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Posted 11/7/10 , edited 11/7/10
Hey all I'm Lex, I don't post on the forums much, I have no idea why.. BUT a problem has recently come up. I need some help if possible. So I'm 20 years old, a slight oddball in the way of having far too many interests..
I go from watching anime, playing video games, and basically being a geek, to playing football, basketball, soccer, volley ball, then to attending Monster Jam (monster truck rally), Four-wheeling, Dirt Biking, then to snowboarding, ugh... I often mention that I'm bored, is that even possible? Anyways, I think this so called boredom is coming from missing a companion. And not just any companion, a girl that shares my geeky interests would be excellent. Someone, calm, smart, and wouldn't mind cuddling with me watching Anime, and eventually the feelings may exceed just being friends, though such a thought is questionable. Don't get me wrong, I've been with plenty of girls, but so far... eheh... Man shallow people are hard to deal with.

So my question is, where exactly... would I find someone like that? If they're at home watching anime or... playing video games... how do I find these women?

Thank you so very much for reading, and thank you for your input if you have provided me with such!

Edited:
Ok, yes I meant meeting them in real life, not online. Where would they hang out or, be as it were...
Posted 11/7/10
World of Warcraft lol
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Posted 11/7/10
Maybe an IRL meeting with somebody you met online?
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Posted 11/7/10
anime conventions? xD
theres a low chance of them being into sports though
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Posted 11/7/10 , edited 11/7/10
Just looking for the "geeky" interests, none of the other interests concern me.
Anime conventions! Now there's an idea! I will have to research the anime events that take place around my area.
Thank you I may be a step closer to my goal.
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Posted 11/7/10 , edited 11/7/10
As for meeting someone online, Xanace, I don't believe such a thing would work for very long. A long distant relationship when the two have never physically met would be difficult I would imagine. If there was a girl on here from Minnesota and wanted to meet, I'd be fine with that. A physical touch, charming voice, hilarious expressions, etc are not shown/done well online. Friends online is cool though
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Posted 11/7/10
oooooo this is hard. your basically looking for your perfect girl. I think you will have to try internet dating sites for stuff like that. With anime convention there mainly men into it and only girls you will find will be ones into stuff like vampire and stuff. But if you like twilight then you be fine. Also some advice you need an emotionally fucked up life because girls these days like those type of things or you got be very handsome. Really there little to no girls that like anime that like men who like anime (unless they are gay) so it probably the hardest thing and in the end if you do find one high chance you find some one who is emotionally fucked up and has serious issue with there own family or with there life.(met too many girls like that) unless you like suicidal sort. Finally, chance you find girl that lives in your area will be low and that they probably live on other side of the world from you.

to be fair you have more chancing find a girl in sports than in gaming and anime. so that ok, at least that's 1 of the 3. but if you really want find some one like that you have to go to load of anime convention do a lot of internet dating or even try crunchyroll, issue with crunchyroll is now its full of little kids so i would not pick crunchyroll as an option but there got be load of anime websites out there.
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Instead of trying to find a girlfriend just like yourself, why don't you try finding a girl first? Then slowly introduce her to anime, gaming, ect.
Your expectations from a girl is too much. Plus, when you do find someone JUST like you, it turns out bad. It's more fun when you find someone you really like and introduce them to the things you're interested in and vice versa for her.
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