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Guy Kills Himself After Breakup
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Posted 12/12/10

onibrotonel wrote:

Kinda disturbing that he left a smiling smiley at the end.

It's like he's going to haunt for real.


I know right.... I was thinkin the same thing.... lolz
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Also where in the note does it say that he blames her. He was the one that ended up saying this, i mean like you said his sister tried to stop, but what about his family and friends? All the sister did was go on facebook and reply. The sister didn't actually try to stop him like going to where he is.( I know you would say that she wouldn't be able to since we are humans after all, so how about this there are many signs of doing a suicide and i doubt that they facebook reply would be the only sign and it just means that he didn't have any friends not online to talk to after he started to have these thoughts.) The reason why we wouldn't suicide is because we have a lot of support from our friends and family right? Also suicide is not the right answer, but they think its the only solution (mainly the brain). I mean there could be someone looking at this forum right now and supporting you giving them a reason to suicide like for laughter... ANYWAY what i intend to say is that even though suicide is not acceptable people are still doing more likely because they are feeling alone and needs attention or looking at your comment and say "oh if i suicide i can make someone laugh". You do know that there are young kids that could look into this forum and can influence even a child. Even though suicide is a bad thing, a death=death. Unlike what you think that suicide=laughter.
Posted 12/12/10

stareye_pink wrote:

Yes, it's damn famous now. Whatsmore, the guy is fucking handsome. You guys can search for his facebook pages.


Bet this wouldn't make any headlines if he was ugly or only decent looking.
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Posted 12/12/10

LemonyPanda wrote:

lol thats crazy

i googled this up and he was actually kind of good looking and his girlfriend is pretty hot wut a shame


I know i jus saw his pic on goole too... he could have been an idol... he was too hot... wat a waste....
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Posted 12/12/10

Godamie wrote:

There's something seriously wrong with some of you people. You should never laugh at anyone's death and misfortune. Yeah he should have been less cowardly and idiotic but he already committed suicide; a mother lost a son. You should be silent or mourning or praying for the people involved, etc rather than saying things similar to "He deserved it, It's only right you laugh at him."

It's unkind acts and words like these that drive people to committ suicide in the first place. Yes everyone needs inner strength, but some of it comes from the support of your friends and family or anyone who is willing to take the time to calm you down. There's plenty of people that never had a single friend and were always bullied so they went to committ suicide; don't compare them to yourselves who've had far more stable lives. I know of one girl that was an immigrant from Europe and was bullied because of that and because of the fact she dated a popular guy(who broke up her). Even after she broke up with him, people still took her phone number and facebook to bully her constantly and her school administration refused to believe or see the bullying going on. Eventually she got gangraped by some of the bulliers and she committed suicide. She must have been feeling really lonely and devastated to drive herself to do that. How many of you can actually claim something like that happened to you? If you got over it, power to you, I respect you. While this girl's suicide is entirely of a different level from this guy, do you not see how words and actions (words especially) can hurt someone else with lower inner strength can drive them to kill themselves? If they have low self-esteem how about giving them a boost of fucking confidence rather than kicking them down even lower? I'm not claiming that people who committ suicide were justified in any way to do so because it is a very selfish and cowardly act, but there's no justification into laughing at the dead either. It's lame, just like talking shit about people behind their backs, talking shit about the dead who can't even retaliate even if they found out what you said.

While I don't generally respect people that committ suicide, I won't go as far as to saying "Let's laugh at them." or "Serves them right." There's an option called "Silence" if you do not have the button for "Mourn/Pray". And last time I checked, to those saying "They deserve to die", no one made you the executioner. What are you trying to pull? A Kira? I can fathom the loneliness that drives people to want to kill themselves because I experienced it myself. I chose not to because I knew it was very dishonorable and cowardly and things should eventually get better; I'm not a perfect person or saint myself and I never will be (No, I am not religious in anyway- I'm Agnostic) but I always at least try to understand other people before judging them and spewing out cruel words. People shouldn't laugh or tease others especially when unnecessary. Everytime you do, you're contributing to some of reasons why this world is so fucked up. It's ugly, look at yourselves... Talking shit about the dead is cowardly in itself just as talking shit about someone living behind their back. Attacking while someone's back is turned. What? You think talking shit makes you more superior than the guy that committed suicide? You and I don't even know what REALLY happened since it's from a press. He could have committed suicide for what happened in his whole life (who knows; abuse, loneliness, death of someone really close, was bullied and ostracized) and the breakup was the last thing he could take. So don't be so quick to assume he only committed suicide because of the girlfriend. The spotlight was on the girlfriend but he probably left out all the other things in that facebook post.

I will never understand the feeling of sacrificing oneself because of love. I have yet to experience true love.
Still, I wish someone had been there to stop him or given more of their time to successfully calm him down.
If that happened, he could have moved on and got a chance to be a stronger person since he obviously couldn't do it by himself.
Since this news is from a "paper" I think it is appropriate to say "Don't invent with the mouth what you have not seen with the eyes."


I agree with you 100%
Posted 12/12/10, edited 12/13/10

He left a suicide note, leaving his ex-girlfriends name everywhere on it.

