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What does if feel like to be in love?
Posted 4/8/11

Your_Typical_Friend wrote:

in burns when you pee


This comment contains 100% win.

Anyway.

I can honestly say I don't know.
Posted 4/8/11 , edited 4/8/11
I can't perceive love. I'd like someone to explain it to me sometime, since I only understand the textbook example, not the practice of.
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Posted 4/8/11
The only way to judge if I really like a girl is if I don't want to get out of bed immediately after having sex... love is actually wanting to stay in bed till morning and then some.
Posted 4/9/11
I would tell my opinion but i would feel embarrassed. I think i keep it to myself.
Posted 4/9/11

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The only way to judge if I really like a girl is if I don't want to get out of bed immediately after having sex... love is actually wanting to stay in bed till morning and then some.


Real love is not having sex and penis talking to you, but of course it will eventually lead you into the bed to make love. Where you can show your feelings towards the partner.

I don't know where people get these stupid stupid ideas, that when you love someone you have to have sex like animals, seems like most of the people, never have felt real love. Just the animal side of it and fools themselves to believe ' Yeah, maybe this is the love the tv and media is talking about... oh yeah, now i get it. Its to have sex till the morning and after that you just want more' . That my friend is lust.
That kind of misconception makes me puke.
Posted 4/9/11
To put it simply, it makes you feel bubbly.

It's that feeling when your heart is beating super duper fast when you're around them, and when you're always trying to make conversation, never EVER wanting to stop getting to know them. Your hands get sweaty, and when they leave you go c r a z y. Insomnia and everything. You fluster around your words from time to time, because you're a nervous wreck when they're around, it's like.. the person of said interest is your personal heroin. Actually, no scratch that, I don't know what it feels like to be on heroin. Your own personal drug. There.

For me, at least, that's what it is.
Posted 4/9/11
It feels like peeling off all your skin and jumping into the saltiest water in the world.

It burns like a fuckin' B****!
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It's a poison that slowly disintegrates your respiratory & cardiovascular systems. Unfortunately, there is no known cure besides amnesia & death.
Posted 4/9/11

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dokudokugwo wrote:

The only way to judge if I really like a girl is if I don't want to get out of bed immediately after having sex... love is actually wanting to stay in bed till morning and then some.


Real love is not having sex and penis talking to you, but of course it will eventually lead you into the bed to make love. Where you can show your feelings towards the partner.

I don't know where people get these stupid stupid ideas, that when you love someone you have to have sex like animals, seems like most of the people, never have felt real love. Just the animal side of it and fools themselves to believe ' Yeah, maybe this is the love the tv and media is talking about... oh yeah, now i get it. Its to have sex till the morning and after that you just want more' . That my friend is lust.
That kind of misconception makes me puke
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I'm liking you more and more, Sirram,
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Posted 4/9/11

Sirrampautus wrote:


dokudokugwo wrote:

The only way to judge if I really like a girl is if I don't want to get out of bed immediately after having sex... love is actually wanting to stay in bed till morning and then some.


Real love is not having sex and penis talking to you, but of course it will eventually lead you into the bed to make love. Where you can show your feelings towards the partner.

I don't know where people get these stupid stupid ideas, that when you love someone you have to have sex like animals, seems like most of the people, never have felt real love. Just the animal side of it and fools themselves to believe ' Yeah, maybe this is the love the tv and media is talking about... oh yeah, now i get it. Its to have sex till the morning and after that you just want more' . That my friend is lust.
That kind of misconception makes me puke.


Didn't actually expect that to get taken seriously or get a response... anyway it's not a misconception since there is no text book definition and is something the means something different to everyone... so if that was my actual opinion it's no more correct than yours that you're keeping so closely guarded. I posted what I did because I really don't give a shit what love is... there is no right or wrong... and staying in bed till morning in then some means that you care enough for them to be around them afterwards, that it's not just lust since I've been in that situation before and don't want to be with them afterwards. Staying around them does not mean hoping for the promise of more sex in the morning, although that usually does happen, it just means that you don't want to get up and go play games afterwards... which I've found in relationships where I feel that way afterwards I tend to find myself not liking that person as much as other girls where I actually just want to be by them even after that fleeting moment of passion is gone... how that's lust I have no idea... I've had lust before... a girl that I basically only have sex with, that's the only reason I ever thought to invite her over, and that's all we ever did... after it was over I didn't want to be in bed with her any longer unless there was a promise of a round 2 or more within the next 15 minutes... I had better things to do... and so did she.

