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A Real Boyfriend
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Posted 11/10/11
Thats really sweet, i wish i had a guy like that for me
Posted 11/10/11
I also wish I had a guy like that.
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18 / F / Planet Mato
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Posted 11/10/11
i'd have to be dreaming to find a guy like that...if i was a guy i probably wouldn't do everything in that list some, but not everything.
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26 / M / Orem, Utah
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Posted 11/10/11
It does not matter on the mans side what he does. It is really the female that interprets it. Some of the below is just proper or being a gentleman.
However.
1-3,6,8,9,12,13,16,19,21,32 can be considered assault, being forceful, stalker like, controlling or, even sexual battery.
4,5 can be considered being nosy or intrusive.
7,27 can make you look like you are lying
10 might be overly protective
11,14,26,28 can be considered your a pushover
15,16 might get annoyed or ticklish
17 good, unless it involves the law or morals
18 could turn into a blinking contest
20,23,30 don't value her or her time for wasting it
22 just shows she is not being honest with you or herself.
24,29 can be considered obsessive
25,31 can be unhealthy

If she respects and trusts you then no matter what you do she will know that you love her and that you would never do anything on purpose to hurt her. It also helps if she is not narcissistic.
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Posted 11/10/11
ohso interesting.
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21 / F / USA
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Posted 11/10/11
- When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her.

I don't do this but it just reminded me about times when me and my boyfriend have arguments. After I've said everything I wanted to and there's kind of a silent moment, he tells me he loves me and just seems really hurt.

Some of those things are really cute but I wouldn't change my boyfriend for the world.
Posted 11/10/11
Awww, why are we even talking about this? Oh, right because it makes me so in love, I want to vomit.
Posted 11/17/11
mmmm i wanna find me a guy like that <3 *pouty face*
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Posted 11/17/11
- When she pulls away, pull her back.
(Don't have to explain this one)

• Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
(Why so you can drive her insane constantly only talking about her and being obsessed over her?)

• Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.
(Why at 12:00am? at least figure out the time she was conceived so you know what time she was really born.)

- When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.
(So she knees you in the nuts and maces you.)

- When she says it's over, she still wants you to be hers.
(That's right hide in the bushes, she'll never know.)

Hardly characteristics of a good boyfriend, more like a great stalker and possible rapist.

There are good men out there, you just need to look the right way. First off people on social media sites like this lie there asses off, finding an honest guy on here is very rare indeed. Second you have to ask them who truly influences there lives, I find this to be a huge way to learn about someone. Girl says Bella swan, all I see is vampire sex freak who has a mutant baby. I see she believes in the philosophy of Amida Buddha I see a possible life companion. Third don't be picky, if you meet a nice guy who is has a bad habit or a characteristic you don't like then don't look at the present but also the future, if he's fat, give him the strength to lose it, acne, teach him to prevent it, he's rude at a dinner table, help him. Love is without a doubt about absolute commitment under any circumstance, Infidelity is in my book is equal to murder (Then again I don't kill worms, flies or spider even if they were on my face.) Fourth love is also growth and compromise, you must be willing to make sacrifices for love or it can never grow, if you don't spend time watering a flower that flower will die. There should never be a single argument in a relationship, why you might ask, simple ether of the partners must be able to push aside there opinions sometimes and focus on the love itself. Fifth, don't have sex until marriage, there is no point in it what so ever, unless you are a weak and fall easily into temptation. Jealousy and temptation are the soul and body of every evil. I don;t claim at all to be an expert with being a boyfriend or a husband since I have never been ether, but my values and strengths I have learned and imbedded into my spirit are unyielding. I urge everyone to really read what I wrote and try to apply some of it into there own lives. I also forgot, don't be lazy! If there is someone about yourself you don't like then change it, everything in this world changes, life and death, spring to winter, old and new, its ever changing and if you don't change yourself you will feel incompletely and feel left behind. Anyways good luck, a real boyfriend is what you make of him in many ways.
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Posted 11/17/11
Hey girls, I know that some of you like this in your man, but having these "lists" just puts pressure on us to be perfect, when we are really not. Sure, there is the possibility that you will find a guy who basically reads your mind, but for the rest of us (at least for me) it puts so much pressure on that we feel we can't ever fulfill your every need, even when we really want to. Here's a tip. If you like a guy, start dating him, and think it's going to be serious, sit down with him, look him dead in the eye, and have a serious conversation. Getting straight to the point is the only way. I wish my girlfriend had done this. Then again, she was a habitual lair, and never liked me for who I was, just who she could turn me into.
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Posted 11/17/11
Edit: actually, the guy above nailed it on the head better than I. Take his post instead. He seems better with words (or had more time on his hands).
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Posted 11/17/11

Sola_Sun wrote:

Just read this, it will make a difference.