He admits that the suicide is because of the breakup.
Who do you think people will point to as the cause for his suicide?
His ex-girlfriend.

I don't think suicide is laughter.
I have never stated that.
Are you not just self-projecting your own thoughts onto me?
I said that we should laugh at this fucker, rather than pity him for ruining his ex-girlfriend's future.

So how exactly would my post harm young kids?
I said we should laugh at him.
Doesn't that defeat the purpose for him committing suicide in the first place?

In fact.
Aren't you leaving a bad influence on the younger kids by giving the guy who committed suicide attention, sadness, and pity?
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Posted 12/12/10

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You are all retards for laughing at this. My high school gym teacher hung himself last year because his girlfriend of 8 fucking years broke up with him after he finally proposed to her. You may all think he's stupid, that it's all a joke and that he should get a life........RIP. I know how it all happened. He tried to talk to someone about it, none of his friends, co-workers nor family wanted to take some time to just talk to him and help him deal with the break-up. Same for the guy on this post, I'm pretty sure nobody gave a damn about what he was going through. Things like this, you can't deal with on your own. It's not about being a pansy, it's not about courage or being conceited..... The support of the people around you is the only cure in cases like these, and nobody gave a damn so he gave himself the idea to just end it. He knew it himself, he was all alone. Nobody to talk to, nobody to stick with him to get her off his mind.


you see there your wrong.... almost every government worth a damn has free shrink help for suicidal people... the only people out there that are alone are those that don't try to hard to find someone to help.... so if people laugh at someone elses idiocy and selfishness then let them it's not your problem you weren't the gf or the jackass who jumped so stfu and mind your business and let people laugh... hell some of the people laughing will probably be dumped themselves and have suicidal thoughts but meh why should you care if they laugh?
Posted 12/12/10, edited 12/12/10


Lawl I know why she broke up with the fool. He always wears band aids on his cheek. Man it's never healthy to cover non existent scars. You might fall out of a building or somethin'.

Hahaha
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i agree deer giving someone like this attention liek sadness pity and careing will only make small children who feel alone from neglectful parents think if they did it they would get the same attention which would = bad......
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Posted 12/12/10

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stareye_pink wrote:

Yes, it's damn famous now. Whatsmore, the guy is fucking handsome. You guys can search for his facebook pages.


Bet this wouldn't make any headlines if he was ugly or only decent looking.


Yeah, so freaking true. People are too realistic these days. Did you look at his photos? I couldn't believe that so many girls can go crazy and wanna burn his girlfriend's house down because of him.
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Posted 12/12/10
To all those assholes who are laughing at this guy, FUCK YOU!! You have no idea what it is like to actually have given up on living. Posting on Facebook was a cry for help, but instead of getting that, he gets ridicule. This man, and like the other many examples that some posters have given were deeply depressed. I wonder if you realize that is reactions such as yours that just push many over the edge of madness. Depression is a disease that plagues many that needs to be caught and treated.

My heart goes out to his family at their loss.
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Why would you say that I would never have a bad influence children. I do good at school and homework and try my best. I don't think you do good because you are still saying that we should laugh at them. NO we should not be laughing at them that will also make people bad about themselves. Wouldn't you feel bad about yourself when you do something humiliating thats the same thing with this guy. He striven for the girl he loved but some other guy thats her. You don't even know the guy that took her. I'm guessing if he let him take her there would be a legitimate reason or it could be his friend and let him take her. ANYWAY you should seriously consider that im not obviously pitying this guy. I am somewhat in a similar position as him just a little more different. I've been stressing about a girl and keep my feelings bottled up for sometime because i feel like my friend likes this girl and hurts me that i get a little depressed so i guess i feel that maintaining a love life and than breakup is far worse than bottling up feelings so thats the difference. i don't have suicidal thoughts but i get how he would be depressed over this. wouldn't you feel the same way if someone literally done something horrible to you that it could lead to the point of death. Im just saying take death and suicide should be taken seriously not laughter.
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Posted 12/12/10, edited 12/12/10
Holy crap. Talk about extremity of breakups. That guy must've fallen hard for her.
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Posted 12/12/10

kaze_to_ame wrote:

To all those assholes who are laughing at this guy, FUCK YOU!! You have no idea what it is like to actually have given up on living. Posting on Facebook was a cry for help, but instead of getting that, he gets ridicule. This man, and like the other many examples that some posters have given were deeply depressed. I wonder if you realize that is reactions such as yours that just push many over the edge of madness. Depression is a disease that plagues many that needs to be caught and treated.

My heart goes out to his family at their loss.


What he did was cowardly, suiciding because they broke up is plain cowardly. I'd say it might even been revenge on the girl who dumped him. He probably had in his mind '' Because she dumped me, I'll destroy her future '' or something like that. Read the post above yours, tons of strangers and random people are trying to set his ex gf's house on fire for revenge. .
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Posted 12/12/10
Then they are just as stupid. Though the thing is one can't really base this man's life on a single post. With Depression all you need is just one thing, just one thing to tip the scales to kill yourself. Perhaps this break up was this man's straw.
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