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question to girls: Do you ever wish guys would approach you more often?
Posted 1/4/11
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Posted 1/4/11 , edited 1/4/11
I already know most girls prefer the guy to approach them. And no, Facebook, phone calls, and letter-writing do not count in my book.

Face-to-face is the way to go.
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Posted 1/4/11
It would be a blessing if more guys did the approaching.

Usually if I suspect he may have feelings for me, I put on my big girl panties and make the first move and give them my number

After that they usually start approaching me, but sometimes they need a little nudge here and there to remind them that you like them.
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I personally prefer the guy to make the first move. It's not that I'm shy but I won't make a move unless I know the guy is interested and unfortunately I am completely oblivious to hints.
Posted 1/4/11
I have guys approach me, but a guy should start it because that way he gets some points for the approaching (: , &im not shy, i can go up to a guy introduce myself hav a nice convo then get his number but ehhh, face to face is better =)
And people that approach girls throu facebook are losers! >:( , if she goes to your school a "Hi" is not bad ! :DD
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23 / F / Wherever i feel l...
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Yes I would! I mean I can take a hint when I think a guy is intrested but I can never be sure when they don't approach me about it...and then later they get upset with me because I didn't know! I can't help if I get insecure about their feelings that I'm not even sure exists and then I move on...
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Posted 1/4/11
I have a natural death stare, so not really. If they do approach me, it'll be like some guy that I've known for a while, looking for help on math or something. xD
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23 / F / Your Cookie Jar
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Posted 1/4/11
hmmmmmmm =w= oh what a topic

yes I would prefer the dude to make the move.. but if I was really into him, I'd probably say something

and a weirdo who can't stop talking is a bad approach
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Posted 1/4/11
I am guessing this is the best thread to ask this- Why is it so important for the guy to approach the girl? Why do girls insist on being the ones approached? What is wrong with approaching the guy?
Posted 1/4/11
i bet it has something to do with being labeled as slutty and or its the way it should be done men are supposed to traditionally.
Posted 1/5/11 , edited 1/5/11
hehe, im way too shy, so i prefer the guy to take the first step but just say "hi" first cause if the guy said anything more than that and i barely know him I'll get freaked out and avoid him
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Posted 1/5/11
kind of, i mean i might seem outgoing to others, but on the inside im pretty shy...so yeah.
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21 / F / behind you
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Posted 1/5/11
I think it's better if a guy approaches me, i guess its cause i'm shy and won't talk to them otherwise lol
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Posted 1/5/11
Not really... lol.

I'm more comfortable being the one approaching a guy than the other way around. Not sure why... lol, maybe just spent too much time hanging around guys.
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27 / M / United States
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Posted 1/5/11
As a guy i can tell you right now i have regretted not picking up signs of some girls who liked me. Sometimes we dont always know we should approach you. If we are just friends it makes it even harder to leave the friend zone. Asking a friend to fill us guys in wouldn't be a bad idea. Most guys who approach girls are the ones looking for one night stands otherwise we are not going to go looking for you. We need a reason to approach you!

Most people are shy to a point and generally don't know to just be simple. That is true for both boys and girls/men and women.

Just for laughs I answer the questions (sorry if its not funny):

I would have to re-evaluate some things if i was to approach a guy.....last time i checked i was still a guy and straight
Approaching a guy im not against as long as its to pick a fight....especially over a chick
I would say if I was a girl....well i would be one ugly chick and shy i guess but not a coward
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