If only everyone could read this and understand this.


- When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
- When she pushes you or hits you like a dummie because she thinks she's stonger then you, grab her and don't let go.
- When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her.
- When she's quiet, ask her what's wrong.
- When she ignores you, give her your attention.
- When she pulls away, pull her back.
- When you see her at her worst, tell her she's beautiful.
- When you see her start crying, just hold her and don't say a word.
- When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.
- When she's scared, protect her.
- When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.
- When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.
- When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.
- When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up.
- When she says she loves you, she really does more then you can understand.
- When she grabs at your hands, hold her's and play with her fingers.
- When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.
- When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.
- When she looks at you in your eyes, don't look away until she does.
- When she says it's over, she still wants you to be hers.
- When she repost this bulletin, she wants you to read it.


• Stay on the phone with her, even if she's not saying anything.
• When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go.
• When she says she's okay, don't believe it. Talk with her because ten years later, she'll remember you.
• Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.
• Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
• Stay up with her all night when she's sick.
• Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show, even if you think it's stupid.
• Give her your world.
• Let her wear your clothes.
• When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
• Let her know she's important.
• Don't talk about other girls around her.
• Kiss her in the pouring rain.
• When she runs up to you crying, first thing you say is "Whose ass am I kicking baby?"



I was tagged in this on FaceBook and i was like wow, thats so sweet. what do u guys think on it? there are so many guys who dont do this stuff, if u really read it and think about if this is what ur bf did he really cares alot about you

EDIT : I DID NOT CREATE THIS LIST I'M JUST POSTING IT TO SEE UR OPINIONS!




I remember seeing this many many many years ago... can't believe it's still around.
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Posted 11/17/11
You girls are always needy. This sounds like a clingy annoying bf
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Posted 11/17/11
LOL these are all what a creeper/stalker would do, not a real boyfriend!!! I'm going to modify this a little... heh.

- When she stares at your mouth, check a mirror because you might have something stuck between your teeth.
- When she pushes you or hits you like a dummie because she thinks she's stonger then you, dump her because she obviously doesn't respect your manhood.
- When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, tell her that she looks pathetic.
- When she's quiet, stay away from her because she'll most likely yell at you if you go near her.
- When she ignores you, ignore her.
- When she pulls away, you need to stop putting your hands all over her.
- When you see her at her worst, reconsider keeping her.
- When you see her start crying, give her chocolate.
- When you see her walking, walk away.
- When she's scared, laugh at her.
- When she steals your favorite hoodie, steal one of her hoodies.
- When she teases you, cry.
- When she doesn't answer for a long time, yell in her face to check if she can hear you properly.
- When she looks at you with doubt, she doesn't trust you.
- When she says she loves you, she really does not.
- When she grabs at your hands, she does that with everyone.
- When she bumps into you, it's an accident.
- When she tells you a secret, it's probably a false, dirty lie.
- When she looks at you in your eyes, she wants something so don't look back.
- When she says it's over, IT'S OVER DUDE.
- When she repost this bulletin, she doesn't want to stay single for the rest of her life.


• Stay on the phone with her, even if she's not saying anything, even if she's telling you to hang up, even if she hates you, even if you have a lot of stuff to do, even if you need to go somewhere, even if you're wasting time.
• When she's mad, let her know that she needs to appreciate you.
• When she says she's okay, don't believe it. Bitches lie.
• Do Not Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her. She'll dump you and you'll know it wasn't worth it.
• Treat her like she's all that matters to you, and then be heart-broken when she dumps you 2 weeks after dating.
• Stay up with her all night when she's sick. But don't fuck her.
• Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show, even if you think it's stupid. Movies=sex.
• Give her your world. Probably small anyway.
• If you let her wear your clothes, you won't have any.
• When she's bored and sad, hang out with her. Actually, when ANYONE is bored and sad, hang out with them.
• Ask her if you're important.
• Don't talk about other girls around her. Because then she'll be jealous because she is a clingy girlfriend who never lets you have female friends or a social life.
• Kiss her in the pouring rain. So you let her get drenched and sick for the next few weeks.
• When she runs up to you crying, first thing you say is "Whose ass am I kicking baby?" And then she'll look at you weirdly and tells you that you're the reason she's upset. And then she slaps you.
Posted 11/17/11
wahaaahaa, no men are flawless.. it's just in manga and your dreamsssss.
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