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question to girls: Do you ever wish guys would approach you more often?
Posted 1/4/11 , edited 1/4/11
I often hear this from some girls-
That they wish guys would approach them more because they are scared of being rejected by woman. do you wish guys would approach you more? Are you against approaching a guy yourself? yes no? and what kind of girl do you consider yourself. shy/outgoing...etc
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We prefer, guys who approach girls.. As you think, girls have to be approached, not to approach.. We dont like guys, who is coward to confess his feelings. for my own
Posted 1/4/11
I am shy sooo I prefer the guy to take the first step :3
Posted 1/4/11
For me, I guess so. I'm usually a bit afraid to make the approach to a guy I like. Stupid shyness and fear. >.<
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I'm shy type girl who can be loud with someone I know or my friends.. and I don't like to be the one who are gonna approach the guys... I'm not afraid, though..
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Posted 1/4/11 , edited 1/4/11
Even though I'm a dude i just like to post my 2 cr points.

Sometimes guys can be very dense and don't pick the "signals" u are sending to him. If there is a boy u really like u may have to approach him instead , said by my teacher. So if a girl likes a guy that isnt interested/doesn't know her, he in most cases won't approach her.
Anywho u cant always leave fate/destiny/chance/whatever to decide ur relationships , u have to take matters in ur own hands if u want to be happy. If u only want to be approached, then u may meet a quite a few jerks ~ although u may get lucky and have a decent man step up.

As for the people who is shy. I read a story about a boy thats friended and in love with a girl. He is always there for her like going with her to a prom as friends , watching her get married to another man , and sadly to her funeral , but is too shy to tell his feelings. He later found her diary after she died, which said she loved him , but she too.. was shy.
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Posted 1/4/11 , edited 1/4/11
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Eh, I've only approached two guys in my life time. I rather they approach me though. I'm not afraid to state my feelings or ask for a number. So I expect the same from a guy. But I also tend to reject a lot now that I think about it. When guys approach me to aggressively I tend to think they do this ALL the time, if you catch what I'm saying..

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Posted 1/4/11
truth is i have no idea how it looks to the guy when you are the one to go after him.
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I've never been the one doing the approaching and I'm sure that won't change in the near future.
I'd prefer if the man wore the pants.
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I would love it if a guy approached me first, actually I'd be very thankful.
but maybe girls just need to go after the guy she wants nowadays...
Posted 1/4/11
I'm outgoing, so if I see a guy I like, I will want to talk to him and do so, but I have been approached before and they do seem quite nervous so you can't expect the guy to do all the hard work in plucking up courage. Smile at them and show that you're open for conversation and won't bite. Eye contact and all that. Its all about confidence.
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I'm quite timid when it comes to this type of thing, mostly because I'm largely socially inept
Also I have stated many many times (and it still holds true) that I refuse to marry an American, so it's useless for me to look for a man when I can't stick with him for the sake of myself and my future children.
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I'm pretty outgoing and i think a guy should approach the girl first. it's just more sweet anyway =]
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haha the guy needs to approach the girl. otherwise we dunt know if you actually like us or not. plus,if a guy wants relationship or something, its more of the guys job to take initiative first. I generally don't pay attention to guys who don't start something first honestly, i don't ever think ive outright rejected anyone whos approached me (cause i know it takes effort :P)
Posted 1/4/11 , edited 1/4/11
I'm too shy to go up to a guy and ask him out; I'm afraid of rejection. Yet have no problem playing Ms. Match-maker.
Turns out guys suffer with insecurities, too. Don't always expect the man to make the first move, otherwise you'll end up disappointed.
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