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Posted 1/16/11

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I had this phase where I would only watch asian/latin tranny porn.

I guess it would be a fetish.
Not really gay.
Cause the trannies with the obviously masculine face don't do anything for me.


My god... thats totally gay! woooow! if your watching that shit knowing that they are guys and you enjoy it! that means you have no problem getting off to guys as well!

Yes it does mean your gay if your attracted to trannies!


I really don't think other people's sexuality is up for a vote or a decision by someone else.
If he says, and truly believes, that he is straight and not bisexual, then he probably is.


Well you know the thing is, you never know what that persons thinking :S

If they enjoy watching something gay, that means their gay? simple logic. At that point he may truly still believe that he's straight, but sooner or later hes gonna come outta the closet, ahahah
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Posted 1/16/11

ghosty32 wrote:


MelodieLenora wrote:

I really don't think other people's sexuality is up for a vote or a decision by someone else.
If he says, and truly believes, that he is straight and not bisexual, then he probably is.


Well you know the thing is, you never know what that persons thinking :S

If they enjoy watching something gay, that means their gay? simple logic. At that point he may truly still believe that he's straight, but sooner or later hes gonna come outta the closet, ahahah


Well, I suppose it could go either way.
Someone appears to be straight all of their life, only watches hetero porn, and has dated only females, then one day comes out as gay and starts going to gay clubs and dating men. Did you know what they were thinking? Maybe, maybe not...
We can't ever know for sure if someone is gay, straight, bisexual, whatever... we can guess, and we can listen to what they say they are.
I think it's nice to just trust what someone else says their sexuality is, since to me that's the respectful thing to do.
I don't mind if people guess my sexuality, because I never seem to be sure myself, so I don't even bother with sexuality labels.
Posted 1/16/11

MelodieLenora wrote:


ghosty32 wrote:


MelodieLenora wrote:

I really don't think other people's sexuality is up for a vote or a decision by someone else.
If he says, and truly believes, that he is straight and not bisexual, then he probably is.


Well you know the thing is, you never know what that persons thinking :S

If they enjoy watching something gay, that means their gay? simple logic. At that point he may truly still believe that he's straight, but sooner or later hes gonna come outta the closet, ahahah


Well, I suppose it could go either way.
Someone appears to be straight all of their life, only watches hetero porn, and has dated only females, then one day comes out as gay and starts going to gay clubs and dating men. Did you know what they were thinking? Maybe, maybe not...
We can't ever know for sure if someone is gay, straight, bisexual, whatever... we can guess, and we can listen to what they say they are.
I think it's nice to just trust what someone else says their sexuality is, since to me that's the respectful thing to do.
I don't mind if people guess my sexuality, because I never seem to be sure myself, so I don't even bother with sexuality labels.


yeah i understand ur point ;]
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Posted 1/16/11
i have no idea..

if you're in love with a tranny and he/she loves you back. that's your choice and i'm happy for you.

if you're just in it for the freaky sex that's a fetish. whatever floats your boat i guess..

if you're not attracted to people of the opposite gender then you're obviously exclusively gay/lesbian. Bisexuals don't count as they are attracted to both.

i'm straight but i keep an open mind to these topics. it's all about respect.

don't dwell on the thought too much. love is what love is. screw what the rest of the world might say and just follow your heart.
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Posted 1/18/11
Pansexual, perhaps. Which could be loosely defined as being attracted to anybody, so that does include transexuals...right? I've always thought gay meant a guy who is only attracted to guys, lesbian is a girl who is only attracted to girls, bi is when someone's attracted to both genders. And trannies aren't really either... (by that I mean physically guy/biologically born a girl OR physically girl/biologically born a guy)

So if not pan, then bi would be my best guess.
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Posted 1/18/11
well if you see the person as a guy then i don't think your gay
twinfools on youtube is a transgender and i think he looks very goodlooking as a guy(i actually thought twinfools was a guy when i first saw him) but i'm not gay so yeah lol
Posted 1/19/11
If someone used to be a man/woman then I'd still consider them a man/woman because they were born like that.
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Posted 4/4/11 , edited 4/4/11
Think of it this way; if a person you like defines themselves as someone of the opposite gender to you, it would be kind of an insult to them to call yourself gay.
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Posted 4/4/11
It's called pan, and it's awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwight.
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Posted 4/4/11
I don't consider anyone anything. It's up to them to decide what to call themselves.
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no where.
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Posted 4/4/11
Um yeah.
I was bi for dating my ex gf.
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Posted 8/12/11
anyone knows tinfools???
anyways i dont think nova his girlfriends *they gonne get merried soon* is not a lesnian coz u know hes a boy basically?!
but on the other hand its really someones personality u like not what he or she looks like
dats my opion
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Posted 8/12/11
lol hey thats what i though
but i mainly liked him becoz of his personality

its this thing where u think "hes actually really cute" but the second u think he used to be or still is a girl then that picture just changes automatically
Posted 8/12/11
You're considered confused.
Posted 8/12/11
well tbh there changing there sex so yes depending on what sex they change to and what sex they date
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