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why cant parents discipline there kids nowadays?
Posted 1/24/11

LosingOrbit wrote:

When I was little, my parents beat the shit out of me. Nowadays, states are banning spanking because they consider it "child abuse" which is frankly, stupid.

Parents are too busy trying to be their kid's friend.


Fuck that o.o they talk back and act up im beating them jus tlike my mom did us old fasioned whoppins o.o

Im not their freind im their father afterall
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Posted 1/24/11
Violence isn't the answer. As Vash would say, "LOVE AND PEACE!"
Posted 1/24/11

MelodieLenora wrote:

Violence isn't the answer. As Vash would say, "LOVE AND PEACE!"


It isnt violence..its education through harmful mean
Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/24/11

MelodieLenora wrote:

Violence isn't the answer. As Vash would say, "LOVE AND PEACE!"


no, it isnt, I agree but sometimes there are kids that need to be spanked, hitting a child when they haven't done anything wrong shouldn't be allowed, but if a child acts up then yeah, I think parents should do something about it, sending a child to "time out" doesnt work most of the time

my ass got the belt when I acted up and I turned out fine
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Posted 1/24/11
Parents can't discipline their children because it's "bad" and it "destroys their psyche". Actually it turns them into spoiled little brats that are disrespectful and lazy and I have to put up with them in my class. I got the living $#!% beat out of me if I did something wrong, and it worked pretty well because my teachers wish my classmates would act like me. People call Social Services on the parent that spanks their child for being a monster in a grocery store, but they don't remove the child being starved to death by a drug addict parents (I actually know people that this has happened to). I am well within my right to punish my kids if they are misbehaving and I'm most certainly going to do so because I don't want to raise a worthless piece of nothing. Rant complete =D
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Posted 1/24/11
It isn't being violence. Throwing your kid against a wall for no reason is violence. Spanking them for hitting another child isn't violence. It teaches them that actions have consequences and that you have to accept them. For example: Throwing the remote against the wall and putting a hole in it is deserving of a spanking if done on purpose.
Posted 1/24/11 , edited 1/24/11

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Parents can't discipline their children because it's "bad" and it "destroys their psyche". Actually it turns them into spoiled little brats that are disrespectful and lazy and I have to put up with them in my class. I got the living $#!% beat out of me if I did something wrong, and it worked pretty well because my teachers wish my classmates would act like me. People call Social Services on the parent that spanks their child for being a monster in a grocery store, but they don't remove the child being starved to death by a drug addict parents (I actually know people that this has happened to). I am well within my right to punish my kids if they are misbehaving and I'm most certainly going to do so because I don't want to raise a worthless piece of nothing. Rant complete =D


I noticed that too, and It is indeed sad ='C yeah, take the child away from the parent that disciplines them for being little shits but dont help the child with parents who neglect and dont feed them because they have a drug problem >.> I hate how things have gotten overtime


this kid for example >.> his ma should of given him an ass whoopen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws

no way in hell would my kid ever get away with that
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Posted 1/24/11

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kuromikowaii wrote:

Parents can't discipline their children because it's "bad" and it "destroys their psyche". Actually it turns them into spoiled little brats that are disrespectful and lazy and I have to put up with them in my class. I got the living $#!% beat out of me if I did something wrong, and it worked pretty well because my teachers wish my classmates would act like me. People call Social Services on the parent that spanks their child for being a monster in a grocery store, but they don't remove the child being starved to death by a drug addict parents (I actually know people that this has happened to). I am well within my right to punish my kids if they are misbehaving and I'm most certainly going to do so because I don't want to raise a worthless piece of nothing. Rant complete =D


I noticed that too, and It is indeed sad ='C yeah, take the child away from the parent that disciplines them for being little shits but dont help the child with parents who neglect and dont feed them because they have a drug problem >.> I hate how things have gotten overtime


this kid for example >.> his ma should of given him an ass whoopen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws

no way in hell would my kid ever get away with that


I used to get spanked at least once a day. I always deserved it. I've also never been written up, arrested, or in any serious trouble. Coincidence? I think not.
Posted 1/24/11

kuromikowaii wrote:


Juji_chan wrote:


kuromikowaii wrote:

Parents can't discipline their children because it's "bad" and it "destroys their psyche". Actually it turns them into spoiled little brats that are disrespectful and lazy and I have to put up with them in my class. I got the living $#!% beat out of me if I did something wrong, and it worked pretty well because my teachers wish my classmates would act like me. People call Social Services on the parent that spanks their child for being a monster in a grocery store, but they don't remove the child being starved to death by a drug addict parents (I actually know people that this has happened to). I am well within my right to punish my kids if they are misbehaving and I'm most certainly going to do so because I don't want to raise a worthless piece of nothing. Rant complete =D


I noticed that too, and It is indeed sad ='C yeah, take the child away from the parent that disciplines them for being little shits but dont help the child with parents who neglect and dont feed them because they have a drug problem >.> I hate how things have gotten overtime


this kid for example >.> his ma should of given him an ass whoopen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws

no way in hell would my kid ever get away with that


I used to get spanked at least once a day. I always deserved it. I've also never been written up, arrested, or in any serious trouble. Coincidence? I think not.


same here 8P, well maybe not once a day but when I acted up then it was the belt and straight too my room until they tell me its okay to come out and so far I havent done anything to get my in deep deep trouble ^,^ so yeah lol
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Posted 1/24/11

LosingOrbit wrote:

When I was little, my parents beat the shit out of me. Nowadays, states are banning spanking because they consider it "child abuse" which is frankly, stupid.

Parents are too busy trying to be their kid's friend.


i blame liberals and there time out method, "jk jk" but in reality that is what it boils down to, there are laws that make it illegal to discipline children. Now i am all for spankings, taking away kids things and so forth but there is line that i draw that parents say when they want to slap their kids against the face "that hurts like hell i know from personal experience". There is another thing as well there people that are parents that have no damn business having any kids at all.
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Posted 1/24/11

Cecilthedarkknight234 wrote:


LosingOrbit wrote:

When I was little, my parents beat the shit out of me. Nowadays, states are banning spanking because they consider it "child abuse" which is frankly, stupid.

Parents are too busy trying to be their kid's friend.


i blame liberals and there time out method, "jk jk" but in reality that is what it boils down to, there are laws that make it illegal to discipline children. Now i am all for spankings, taking away kids things and so forth but there is line that i draw that parents say when they want to slap their kids against the face "that hurts like hell i know from personal experience". There is another thing as well there people that are parents that have no damn business having any kids at all.


Seriously... Some kids are poster children for birth control...
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Posted 1/24/11
I don't think this is an issue that should be joked about.
Children have actually suffered severe injuries and even DIED from the "discipline" methods you people have outlined.
For example, this past February, Kevin and Elizabeth Schatz beat one of their adopted daughters to death and nearly killed another for mispronouncing a word during a homeschool reading session. Now tell me; do you think this is "proper discipline"? 'Cuz based on some of the posts I've seen in this forum, some people here might think it is.
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HibiscusKazeneko wrote:

I don't think this is an issue that should be joked about.
Children have actually suffered severe injuries and even DIED from the "discipline" methods you people have outlined.
For example, this past February, Kevin and Elizabeth Schatz beat one of their adopted daughters to death and nearly killed another for mispronouncing a word during a homeschool reading session. Now tell me; do you think this is "proper discipline"? 'Cuz based on some of the posts I've seen in this forum, some people here might think it is.


Obviously this is not proper punishment but any mentaly competent person can see that.

But there are times when the only way your gonna get the message through to a child is to whoop his / her ass.
This was especially true with me. the only thing that kept me from going arround burning buildings to the ground when i was younger was the thought if i got cought i was gonna get my ass whooped.

No ammount of reasoning / talking was gonna stop me from setting fires.
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Posted 1/25/11 , edited 1/25/11
And then there's stuff like this coming out of hollywood that doesn't make it easier for parents to disciline kids in a different area.....

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/mtv_teen_wasteland_SL2webe8K4ELaWi1fWCpFK
Posted 1/25/11
Most kids nowadays have something call a "cellphone". Some unfortunately aren't afraid to call 911. Kids tend to exaggerate when explaining their ordeals to others. This could lead parents into some hefty trouble.

Another possibility is that the parents were punish as children. This led them to think "Geez I really hated getting spanked when I was a child. I'm not going to put my child though that."
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