The girls with whom I've had the most successful and caring relationships with are the ones with that nothing else in the world seemed to matter when I was with them... I thought about them whether I wanted sex or not, and for me, the way to tell that I really like someone is after sex is over... over the years I've learned that when you are in the throws of passion or the moments leading to it you can make bad decisions or be caused to feel maybe more attracted to someone than you really are... and when that's all over those feelings go away too, the goggles come off, and you realize what you're really left with... someone you either really want to be with just to be with them, no promises, or not.

That's one indicator in my book... puke all you want... call me in 10 years when you're my age and you'll feel differently... and someone else older than me will say that about my post and so on. Love is something unique to each person that changes with age and experience... personally at this age I think it's bullshit and something that is fleeting... you can be "in love" with someone and care whether you are just friends, family members, "lovers", whatever... but romantic love... is fleeting... that goes away after a few years and either turns into a love that you would have for a best friend, or it's just convenient to be around someone. The "love" people speak of where you see old couples who say they are just as in love with one another today as they were 50 years ago is so rare that almost none of us will ever experience that. So in the mean time I'm not hung up on finding someone that I can have a love with like that... or even if I'm in love... I look for signs that I genuinely like to be around a person, that we can have some good times together and create some great memories, and however long it lasts is how long it lasts...

In the end all this BS about making you feel dizzy, you're "heart beating faster and slower at the same time" and all that other garbage is just stuff people get hung up on... thinking they should wait till they feel those signs to say they love someone, or to tell that they should marry them or whatever...

But since this is about the definition... It's someone you're happy to be around... who much like family accepts you for who you are and doesn't try to unnecessarily change you to meet their standards... you find them attractive in all ways both physically and mentally, and you feel good about being with them even after the moment of passion is over and your feelings don't change just because you're no longer horny... and if they died or left unexpectedly, you'd be really upset...

To me that is what we might call love, or at least what tells me I want to stay with the person I'm with... and that definition is neither right no wrong... it's just what I use to gauge how much I like someone... we can all have discussions till we turn blue in the face about who's right and who's wrong but at the end of the day no one is. It's why the dictionary, with all the ways the word is used, has 28 different definitions for the word, and most people would probably argue half of them... no one can really pin it down.

tl;dr... I've said my piece above, there's nothing left to say, no one to respond to since your definition is your own and it's right in your mind and no one should tell you it's wrong because it's what you feel. Everyone's definition changes with age and experience, and this post is full of opinions differing in both those areas with hints of jaded feelings or naivety, grounded views in reality or head up in the clouds... and 10 years ago... if you would have asked me then... I never would have thought this would be my current view on the subject... ever. Anyway I'm done with my book here... said what I need to say and will try not to get trolled in responding to this post again since I just don't care anymore.
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Posted 4/9/11
Love for me is a never ending down hill coaster.
Then when you start going up.
You start seeing something...
It goes straight back down.
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Posted 4/9/11
Never been in love. I'm not foolish enough to think that every little crush or feeling of admiration is love. I am a bit curious to know what it feels like, though.
Posted 4/9/11
its when everything feels right
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Hmm, i think i
will try to talk from my own experience here.

Love is when you see the person that you love it makes you happy or excited.
Love is when you care deeply about the person and dont want anything bad to happen to him or her..
Love is when you prefer spending time with your partner rather than friends, fammily, fellow students and co-workers.
Love makes your heart ache and race.
Love is a warm fuzzy feeling.
Love can grow lukewarm over time but it is still there.
True love is a diffrent feeling than you have towards for your fammily or even crushes that you have for a guy or a girl.
Love is a thing when you seriously consider that i want to marry this person or start a family together with this person.
Love is a thing when you support each other regardless of what ppl may say or what pains, sorrows and hardships you may encounter.
Posted 4/9/11
it sucks. you go crazy for the guy until he decides he likes the preppy girl better then you. and then he asks u out a week after they break up...just to make the preppy girl jealous. in short, being in love is like a gamble. you come in thinking you're going to win and by the end you lose it all....
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