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Hurtful HeartBreaks
Posted 12/24/10

darkd8277 wrote:

have you ever been heartbroken? Recently i broke up with a girl but i was not just heartbroken i was hurt so badly. she was the one i thought i would love forever and yet she just decided im not worth it. About a few days later she tells me she finally realized that she loves me more than ever because she got together with another guy during the month we broke up. Im angry but i know i still like her so what can i do? Do anyone you have things that painful and are willing to share so i can decide what i can do.



Abandon her immediately! She had a chance with you, left and then wants to come back! She blew it! (quite possibly in both a literal and figurative sense)
Posted 12/24/10
Every day, thats why I can be so bitter sometimes.

Just hope the stupid New Year is a healing one and not more heartbreak.

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Posted 12/24/10 , edited 12/24/10

darkd8277 wrote:

have you ever been heartbroken? Recently i broke up with a girl but i was not just heartbroken i was hurt so badly. she was the one i thought i would love forever and yet she just decided im not worth it. About a few days later she tells me she finally realized that she loves me more than ever because she got together with another guy during the month we broke up. Im angry but i know i still like her so what can i do? Do anyone you have things that painful and are willing to share so i can decide what i can do.


4 years ago my ex girlfriend cheated on me a day before I went on Christmas vacation.
I broke up with her and we both took the break up really hard. I didn't talk to her at all while I was on vacation.

The day I came back my friends were trying to get me to go back out with her because she was truly sorry.
On New Years Eve she and my best friend wanted me to come and spend the night with them.
I did go with them but we just ended up in a really bad fight.

So I ended it for good.
I just thought that I can end it once and deal with that one heartbreak.

If I continued the relationship I would've just gotten hurt even worse in the future.

btw I love the name of this thread.
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Posted 12/24/10
yeah alot it sucks to be you
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Posted 12/25/10
I want to thank you people for all the support and experiences and i think i need to think hard about what i want. I know its tough to think of past experiences but Even if we try to forget it, there are many things that remind me of the good and bad times. But MERRY CHRISTMAS !! thanks
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Posted 12/25/10
hmmm well when i had a bf, my first one i thought eveything was going fine! we dated for 4 months with out any fights but one day i get a call from hima nd he told me he was breaking up with me. i really liked him too and he didnt have the guts to tell me in person, doing over the phone only hurt even more and i never even got to kiss him either. he said he wanted to be just friends so it hurt pretty badly.

another time i liked this guy and he was my best guy friend but i never told anyone ( big mistake) later i saw that one of my closest friend liked him too but you could tell even though she never told me. So i pushed them together and at dance they went to together, i went outside and walker around the school, i saw them kissing and i almost wanted to cry but eventually i did so that no one would find out i pretended to fall down the stares and get hurt, even though i wasnt hurting on the outside i was hurting on the inside, but it was the right thing to do right?

Also a couple of times there were guys who said they liked me but when i told them i liked them too, they rejected me and when they did i found out they got other girls friends. i kinda have bad luck with guys but some day my prince will come ^^
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Posted 12/25/10
Yeah~~ ive been heartbroken..but its just puppy love anyway~~
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Posted 12/28/10

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hmmm well when i had a bf, my first one i thought eveything was going fine! we dated for 4 months with out any fights but one day i get a call from hima nd he told me he was breaking up with me. i really liked him too and he didnt have the guts to tell me in person, doing over the phone only hurt even more and i never even got to kiss him either. he said he wanted to be just friends so it hurt pretty badly.

another time i liked this guy and he was my best guy friend but i never told anyone ( big mistake) later i saw that one of my closest friend liked him too but you could tell even though she never told me. So i pushed them together and at dance they went to together, i went outside and walker around the school, i saw them kissing and i almost wanted to cry but eventually i did so that no one would find out i pretended to fall down the stares and get hurt, even though i wasnt hurting on the outside i was hurting on the inside, but it was the right thing to do right?

