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25 / M / 東京
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Posted 12/4/10 , edited 12/4/10
How do you deal with a confession? Obviously if you like the person you say yes. But if you don't? How do you go about doing that? I've always hate dealing what those, in America it's like the saying, Damn if you Do, Damn if you Don't. Lose lose situation. I always feel like I'm going to make the girl cry btw I'm in Japan. Not sure how people in America deal with that stuff. Sometimes, it ends good and the girl and I are cool friends. Sometimes, they tell me ”まだ終わっていないよね!” And some, I guess are really introverted about their feelings and just say ううん、大丈夫。。。then walks away slowly
Posted 12/4/10
Confessions are never easy. The worst part is living down the bullshit you committed.
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25 / M / 東京
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I find it that girls have a easier way of rejecting than males ... kind of makes me jealous
Posted 12/4/10
I will almost always accept. To any gender.

the circumstances i wouldnt accept are:
if all they want is sex
if im dealing with ALOT of stuff, i just dont have the time to give them induvidual deserved attention
i have something BIG agaisnt them (HA I only know one person like that)
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Posted 12/4/10
Depends, if she's something else, I wont stop to wonder why the hell she's doing what she's doing and go with it. If she ain't, I pretend to be a deaf/mute and walk into on-coming traffic for some reason since I'm not pretending to be blind during this charade!
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Posted 12/4/10

DRO1 wrote:

Depends, if she's something else, I wont stop to wonder why the hell she's doing what she's doing and go with it. If she ain't, I pretend to be a deaf/mute and walk into on-coming traffic for some reason since I'm not pretending to be blind during this charade!


Yea, I can't bring myself to do something as to ignore her when she's talking to me. Or pretend to not hear... esp since we're alone when they do it lol
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Posted 12/4/10 , edited 12/4/10
^ Heh, you should just pull all the ass you can get. Specially since you're living the life 90% of these geeks want. A life in Tokyo and Japanese ladies confessing their feelings for you. Just like in the animes! Haha. jk! but not really. Hope you shake your fear of giving chicks the cold shoulder mate!
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Posted 12/5/10
Just comfort them. It's all they want. If they want to act childish, it only proves a point of how selfish they are acting. You cannot be angry at someone who is making their own decisions. Tough Shit if it's not what you wanted.

Don't worry dude. Most of them get over it. The rest spend their lives in misery because...well....they refused to get over the hard ships of anything that made them sad.
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Posted 12/5/10
IMHO, just give 'em a shot. Take him/her out to coffee or something. One date won't hurt plus you'll get to know them on a deeper level through conversations; find out where their heads at. If they're found to be a good honest person and you see a future with them, date him/her. If you find both of you are just too different, let them know. Just be honest.
Posted 12/5/10
Give them a white lie... I know I'm being stupid but I've been asked out at least 8x since public school and even though I say I'm going to be honest each time... when the time comes I bullshit and take the easy way out (I wonder why). Here's why: The last girl who asked me out and I said yes to was a bad mistake. I wasn't into her so I ended up hurting her which when I think about it shouldn't have happened. She's a very nice girl and I regret the things I did. So LIe like hell... but keep her respect and yours... (well this excuse won't work for you or will it) I like you too but my parents are against me dating...
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Posted 12/5/10
I get uneasy dealing with rejecting guys and such. I never make the first move and ask a guy out, so I don't have to worry about being rejected.

The nice thing about technology is that most of these guys are too chicken to tell me in person, so it usually happens over Facebook or a text, in which case I just ignore them. In person though...shit I never know what to do
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117 / M / Earth
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Posted 12/5/10
Ignore her for a week.. nah just kidding..
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25 / M / 東京
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Posted 12/6/10

DRO1 wrote:

^ Heh, you should just pull all the ass you can get. Specially since you're living the life 90% of these geeks want. A life in Tokyo and Japanese ladies confessing their feelings for you. Just like in the animes! Haha. jk! but not really. Hope you shake your fear of giving chicks the cold shoulder mate!


Lol, dream? haha, I guess... a lot of them are quite cute/hot, but it's weird when I don't even know who they are.

It's different here in Japan. But so far I just say その気持ち、本当にありがとう。。。でも、ごめん、ごめんなさい。。。 What is the killer is they ask why... which should be an obvious answer but that answer isn't easy to say in person I haven't tried dating one because I feel I'll hurt their feelings more in the end ...
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20 / F / Earth
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Posted 12/6/10
hmmm, dunno, maybe...
just say sorry instead of no....
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27 / F / U.S.
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Posted 12/6/10 , edited 12/6/10
I don't do confessions. that's the guy's job
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