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Why can Guys never make girls happy?
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19 / F / Stalking you.Yes...
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Posted 11/22/10 , edited 11/22/10
Huh... well i've never dated but if a guy told me he loved me, and told me i was beautiful every once and a while, i would be very happy. Just be nice, but not quite a push over. I have not met one bad boy who hasn't been dumped on his ass if you think being a bad-boy or mean to a girl works. it doesn't.

EDIT: I've read some of the answers on here. there are some really shallow answers. if only the shallow things work, then break up with her. Love isn't shallow, but crushes are. crushes are not real love, nor as good as love. shallowness means that it isnt love, so unless you want love that looks great, but has no quality, break it off
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Posted 11/22/10

QueenCherry wrote:

Wow ppl are judging your girl on here do not even know her their are always two sides to the story have you done something wrong..or maybe you do make her happy are you the insecure type who needs to be reassured every 5 seconds or maybe she is the insecure one who needs to be reassured of your love for her. It could be for a Number of reasons and please do NOT listen to people who say you need lots of money it can help on some things but it doesn't buy happiness I KNOW!!!!


Boo hoo. There are absolutely two sides. One of the other sides is that his girlfriend may be a bitch, and the other side may be that he's inept. There is no other way of putting it.
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Posted 11/22/10
Let's get deep for a sec.....First you must be happy,you have to be able to make your self happy. how can some one make you happy if you alone can't!!

Okay enough with the heavy. never say never and plus guys aren't the brightest , They don't seem to get it's the little things we love the most! like calling just to say hi or telling us how beautiful we are when we have no makeup on and are just chilling in his t-shirt&Pj pants or this is the one for me, Him being the one to grab your hand to hold hadns when walking! little this like that will make my hart melt
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Posted 11/22/10
To be honest, this question is incredibly vague and you gave us basically nothing in the way of details, so I can only venture a few guesses as to what the problem might be:

1 - You have self-esteem issues and you put her up on a pedestal where you spend all of your time trying to make her happy because you see this as a reflection of your self-worth, completely ignoring your own happiness. If this is the case you can jump through hoops all day but your relationship is going nowhere - accept it, learn to respect yourself and move on.

2 - She has self-esteem issues and she gets angry when you talk about other girls because she spends so much time obsessing over her own perceived flaws that she sees every other female as a potential threat to her relationship. In her version of reality all men judge women based on some arbitrary rating system and if you had the chance to be with someone "better" you'd do it in a heartbeat. In this case you're kind of screwed - the only way it's going to get better is if she recognizes that it's a problem and actually makes an effort to get past it.

3 - Some combination of 1 and 2.

4 - You're spending too much time focusing on "what you're doing wrong" instead of just talking to her. People are complicated, and none of us have any idea what's going on in her head. Why not just ask her if there's a problem and see what she says?

5 - You're over-thinking things. It's totally possible that she thinks your jokes are lame but still likes you anyway.

6 - You are a terrible person that kicks kittens and spits on babies. Shame on you.
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Posted 12/9/10
it depends on the women if thay are a demanding type like for material things and money thats just limitless and them type of women nva become happy no matter what you do it's all about the attitude, thay way thay live, simple dependant to much but get me wrong there are blokes like that aswell it's jus one of those questions that truly can't be answered with a absolute answer.
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Posted 12/9/10
details buddy, details




..girls love those btw.
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Posted 12/9/10 , edited 12/9/10
Just dont make a girl mad, create events and memories together you can laugh about.
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21 / F / nowhere important
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Posted 12/9/10
grils don't do happy they only do less pissed or calm
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24 / M / O.C. So.Cal
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Posted 12/9/10
asking an anime forum for dating advice is almost like asking your algebra teacher on how to do multi variable calculus. Ask someone with the sufficient amount of experience, something an anime community most likely would not have
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Posted 12/9/10

GheyDeer wrote:

You should try and suck her dick instead for a change.


lol
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20 / F / U.S.A.
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Posted 12/10/10
actually its easy to make a girl happy just say you love her, buy her a really funny pair of whatever, confuse her, and then walk away and then just start the cycle all over again she'll never be unhappy
Posted 12/10/10
Just swallow, they'll love you forever.

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Posted 12/10/10

lol no argument there
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Posted 12/10/10
lol..i've never been in a relationship before..but as a girl i guess all i can say is..
just don't do those silly stuffs and say those cheesy line..most girls hate it..
don't act all cute and bla bla..act Though and Manly..like you can protect her..
and..don't give her too much attention..girls get annoyed easily..and also that way the girl herself will seek attention..^^
Posted 12/10/10 , edited 12/10/10
You must have girl that's full of herself or just find little things to be annoyed about.
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