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Posted 12/29/10 , edited 12/29/10

darkd8277 wrote:

have you ever been heartbroken? Recently i broke up with a girl but i was not just heartbroken i was hurt so badly. she was the one i thought i would love forever and yet she just decided im not worth it. About a few days later she tells me she finally realized that she loves me more than ever because she got together with another guy during the month we broke up. Im angry but i know i still like her so what can i do? Do anyone you have things that painful and are willing to share so i can decide what i can do.


Abstinence makes the heart grow founder...... If she left and came back, she probably realized that you're the one for her... We girls sometimes have that moment where we think one thing is better than the other, but when we get that one thing we find that it's not better after all and b4 we know it we regret our stupid decisions and sometimes its to late to fix it(Same thing goes for u guys)... But it might not be to late for u 2 since the love is still there, I guess the only thing that stands between u 2 now is u....
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Posted 12/30/10

InDLegacy wrote:


darkd8277 wrote:

have you ever been heartbroken? Recently i broke up with a girl but i was not just heartbroken i was hurt so badly. she was the one i thought i would love forever and yet she just decided im not worth it. About a few days later she tells me she finally realized that she loves me more than ever because she got together with another guy during the month we broke up. Im angry but i know i still like her so what can i do? Do anyone you have things that painful and are willing to share so i can decide what i can do.


In your situation it wouldn't be crazy for you to hook up with her again.

Is this story the same? Hardly, only in idea. But you should understand that there are levels of extremity that make it impossible for a broken relationship to work again. You should weigh the level of commitment you had with her before she broke up with you to determine if you want to try it again.


whats left for me to really do is to let her go i guess but i am not ready to give her up. My mind is always trying to tell me to forget about her but everywhere i go i think of her and have had memories of bringing her there. There are to many things holding me back and too many things i cant full decide. But i want to thankk everyone who has commented because it really helps.
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Posted 12/30/10
ehh... fuck her she should've realized in the first place
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Posted 12/31/10
Amen chibi! Darkd my brother been there done that you gotta forget her man she'll just fuck u over again that's what most women do their so fucken wishy washy when it comes to relationships as soon as they start to feel "bored" or you don't make enough money their fucken gone bro
Posted 12/31/10
You and i are about the same .. just that mine is a little different from what you had from your heartbroken experience.

I kinda had to give the girl up because i felt that there's no more love. Of course i still love her but i still had to because its for the sake of her happiness. You see , when you love someone , you could really do some things that you think that you are unable to do. I thought i had her for the rest of my life but , things changed and things aren't the way i expected anymore. That's why i had to give her up. Being with another probably make her more happy than i am with her.
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Posted 12/31/10
Well it's friday and I happen to be sitting here.

I read and wondered, did she really say you weren't good enough?

I can't imagine that being the sole reason. I mean no relationship is perfect, every couple has faults if you understand.
At the moment I have can nay remember a lot of couples that got back together for good, could that mean something?
You broke up once before, what is there to say you won't break up again? What message are you giving her if you take her back?
What has she done to convince you about her desires with you?

In the end, you don't want to spend your life with someone who may not deserve you. The emotions will be there for a while but one has to think with the mind and draw conclusions from that.

My thoughts, if you meet someone, care for them and love the last thing you would do is "TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT BECAUSE I'M NOT SURE THAT THIS IS THE BEST I CAN GET".


If it does work for you, good. Just make sure you are thinking things through properly and remember as you were in love with her that you will always think that this was the girl/woman. In reality if she had been the one then she would never have done the above!

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Posted 12/31/10
yes but it's been a few months so i'm over it. if you stay contemplating over hear break you wont be able to open up to another person. in my opinion
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Posted 12/31/10
in my case it was painful enough for me seeing his facebook profile pic with his girlfriend
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Posted 12/31/10
never been heartbroken before. but it hurts to see the guy you like to be obviously interested with your bestie
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