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Arranged Marriage
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31 / M / Iloilo City, PH
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Posted 12/12/10
dear parents,

yes, i am aware that i am already of breeding age and have not yet found a suitable mate. your advanced age has rendered you weak to the sight of adorable children. However, I assure you that someday, hopefully before the end of your life cycles. the spawn of my loins shall be brought into this world and into your arms.

Just NOT now...

love

your son and tool
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24 / F
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Posted 12/12/10
It's convenient if you don't have anyone in mind or want to fall and date various people, otherwise no.

I wouldn't want one unless the circumstances made it really important.
Posted 12/12/10
Well, we have no say in this because we are not the ones in his situation, so we cannot understand his emotions towards this matter. But no matter what, I will never agree to an arranged marriage because, we have no feelings for each other and it's hard for the both of us. We are getting married when we aren't even friends in the first place? It is impossible to cultivate feelings for a person you barely know.
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Posted 3/19/11
It seens that he can't get a girlfriend or a wife, that's why his doing this.
Well, for me I would say hell naww. I hate arranged marriage so much, it pissed me off so much.
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69 / M / Limbo
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Posted 3/19/11
I'd be down, as long as she was hot and had to follow my every order...
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24 / M / San Jose, CA
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Posted 3/19/11
I think the fact that they can barely communicate with each other alone is barrier enough...
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22 / F / Houston, Texas
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Posted 3/19/11
I'm not exactly against it. For all u know, the two might actually fall in love. And excuse my dramatic side but wouldn't it be sort of fun?
Parents: daughter, this man will be your future hubby
Me: But I don't love him!



So its an ok for me. It won't bug me unless they actually annoy the hell out of me and trick me- u don't want to end up in the same bed as the dude u hate.
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20 / F / Canada
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Posted 3/19/11
uhhh, well, for me it depends... if it's someone I could trust, someone I knew well and someone I think I can deal with, then I'll think about it... lol... if not, then.. no way...

or if they arranged it for some stupid reason, then I won't either... >.<

but yeah, we might even fall in love after a while so, it's really hard to tell x)
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25 / F
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Posted 3/19/11
Oooo arrange marriage i only see it in movies and never in real life...all i can say to this is good luck to you in whatever decision you make...It would suck to be in your situation, but look at the bright side there's this thing called divorce and remarry...Y(^o^)Y
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19 / F / Earth
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Posted 3/19/11
no.
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21 / F / Rainbow Land ♥
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Posted 3/22/11
Yes... : ) If I love him. Yet I would say No, 'cause it's a difficult thing for parents to do such a thing. : |
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21 / F / Leaf village
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Posted 3/22/11

pendragonus wrote:

Would you be okay with an arrange marriage...?

A buddy of mine for years has been called a screw up by his parents. They have been on his case recently about getting married or possibly being disowned and disinherited. Does he listen, make them finally happy and marry this girl which by the way is 3 years older (he's 22 and she's 25), or should he face the consequences? The marriage takes place in two weeks and the plane tickets are bought. He is Punjabi but barely speaks being raised in Canada and she's from India that barely speaks English. What would you guys do in this situation or what would you advise?


I knew when i started reading this that it must be an Indian case.

Just saying. I'm not going to opine on this.
Posted 3/22/11
My parents got married because of that "arranged marriage" thing.
They do get along pretty well BUT I don't think they're both happy with each other.
That is why arrange marriage is a HUGE NO for me.
Posted 3/22/11
I thinks arranged marriage sucks.
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