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A Real Boyfriend
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Posted 7/17/11
You guys still going at it? You know this list was written by some emo 14 year old girl right? Don't get into such heated discussions over it..oh...wait. Most of you are 14 year old girls.

Take it back, fight away.
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RoyalLush wrote:

You guys still going at it? You know this list was written by some emo 14 year old girl right? Don't get into such heated discussions over it..oh...wait. Most of you are 14 year old girls.

Take it back, fight away.


Will do, kind sir.
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True, you should protect the ones you love, but fucking with stupid people's fun. I don't really look for flame wars, but some times it just looks too easy.
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Whatever floats your boat
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the list is overly idealized, the person it would end up creating would be schizophrenic
Posted 8/2/11

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the list is overly idealized, the person it would end up creating would be schizophrenic




How so?
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Vega66 wrote:


goldenarms wrote:

the list is overly idealized, the person it would end up creating would be schizophrenic




How so?

I understand how each of the individual listings could be considered positive in a specific context, but if a person were to truly behave like that, they would most likely not be able to function in society. it would be as if every decision they made would be contextualized in relation to your feelings for your significant other. but any relationship is a union between two INDIVIDUALS. if either of those two individuals isn't reasonably well balanced in and of themselves, the relationship itself will collapse as that lack of balance affects individual well-being and ultimately the well-being of the relationship. the list is overly-idealized because the writer doesn't fully consider what the realistic consequences of this behavior would be.

perhaps this viewpoint lacks a sense of romance, but I find indulging in these sort of views only alienates further from the reality around us and ironically makes it less likely to successfully connect with someone in a healthy manner.
Posted 8/6/11
A real boyfriend is like a unicorn. Admired by many, but just a myth in reality.
Posted 8/6/11
its SWEEEETTTT, but its a dream. and second he sounds like hes a slave to her or sth
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Posted 8/6/11
OH, I'm a real boy! ......friend
Posted 8/6/11

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OH, I'm a real boy!


Really?

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Posted 8/6/11
aww how sweet! just like my ex
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29 / M / 3rd Echelon, 東京
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Just read this, it will make a difference.

If only everyone could read this and understand this.


- When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
- When she pushes you or hits you like a dummie because she thinks she's stonger then you, grab her and don't let go.
- When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her.
- When she's quiet, ask her what's wrong.
- When she ignores you, give her your attention.
- When she pulls away, pull her back.
- When you see her at her worst, tell her she's beautiful.
- When you see her start crying, just hold her and don't say a word.
- When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.
- When she's scared, protect her.
- When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.
- When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.
- When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.
- When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up.
- When she says she loves you, she really does more then you can understand.
- When she grabs at your hands, hold her's and play with her fingers.
- When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.
- When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.
- When she looks at you in your eyes, don't look away until she does.
- When she says it's over, she still wants you to be hers.
- When she repost this bulletin, she wants you to read it.


• Stay on the phone with her, even if she's not saying anything.
• When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go.
• When she says she's okay, don't believe it. Talk with her because ten years later, she'll remember you.
• Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.
• Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
• Stay up with her all night when she's sick.
• Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show, even if you think it's stupid.
• Give her your world.
• Let her wear your clothes.
• When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
• Let her know she's important.
• Don't talk about other girls around her.
• Kiss her in the pouring rain.
• When she runs up to you crying, first thing you say is "Whose ass am I kicking baby?"



I was tagged in this on FaceBook and i was like wow, thats so sweet. what do u guys think on it? there are so many guys who dont do this stuff, if u really read it and think about if this is what ur bf did he really cares alot about you

EDIT : I DID NOT CREATE THIS LIST I'M JUST POSTING IT TO SEE UR OPINIONS!


sounds like some high maintenance stuff right there.
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Posted 8/6/11 , edited 8/6/11
I just noticed that my boyfriend doesn't even do half of this stuff...yay.

Actually, I don't want my boyfriend to do half of this stuff. I think if I'm mad at him and he thinks he can try and kiss me I'm going to punch him in the jaw.
The list is a bit unreal.
Posted 11/9/11
be jealous bitchez! i'm pretty sure my bf read this and was like "hm, yeah i should totally be like this" cuz he does that. and i'm not just saying that cuz he's my bf and i think he's perfect, but i was reading that and kept saying "ha! he does that...hey! he does that too. and that one!" haha. be jealous...i don't care, cuz he's mine!


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• When she runs up to you crying, first thing you say is "Whose ass am I kicking baby?"

LMAO

Ya sounds like the perfect boyfriend but sadly guys like that dont exist in the real world. But some really nice boyfriends might qualify with a few or maybe more of those but that is as good as it gets


yeah, he even does that! that's one of the first thing he says when he sees me crying. though, he says it more like "alright, who's body do i have to bury?" hehe!
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