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Guy Kills Himself After Breakup
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26 / F / U.S.
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Posted 12/12/10
*facepalms* what a loser
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Posted 12/12/10 , edited 12/12/10
How funny. Stupid twat...
Posted 12/12/10
Sigh.

It's stupid to waste your life like this, just fucking move on.

On the other hand, I somewhat feel bad for him. And since I don't have much information about this whole crap drama, I'm not going to judge him or anyone.
Posted 12/12/10 , edited 12/12/10
Suicide does nothing but prove your weakness and lack of resolve. When some tragedy takes place in your life, it is best to cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.

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What the F is wrong with people? To laugh at someones pain like that, obviously he was messed up as it takes a messed up person to kill themselves! I find NOTHING funny about that! I feel for his ex, cuz yeah, shes going 2 live knowing she caused, at least partially, the end of a life. This poor guy should be pitied, not laughed at, havent any of u ever been hurt by someone who u loved? If not you r lucky, but wait, cuz this kinda pain hits EVERYONE at some point, the way u cope says who u r as a person, but it seems this poor guy was at least in his own mind ALONE. Our hearts should go out 2 his family, he shouldnt be laughed at! KARMA gets us all in the end, and to those who find this amusing, betcha get COAL INUR STOCKINGS THIS YEAR!!!
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There's something seriously wrong with some of you people. You should never laugh at anyone's death and misfortune. Yeah he should have been less cowardly and idiotic but he already committed suicide; a mother lost a son. You should be silent or mourning or praying for the people involved, etc rather than saying things similar to "He deserved it, It's only right you laugh at him."

It's unkind acts and words like these that drive people to committ suicide in the first place. Yes everyone needs inner strength, but some of it comes from the support of your friends and family or anyone who is willing to take the time to calm you down. There's plenty of people that never had a single friend and were always bullied so they went to committ suicide; don't compare them to yourselves who've had far more stable lives. I know of one girl that was an immigrant from Europe and was bullied because of that and because of the fact she dated a popular guy(who broke up her). Even after she broke up with him, people still took her phone number and facebook to bully her constantly and her school administration refused to believe or see the bullying going on. Eventually she got gangraped by some of the bulliers and she committed suicide. She must have been feeling really lonely and devastated to drive herself to do that. How many of you can actually claim something like that happened to you? If you got over it, power to you, I respect you. While this girl's suicide is entirely of a different level from this guy, do you not see how words and actions (words especially) can hurt someone else with lower inner strength can drive them to kill themselves? If they have low self-esteem how about giving them a boost of fucking confidence rather than kicking them down even lower? I'm not claiming that people who committ suicide were justified in any way to do so because it is a very selfish and cowardly act, but there's no justification into laughing at the dead either. It's lame, just like talking shit about people behind their backs, talking shit about the dead who can't even retaliate even if they found out what you said.

While I don't generally respect people that committ suicide, I won't go as far as to saying "Let's laugh at them." or "Serves them right." There's an option called "Silence" if you do not have the button for "Mourn/Pray". And last time I checked, to those saying "They deserve to die", no one made you the executioner. What are you trying to pull? A Kira? I can fathom the loneliness that drives people to want to kill themselves because I experienced it myself. I chose not to because I knew it was very dishonorable and cowardly and things should eventually get better; I'm not a perfect person or saint myself and I never will be (No, I am not religious in anyway- I'm Agnostic) but I always at least try to understand other people before judging them and spewing out cruel words. People shouldn't laugh or tease others especially when unnecessary. Everytime you do, you're contributing to some of reasons why this world is so fucked up. It's ugly, look at yourselves... Talking shit about the dead is cowardly in itself just as talking shit about someone living behind their back. Attacking while someone's back is turned. What? You think talking shit makes you more superior than the guy that committed suicide? You and I don't even know what REALLY happened since it's from a press. He could have committed suicide for what happened in his whole life (who knows; abuse, loneliness, death of someone really close, was bullied and ostracized) and the breakup was the last thing he could take. So don't be so quick to assume he only committed suicide because of the girlfriend. The spotlight was on the girlfriend but he probably left out all the other things in that facebook post.

I will never understand the feeling of sacrificing oneself because of love. I have yet to experience true love.
Still, I wish someone had been there to stop him or given more of their time to successfully calm him down.
If that happened, he could have moved on and got a chance to be a stronger person since he obviously couldn't do it by himself.
Since this news is from a "paper" I think it is appropriate to say "Don't invent with the mouth what you have not seen with the eyes."
Posted 12/12/10 , edited 12/12/10
he shouldnt have thrown his life away like that. he could have worked it out. lost another good person one to love's ugly side
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I know he was going though alot but things change and life goes on...If I was him I would not cry myself to sleep and then kill myself

I would stay awake and plot my revenge

But still it was stupid to throw away life he should have you know...got help
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CaptainKagamine wrote:

I know he was going though alot but things change and life goes on...If I was him I would not cry myself to sleep and then kill myself

I would stay awake and plot my revenge

But still it was stupid to throw away life he should have you know...got help


I agree. But then again, I never dated anyone because I rejected everyone that asked
If he loved her that much, fight for her; don't you think so? Or perhaps he really did but it was useless.
Either way we will never know what really happened. This is from a paper; for all we know some of the details could have been fabricated or crucial details were left out on purpose.
I will never understand the feeling of sacrificing oneself because of love. I have yet to experience true love.
Still, I wish someone had been there to stop him or given more of their time to successfully calm him down.
If that happened, he could have moved on and got a chance to be a stronger person.
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AcidicRegent0 wrote:y

You are all retards for laughing at this. My high school gym teacher hung himself last year because his girlfriend of 8 fucking years broke up with him after he finally proposed to her. You may all think he's stupid, that it's all a joke and that he should get a life........RIP. I know how it all happened. He tried to talk to someone about it, none of his friends, co-workers nor family wanted to take some time to just talk to him and help him deal with the break-up. Same for the guy on this post, I'm pretty sure nobody gave a damn about what he was going through. Things like this, you can't deal with on your own. It's not about being a pansy, it's not about courage or being conceited..... The support of the people around you is the only cure in cases like these, and nobody gave a damn so he gave himself the idea to just end it. He knew it himself, he was all alone. Nobody to talk to, nobody to stick with him to get her off his mind.


