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A Real Boyfriend
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22 / M / Moon
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Posted 12/19/10
nobody in the universe can keep such an act .... that list is true when the relationship is still new .....
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Posted 12/19/10

Rina-San wrote:


Fadadio wrote:


Rina-San wrote:

Wow I'm so not turned on right now.
did you expect to be turned on by this post?



Nowp I was just pointing out that I personally prefer men to be men.



She's telling the truth. Nothing turns her on more than maturity and masculinity in a man. Indeed...
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The list is funny and in my opinion, describes every typical anime boyfriend. If a guy in the real world pulled half these things, he would be considered clingy, immature, etc and be left sad and alone.
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Posted 12/19/10
It would be cute if guys did that. But then, it would start to be annoying and no one would be special anymore
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23 / M / sweden
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Posted 12/19/10
Do all this and you have no time to even sleep.... please shorten the list so it's at least possible.
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Crille wrote:

Do all this and you have no time to even sleep.... please shorten the list so it's at least possible.
indeed and more down to earth list would be better

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I was like this for my first few girlfriends. It was a lot of work, but I was a romantic. The result was that they cheated on me and/or treated me like dirt. They didn't respect me at all. So, sadly, I don't have the energy to do it anymore. I still try to be a good guy, but I'm a bit burned out on trying to be prince charming.

Thing is, women have these fantasies but they want them to remain as fantasies. When a guy tries to do all that stuff in real life they don't know how to handle it. It seems creepy or clingy, because it is creepy and clingy.

And from the other side, it's selfish. A woman who wants to be the center of attention, who's used to getting her way all the time, isn't going to stick around when the it's the guy who is in need of some support. In other words, she wants a toy, rather than a human. The prince charming fantasy is not really different than the fantasy of having a magical robot maid or a genie in a bottle.
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Posted 12/19/10
If you think this is normal in straight men... I wonder have you ever had a real boyfriend?
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25 / M / the Netherlands
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Posted 12/19/10
This is a bad list, for both sides.

If a guy would be such a softie to do all those things the girl won't find him very sexually attractive, because he acts desperate and needy by acting as if she is a queen. Girls want a confident guy that treats them with respect, not follow her around and act like a BFF. Without sexual attraction from both sides the relationship is not healthy and will not last long. - So the girl will have a wuss she isn't interested in and the guy has a big chance on getting cheated on.

Please ignore this list, guys.
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I was bored so I answered the first part speaking in my own terms. The second part, I quoted any statement that a guy does not follow.

Heres a main problem most girls have, espically the young ones. They want to be treated like princesses, yet they don't want to treat their men like a prince. I see a lot of "do this for me, and only me", it's the same mentality of a spoiled brat. We aren't attracted to girls like this, we are attracted to the TomGirls, the Complete Lady, the best friend, exc. (Every guy is attracted to different personalities) Women who do things for them, who make them feel special. If you want a example, watch anime basic harem anime, something that guys are attracted towards, why? Anime girls like that don't exist, like Ah My Goddess. It works both ways. I hear that comment all the time, "Guys in the anime, movies, whatever, don't exist"....the reality?...The reason why those guys don't exist, is because guys never care to waste their time to become them, no point in wasting our time being the prince charming, when their are no princesses to be charming for.

If you are a girl and are reading this post, ask yourself this, when is the last time you took a good look in the mirror and judged yourself? I am not talking about on the outside, past the makeup, not your looks, but on the inside. Most men do care about looks first, but men graduate to love, when the personality matches. How do you know if you are a lady? Have you ever said, "Wow guys like that don't exist?" Then the answer is no you are not, why? Because a true lady would always put herself first, and say, "I'm the one who's not good enough."
and when a man meets a girl like this? Sparks fly, extremely fast, and you will see 500 men chasing after you. (Unforunately true, though I hate to admit it if you have the looks to match because men do care about appearances, as ladies do.)
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Tarya wrote:

Personally sounds like a crock of crap to me...sounds like a sappy girl who has major insecurity issues and doesn't know how to communicate well...
My husband is about as sweet a man as I have found, but if I want a kiss, or a hug, or need reassurance, I sure as hell better open my mouth and say something! The key to any good and lasting relationship is communication. Don't ever expect your loved one to read your mind (unless you have proof that they are a psychic). Talk about everything! Even if you think they will laugh, or it will be hard for them to hear...if the person loves you, they will listen, and will try to understand.
And learn to compromise and show respect equally. Ladies, we can not expect our boyfriends/husbands to treat us like a princess and cater to our every need, and then not give them the same treatment. If we are a princess, then they are the prince and should be respected and pampered as well...

Anyways, just my opinion though.


Oh, I didn't see this post. Well darn, I posted all of that for nothing. Most women don't figure this out until their later years. It's always spoiled women or immature girls who aren't, both are destined for a lot of bad relationships, you nailed it perfectly. Makes perfectly sense why you have a good marriage.
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Posted 12/19/10
Sounds very good for you girls but for a guy thats a LOT of work, keep it real ladies
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22 / M / O.C. So.Cal
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Posted 12/19/10

razi3l-0 wrote:

nobody in the universe can keep such an act .... that list is true when the relationship is still new .....


true...I say, give it a month and see if that act still keeps up
Posted 12/20/10

Tamoka wrote:

This is a bad list, for both sides.

If a guy would be such a softie to do all those things the girl won't find him very sexually attractive, because he acts desperate and needy by acting as if she is a queen. Girls want a confident guy that treats them with respect, not follow her around and act like a BFF. Without sexual attraction from both sides the relationship is not healthy and will not last long. - So the girl will have a wuss she isn't interested in and the guy has a big chance on getting cheated on.

Please ignore this list, guys.


http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-684327/a-real-girlfriend
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Posted 12/20/10
Such a guy will never exists.
Not in our dreams or reality.
Accept it now.
And look for second best.
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