happening to only guys you know ... Sometimes , the individual has a focus like... Want to get together with this perticular girl .. Than that guy asked question regarding romance to another girl.
So on so forth. And gradually they become good friends . And in the process they often get the wrong signals . So its kind of... understandable why "Guys often send the wrong signals "


It is how , an individual expresses him or herself . Actually such misunderstandings are very common nowadays . People are unable to express themselves properly and hence such misunderstandings often result from it.
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Sulla wrote:


astralmage wrote:

maybe just to make it interesting?lol i dont know


Oh its fun and games till the girl gets Date Raped then she gets ignorant and innocent.


hmmmm.... are into those kind of stuff?? (*scary!*)
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Lol, all our signs mean the same thing, (Let me touch you someplace naughty XD).

Many of our signals can be easily misinterpreted though, and yet we don't realise how it's been misinterpreted until some damage is done. I mean sometimes our intentions are to send out the wrong signs, but it does more damage tha we expect. It's sad, but it's just the way things are.

Just remember, we're all human, and we make mistakes.
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signs eh,

If they're confusing means they don't work, but I doubt girls would be interested if a guy approach them directly (doesn't count if the girls is interested 2, 'cause that would mean the signals/signs worked).

We're in a dilemma here
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LOL?
I dont know but whenever i try to hint something, THEY DON'T GET IT! Haha but yeah. I think its just because.. We're girls, and your guys. We're all different =) & so our views and interpretation of "hey your hair is shinyy" is different. If it was some girls it'll be " Oh thanks." or
"WTF ARE YOU SAYING MY HAIR IS OILY? STUFF YOU*Stomps feet*
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Nah, its just that girls think too much and they thought that guys are sending the wrong signals....
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IT IS THE GIRLS WHO GIVE MIXED SIGNAL
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It is really easy to say the wrong thing or act strange if you are in a situation where you feel very nervous. I do it all the time and I get in trouble all the time.

This happened on a daily basis when I was dating a Swedish girl. Cultural differences and a slight language barrier made communicating very difficult at time and misunderstandings were commonplace.

You just have to be very careful and think through everything you say and do.

I do think girls send the wrong signals just as much as guys do. It isn't just one sided.
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ch0b1ts wrote:

It is really easy to say the wrong thing or act strange if you are in a situation where you feel very nervous. I do it all the time and I get in trouble all the time.

This happened on a daily basis when I was dating a Swedish girl. Cultural differences and a slight language barrier made communicating very difficult at time and misunderstandings were commonplace.

You just have to be very careful and think through everything you say and do.

I do think girls send the wrong signals just as much as guys do. It isn't just one sided.



Gusy are usuly vey clear in their signls although u have the idiots running the show at times.
Girls tend to be indecisive when it comes to emotion.
There are girls who can reject u upfront but yet at the same time look at you while you are not noticing.
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people make mistakes..=)
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Maybe they panic when they see the girl they like? I know a guy that get an erection everytime his crush pass by him...it's kinda scary...
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bcuz we are not teh perfect. gosh!
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