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is it a turn off if a girl/boy is childish??
Posted 12/11/10
Just not too much.
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Posted 12/11/10
If you're always childish..but if you have a serious side to you too, then it's all good.
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22 / F / 不思議の国
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Posted 12/11/10
^ agreed.
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23 / F / Wonderland.
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Posted 12/11/10
Being childish is always fun! But if gets too much it is a bit of a turn off especially if you're going for something~
Posted 12/11/10
not rilly but then when u rech rawnd about 15 up yhes it is
Posted 1/24/11
I guess there's different ways of being childish but for the most part I'd have to say that I find it to be a bit of a turn off. There has to be maturity behind the childish mindset.. if there's not, then it's not very attractive
Posted 1/24/11

cc_DarkSorrow wrote:

Um...I'm 21...But I don't act my age at all...Well...That depends..
And if people don't like that...They can go eat themselves..
Beginning at the foot for maxium painage..



I agree with what he wrote but just add 20
haha yes they will eat themselves
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Posted 1/24/11
Imo, a childish or childlike person is someone who has selfish needs, wants, or desires without regard for other people around them. I believe that if this is put forth into extremity, then it is definitely a negative quality, but if his or her interests are shared with others, then they can at least find friends.

If you're pursuing a relationship, one of the key points in my book would be a level of trust, which means both an understanding of the other person as well as a mutual desire to support the other person. If the trust isn't there or is tried beyond the breaking point (which varies from person to person), the relationship won't last.

People can, however, both be selfish and attractive, but it depends on the context. As others have mentioned, someone who acts in a childish manner that directly conflicts with another's values, then it may not be so attractive ( Leaving trash / food / clothes around haphazardly can be increasingly frustrating for some people, whereas others can live with it just fine, usually as long as there's some level of order to it. Someone who is stubbornly close-minded will probably be irritating for someone who doesn't share the same ideas ). If the childish mannerisms don't conflict with another person's values, then either the mannerism may go unnoticed, or it could be thought of as cute or endearing.

There are times and places for selfishness, but too much of it can be a bad thing, and too little works in the same way.
Posted 1/24/11
childish boys are very unattractive, I like mine mature and senisble, able to look after me, i don't wanna be mothering him *cringe*
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Posted 1/24/11
Nah, it's not, just not too childish.

Childish girls are usually hotties.
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Posted 1/24/11
Very, I can't stand it when a girl acts childish.
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Posted 1/24/11
when it comes to my girl, there has to be an equilibrium.


Posted 1/24/11
Don't mind as long as that there is that mature side to them.
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Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/24/11
Honestly, everyone has a childish side, and sometimes you need to fall to your childhood weakness...Mine's always been pink, sparkles, fairys, mermaids, fluffy things, and yes, kittens... Other than that I'm pretty mature, But EVERYONE has a soft spot.... I don't mind if they show it sometimes! But only sometimes you know? Um, I'll shut up now...
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Posted 1/24/11
it's a huuuuge turnoff for me. I love to have fun, and be silly but I cannot stand it when someone acts childish because they think it's cute or they can get their way. It's ridiculous.
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