Also a couple of times there were guys who said they liked me but when i told them i liked them too, they rejected me and when they did i found out they got other girls friends. i kinda have bad luck with guys but some day my prince will come ^^



Hey I think that for most girls its the guys loss to not see the good in you. Dont worry about it im sure you will find the right guy either in the future or in your case i hope you find the right guy soon. ^-^ Thanks for sharing it feels a little better having people talk about things like this when you feel like crap. My friend said that its ok because everything will be a experience so dont give up and keep going ! And i love the stair case part cause i used it before also..
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Posted 12/28/10

darkd8277 wrote:


Sola_Sun wrote:

hmmm well when i had a bf, my first one i thought eveything was going fine! we dated for 4 months with out any fights but one day i get a call from hima nd he told me he was breaking up with me. i really liked him too and he didnt have the guts to tell me in person, doing over the phone only hurt even more and i never even got to kiss him either. he said he wanted to be just friends so it hurt pretty badly.

another time i liked this guy and he was my best guy friend but i never told anyone ( big mistake) later i saw that one of my closest friend liked him too but you could tell even though she never told me. So i pushed them together and at dance they went to together, i went outside and walker around the school, i saw them kissing and i almost wanted to cry but eventually i did so that no one would find out i pretended to fall down the stares and get hurt, even though i wasnt hurting on the outside i was hurting on the inside, but it was the right thing to do right?

Also a couple of times there were guys who said they liked me but when i told them i liked them too, they rejected me and when they did i found out they got other girls friends. i kinda have bad luck with guys but some day my prince will come ^^



Hey I think that for most girls its the guys loss to not see the good in you. Dont worry about it im sure you will find the right guy either in the future or in your case i hope you find the right guy soon. ^-^ Thanks for sharing it feels a little better having people talk about things like this when you feel like crap. My friend said that its ok because everything will be a experience so dont give up and keep going ! And i love the stair case part cause i used it before also..


Thanks and yeah with the stair case, i dont like people to worry or worry about me, and i always put people before myself so they can be happy cuz thats all i need, plus having my friend know i liked him would have made things worse and being who she is, she would have started to fight over him with me even though i let her have him :/
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Posted 12/28/10
My ex broke up with me out of nowhere and I had no indication it was coming. Before we dated, we'd been friends for almost 3 years. We'd been together for over a year too, and it just came out of nowhere and hit me in the face. I didn't eat, drink, or sleep much for three days....
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Posted 12/28/10
Watching someone you love, love someone else )':
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Posted 12/28/10
Omfg! i just know exactly how you feel right now =[... we're in the same world... fml..
Posted 12/28/10
Take it from Yoda

“Happens to every guy sometimes this does”
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Posted 12/29/10
you "broke up with the girl" even though you "thought she would be the one you would love forever"??????

sorry....i don't really want to know why you broke up with her but i can sympathize with her. let me try to explain why she did what she did (this can be inaccurate since i don't know what happened and she is not me). maybe with this explanation, it can help you understand some girls and their thinking.

breaking up is hard on both of you. Accept and understand that. anger is one of the initial manifestation of this reaction to a break-up. since she was angry at you for breaking up with her...she said things like "your not worth it". Girls and Guys say things sometimes that they either don't mean...misused words to convey what they really mean...etc. when she found a rebound...she realized how much she missed you and loved you. Guys and Girls always have the tendency to miss someone they leave behind...its the memories sometimes.....

miscommunication can really complicate matters at hand. based from experience...time can help prevent miscommunication.

i think time apart was all both of you really needed. sometimes..."cool off" is a better choice than a "break up". sometimes...couples go on a phase called open relationship which can be both healing and rewarding if both of you are in an optimistic mind set with clear boundaries. the main purpose for both cool off and/or open relationship is time and space apart from one another.

for an advise: give yourself and her some time to think about the relationship....(where do you see the relationship going? do you really love this person wholeheartedly including the heartbreak that just happened?) then both of you should think of forgiveness...then possibly, reconciliation....honest communication is really key to forgiveness and reconciliation. in order to get there...it really takes some time (weeks...months)!

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Posted 12/29/10

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Suisighd wrote:

It might catch me off guard and be far more intense than anything I have ever known.


lolgay.


HAHAHAHA....
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