This guy didn't have nobody to talk to.
He had facebook.
His sister tried to talk him out of it.
If he wasn't after the attention it would generate, why bother making a post on facebook, even when he knew he was going to die?

I think that no one would help him deal with his 8-year old girlfriend leaving him, is so that they won't be forced to report his ass to the police for pedophilia.

Also, if you knew about how he tried to talk to his co-workers about it, and they wouldn't listen.
Why didn't you try to talk him out of it?
You bystander.
You might as well have killed him yourself.


You trying to joke about this isn't helping your case. My teachers girlfriend was 36 just like he was. I killed him? I didn't even know this until it all actually happened. I was in my third year of university last year when I got word of his death. Everything was revealed in the newspaper. Everybody knew he was suffering and yet they all kept saying they're busy or never picked up the phone. Both my gym teacher and this guy on this post obviously didn't tell anyone about the suicide. This guy left a goodbye post, no details. My teacher was missing for days when they found him hung at his home. Life is too short for this crap..... I will never submit to love. Anyway, I'm done talking about this, it's useless. People don't know reality from what society thinks is "funny and they should laugh at suicide". There is more to it then just the "story" the press releases. There is always the truth and a deeper back story to all of this. I'm done.

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Godamie wrote:


CaptainKagamine wrote:

I know he was going though alot but things change and life goes on...If I was him I would not cry myself to sleep and then kill myself

I would stay awake and plot my revenge

But still it was stupid to throw away life he should have you know...got help


I agree. But then again, I never dated anyone because I rejected everyone that asked
If he loved her that much, fight for her; don't you think so? Or perhaps he really did but it was useless.
Either way we will never know what really happened. This is from a paper; for all we know some of the details could have been fabricated or crucial details were left out on purpose.
I will never understand the feeling of sacrificing oneself because of love. I have yet to experience true love.
Still, I wish someone had been there to stop him or given more of their time to successfully calm him down.
If that happened, he could have moved on and got a chance to be a stronger person.


I could not say it better myself I swear I'm not good at speeches that is exactly what I wanted to say

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Seriously, can you read? The girlfriend of the guy is not 8 years old but have been his girlfriend for 8 years. I would think that an adult would want to consult with an adult not with a teenage such as the person who posted it. Pertaining to facebook, just because he has a facebook doesn't mean people talk to him on it. Facebook is afterall online, sometimes you just need someone next to you talking to you not posting something on a wall....


Just for your information, the girl has been dating him for only 4 months before he died. The reason to why she wants to break up with him is that she wants to get back together with her ex-boyfriend.

p.s. And obviously the '8-years old' was meant to be sarcastic.


He meant my gym teacher......

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What a faggot. Youre gonna kill yourself because she broke up with you? At least she loved you. There are thousands of people that never felt what it means to be loved like me. Those people have the right to kill themselves. And i'm NEVER giving up. Im not making love take my life.


I like how suicide is all based on self pity, you're making fun of that in another person, and yet you're saying how you and people like you who've "never felt love" (highly doubtful) have the right to kill themselves. What makes you any better? In fact in my mind, people like you who go around pitying themselves are even more retarded than those who commit suicide, because to commit suicide there legitimately has to be something wrong, not just whoring around for attention like you. You, and everybody who is encouraging laughing at this guy are truly sick.

Yes it's stupid to commit suicide, but death is death, a human life is a human life and we should not laugh at the loss of one. Think, none of you would be laughing if this was your son, your brother, your best friend. So why is it ok to laugh as long as they're not connected to you, you sick, twisted pigs.

To the man whom this happened to: I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that even in death people are still laughing, you don't deserve it. R.I.P
Posted 12/12/10

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ChineseBoy22 wrote:

What a faggot. Youre gonna kill yourself because she broke up with you? At least she loved you. There are thousands of people that never felt what it means to be loved like me. Those people have the right to kill themselves. And i'm NEVER giving up. Im not making love take my life.


I like how suicide is all based on self pity, you're making fun of that in another person, and yet you're saying how you and people like you who've "never felt love" (highly doubtful) have the right to kill themselves. What makes you any better? In fact in my mind, people like you who go around pitying themselves are even more retarded than those who commit suicide, because to commit suicide there legitimately has to be something wrong, not just whoring around for attention like you. You, and everybody who is encouraging laughing at this guy are truly sick.

Yes it's stupid to commit suicide, but death is death, a human life is a human life and we should not laugh at the loss of one. Think, none of you would be laughing if this was your son, your brother, your best friend. So why is it ok to laugh as long as they're not connected to you, you sick, twisted pigs.

To the man whom this happened to: I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that even in death people are still laughing, you don't deserve it. R.I.P


who even said i was whoring around for attention anyway? you dont know my life. you dont know what i went through. how do u know what i feel? but i like you kid. you went all ur way just to type this to defend someone even in death. but seriously you dont know my life
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Geez, what was she, some kind of millionare bikini supermodel astrophysicist?
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