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Hurtful HeartBreaks
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Posted 12/23/10
have you ever been heartbroken? Recently i broke up with a girl but i was not just heartbroken i was hurt so badly. she was the one i thought i would love forever and yet she just decided im not worth it. About a few days later she tells me she finally realized that she loves me more than ever because she got together with another guy during the month we broke up. Im angry but i know i still like her so what can i do? Do anyone you have things that painful and are willing to share so i can decide what i can do.
Posted 12/23/10
YES MAN.
You got leverage over her now.
Since she came back first, you are now in a position of power.

ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
Posted 12/23/10 , edited 12/23/10
Once. Yes, it hurt a great deal, but I got over it relatively fast. There is initial anger giving way to depression. I even had a nosebleed much like the old visual gag in anime and manga.

I imagine I might find love again. It could catch me off guard and be far more intense than anything I have ever known.
Posted 12/23/10

Suisighd wrote:

It might catch me off guard and be far more intense than anything I have ever known.


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Sorry to hear that bro, I know the feeling of heartbreak, I've experienced it before.
You are still young so I'm guessing she's young as well, when you're this age you are still quite unsure about what you want in life. I guess that's what she was going through, she probably isn't ready to settle on one guy forever, so she broke it off with you.
I guess if she's the one and you're sure of it, then you should try get her back. Is anger a better feeling than love?
Right now I'm in a really happy relationship in fact I'm even planning on studying in a foreign university just to be with her
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Posted 12/23/10

GheyDeer wrote:

YES MAN.
You got leverage over her now.
Since she came back first, you are now in a position of power.

ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.


^



Honestly this girl of yours seems like a drama queen. To be dumping you then wanting you back seems like any Asian drama , but if you still like her then go for it.
Posted 12/23/10

GheyDeer wrote:


Suisighd wrote:

It might catch me off guard and be far more intense than anything I have ever known.


lolgay.


Seems that way. It always does. Or I can remain apathetic to all emotions..... there's a thought!
Posted 12/23/10

Shohee wrote:


GheyDeer wrote:

YES MAN.
You got leverage over her now.
Since she came back first, you are now in a position of power.

ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.


^



Honestly this girl of yours seems like a drama queen. To be dumping you then wanting you back seems like any Asian drama , but if you still like her then go for it.


But will you allow it?
;3
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Posted 12/23/10

GheyDeer wrote:


Shohee wrote:


GheyDeer wrote:

YES MAN.
You got leverage over her now.
Since she came back first, you are now in a position of power.

ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.


^



Honestly this girl of yours seems like a drama queen. To be dumping you then wanting you back seems like any Asian drama , but if you still like her then go for it.


But will you allow it?
;3


I don't know can I allow it ?
Posted 12/23/10

Shohee wrote:


GheyDeer wrote:


Shohee wrote:


GheyDeer wrote:

YES MAN.
You got leverage over her now.
Since she came back first, you are now in a position of power.

ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.
ANAL.


^



Honestly this girl of yours seems like a drama queen. To be dumping you then wanting you back seems like any Asian drama , but if you still like her then go for it.


But will you allow it?
;3


I don't know can I allow it ?


I'll be over at 6.
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Posted 12/23/10
Hahahah. Anal.
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darkd8277 wrote:

have you ever been heartbroken? Recently i broke up with a girl but i was not just heartbroken i was hurt so badly. she was the one i thought i would love forever and yet she just decided im not worth it. About a few days later she tells me she finally realized that she loves me more than ever because she got together with another guy during the month we broke up. Im angry but i know i still like her so what can i do? Do anyone you have things that painful and are willing to share so i can decide what i can do.


In your situation it wouldn't be crazy for you to hook up with her again.

In the situation of one of my close friends however...

She met a guy while in military training that she liked a lot and they hit it off right away. After training ends you can be deployed pretty far from your boyfriend/girlfriend unless you get married (Not really a church wedding, most people who do this just get themselves a quick marriage for legal purposes and have another wedding sometime down the road).

So they got married and their first deployment was to Italy.

They eventually had a baby that they gave up for adoption to a couple that were good friend of theirs but could not have children(since both of them worked most of the day and didn't want to raise the child with a day nanny). Nothing ever went wrong with that.

But one day he flipped out and decided they were done. At first she was pretty shocked but couldn't really say much, so she agreed to it. But since they were still living together on deployment in a three story house things were pretty awkward. After a short time he started getting invasive. He was checking her emails, spying on her conversations and getting mad at her for talking with other men. It got so bad that she decided to move in with a friend(girl). On the day her friend came to help pack her stuff and carry it out, he waited till her friend walked out and locked the door. He then told her she couldn't leave unless she put down the stuff first (tried to force her to stay). So basically she was forced to leave without any of her stuff.

He then goes on vacation back to the states without her and has a good time, contemplates, then returns. "Oh I'm so sorry" blah blah blah basically asking for a second chance and forgiveness. But it's too late. Damage is done and she's already over him.

Is this story the same? Hardly, only in idea. But you should understand that there are levels of extremity that make it impossible for a broken relationship to work again. You should weigh the level of commitment you had with her before she broke up with you to determine if you want to try it again.
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Posted 12/23/10
I know how you're feeling right now, but it's probably best if you don't take her back (at least not right away). If you take her back without making her work for you you're pretty much telling her that she has you wrapped around her little finger and she's in control of you. People want what they can't have, so I guess if you wanna give it a shot just act apathetic towards her and distance yourself a little bit, make her think you're uninterested for awhile. If she really wants you back, she will chase you.

In the meantime, really think about whether you want to try things again or not. My ex broke up with me unexpectedly about a month and a half ago, and I felt pretty heartbroken afterward. For awhile I had full intentions of doing whatever it takes to win him back, but after sitting on it for a couple weeks, and really thinking about our relationship and the type of person he was, I realized I didn't want him back at all, and I actually ended up liking someone else. Go figure.
Posted 12/23/10
I vote that you pimp smack her.... because she at first she decides tht ur not worth it, runs off to a guy (who probably have stds) and then she wants you back?
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Posted 12/24/10
Love is such a painful emothion. I try to avoid it as best I can. But the girls in my dating range are all fickle and are desparately seekjng love as to that they can't see what they have untill they lose it. Its really quite frustrating. I haven't had my heart broken. In fact most girls say I'm somewhat cold. I'm not in it for love... just like the thrill of the hunt.
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