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why cant parents discipline there kids nowadays?
Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/25/11
I was reading through the "do you think the new generation is becoming spoiled" thread and came across posts on how parents cant discipline there kids(when they act like brats) with out nosy people calling CPS, I have too say I strongly agree with that statement >.> it seems that now parents cant do anything about it when there child is acting like a little demon seed,

what do you guys think? =P


gonna make some things clear before Im judged as a bloody monster >.>

1) I dont believe in beating children senseless to a bloody pulp to get them to listen, its only gonna make them fear you

2) Im not encouraging all parents too give there child corpal punishment, if you have another solution that works for you and your child and the results are good then stick too it as long as its not over the top, sure I think corpal punishment works on some kids(the ones who really act up) but it doesn't mean I think its the only option to get them to behave mind you, my parents did other things to get me to behave that worked pretty well with me

3) I dont not support humiliating your child >=P I saw that crap and Dr Phil and I was almost brought too tears, mothers shouldn't make there kids go through cold showers, and force them too leave hot sauce and/or soap in there mouth, that right there is taking it way too far >.>

5) I think the parents who beat there child for mispronouncing a word committed abuse should be locked up! what they did wasn't discipline at all and there reason for doing so wasnt a good reason, getting angry and punishing your kid because they spilled milk on the ground on accident isn't a good reason to give them any punishment at all

6) I dont think there is any need for any tough punishment over small and fixable things 8/ I may have gotten spanked as a kid but it was always for the right reasons(like picking fights with my sister along time ago, talking back really ugly), my mother has never punished me over accidental things, if a kid made a mistake with out meaning too, I think nicely correcting them with out the scolding and hitting will do better


I think this is abuse right here >.> what this mother is doing I think is wrong, especially over the dumbest reasons
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWYT8fCqpmE&feature=related

especially getting her own kids to beat one another while holding them down >=U mothers like her make me sick too my stomach
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Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/24/11
Are you kidding? My parents gave me the DISAPRIN lesson :l . I learned my lesson on not being a spoiled child .

I bet any asian would know where I'm coming from.
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Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/24/11
It's because we live in a society (I'm talking about american society, mind you) where the parent can be anything BUT a parent. Instead...just be their best friend. Dress like them....while encouraging them to follow in your pathetic behavoir, while at the same time holding back any form of their own indiviuality.

Any parent that acts like a real parent, will probably get reported to CPS. That's how fucking low we've fallen. There's more where this comes from...but I'll hold back the rest and let others get in their opinions.
Posted 1/24/11
Well, in these hard times, who has the time XD

They just dump them with nannies. My parents did that though, and I turned out fine. Who knows, it might be genetics.

And I guess not everyone really has the skill, or patience to deal or teach their child. Which is quite sad, because they shouldn't be parents in the first place. And beating them is now illegal....

Some parents are actually intimidated by their "demon-seed" child, and are too passive to speak up. And I think this needs to change
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Posted 1/24/11
Well I'm glad I was disciplined by my parent's or I would probably ended up in drugs and gangs.
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Posted 1/24/11
It's true that parents aren't acting like parents. That's why most kids don't really know right from wrong and make stupid decisions. The thing is that the irresponsible people have many kids and the responsible people have only one or two. Yeah, you can see where our society is going.

As for me, I have strict Asian parents. 'Nuff said.
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Viewed as child abuse.
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Posted 1/24/11
^^^pretty much sums it up, i heard this story ( might actually have been on here ) where a father was playing that game with his daughter you know the one where you blow on their belly to make them laugh and someone thought it was inappropriate and called the childline ( place that sorts out kid problems ) and they had there child taken away. so it works both ways you cant disciple or show love to your children anymore without you being visited by the cops because some nosy bitch thinks its inappropriate
Posted 1/24/11
Because they can’t resist our adorable faces!

Seriously though, I think it’s because most parents in this age of technology and materialism have forgotten the true value of love. They just buy their kids a bunch of crap instead of spending time with them. And then the kids get all bratty when it’s taken away from them because it’s all they have! I’m very happy and lucky that my parents aren’t like that.

Posted 1/24/11
heres how i discipline my kids.

"hey son"
"yeah dad"
"drink this rat poison"
Posted 1/24/11
I feel spoiled I wish I had strict parents that would teach me manners and such D:
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Posted 1/24/11
This is just my theory. It's all opinion.

But I think ever since that Nanny show came out. Parents are using psychology and grounding as punishment and discipline. It's apparently not right to hit your child. Kids these days are pulling the "I'll call the cops" threat a lot these days as well. So I guess they have no choice but to follow through with the whole psychology bit.

Beats me though. They just don't know how to hit their child right. The trick is not to get caught or leave any evidence. I'm just going to beat my child to death
Posted 1/24/11
When I was little, my parents beat the shit out of me. Nowadays, states are banning spanking because they consider it "child abuse" which is frankly, stupid.

Parents are too busy trying to be their kid's friend.
Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/24/11
I think its wrong to hit a child for no reason at all but spanking them when they deserve it sounds very legit to me >.> my mom spanked me and sent me too my room when I used to act up and my god Im glad she did, Im glad she didnt let me get away with things I did wrong
Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/24/11

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That's it?! That's all your parent's gave you? A spank and "go to your room?!"
I would get hit by a heeled shoe, a chair, and I'd get the spoon or belt. O_o


not really, my step dad was scarier >_< sometimes he was the one to spank the crap out of me when mom as at work with a belt, shoe..any object


now that I remember, when I was 14 I remembered the years I had too literally run away from my step dad like a child, he would chase me around the house and all the way up too my room with me hiding behind the bed then running into the bathroom and having too lock the door >_< all because I had too stay after school one day
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