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What Should I Do For a Dieing Friend?
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Posted 1/12/08
between some kind of kinfe action to leaving them there
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pray
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51 / M / Oregon
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Be there for them. Dying alone can't be pleasant. Remind them of all the fun you've had together. Witness to them about Jesus or whatever your religion is. Help them find salvation and comfort in God? Get them whatever food and drink they want. Make them comfortable. That's what I did for my 2 friends that died. Would have done the same for Paul, but he died before I could get down to Sacramento. Got there four hours too late. Still feel guilty about it for some reason, but did the best I could.
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Be there for your friend with an open heart and understanding ear.
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44 / F / united kingdom
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SamMan wrote:

This spent time with her. Think what she want and tried your best to full fill it. If she at point were death certain it best listen her needs. Don't drown her out and talk to her. She know better than anyone else. Don't give up if it not certain then give her reason to live by staying by her side. Talk about future and what she want. If it come point were it past save her life, what important for her is peaceful death. I know this will be hard but try leting you and her except the death so that when she goes both of you can move on, but only after that point certain.


nicely put. listen, encourage, let them know they are loved
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Pray to God for her and her family! God answers prayers!

And try to help her through this difficult time by being there for her and supporting her. Be strong for her because she really needs the strength right now. You can do a few sweet things for her to show her you care and to make her remainin time here very happy. Maybe you can put together a scrap book with everything related to her and what she likes and what guys went through, maybe ask friends to do a few pages and write to her and her family as well! Try to do something sweet and meaningful to let her see how much she is loved.

Hope that you're okay. Wish u the best. God bless!
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22 / M / Deep in the Sea O...
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hmm grant him/her any last wish? And Stay by her till she leaves~ o.o
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27 / M / Melandru's Eyes
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just do everything she wants to do .. make her happy till the end... dont think of everything that can go wrong ... just think of the stuff that can go right ..


im sorry if that didn't make any sense.. just make her very happy ... thats what I would do ..
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It may be hard but try and have a laugh with her, she would want to laugh for her remaining time.
And if its not serious and the doc says she'll be alright then let her live her normal life.
If on the other hand, its life threatening then complete her last wishes, tell her parants to take her to disneyworld and go with her. And remain tear-free, nothings more heartbreaking than seeing your loved ones cry. Stay strong for her.
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i'd say don't remind her, that she is sick. talk about something funny like something that just happened, just to make her laugh and forget her problems. trust me, if you start asking her about how she feels too much, she'll eventually get annoyed.
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25 / M / Lethbridge Alberta
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well treat her normally... people hate pity.
Just do what ever you would normally do, helps people escape from reality when there doing things in almost a routine
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i would do his/her's last wish for them..=D
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take care of her.. spend lots of time with her.. i hope shes fine..T^T
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I put my dieing friend out of his misery. Yep best thing you can do for the person. Make it short and sweet.
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be there for her. it'll be a tough time for the both of you, but stick by her.

sometimes, we don't even get a chance to say good bye to our friends. I've lost 2 in car accidents.
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