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Is kissing a guy you just met a bad impression of yourself?
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17 / F / marylandd .
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Posted 2/4/12
Aww. >.< I don't think its a big deal. It's cute!! C:
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20 / F / lolllidk bakthar?
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Nope. I think it's fine. You can mate for all I care.
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32 / F / USA
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Posted 2/4/12
Start off with talking about the Bible and end with making out? That's hilarious.
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42 / M / Canada
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kailani_ivo; i believe it was simply "a kiss", not "making out" but that also explains why the OP was so worried about it.
normal view: kiss is just a kiss, big deal.
religious view: kissing? next thing you know you'll be exposing yourself to random stangers in the street!!! omg hellfire, damnation, rant, rant!!


... ok maybe i stretched it just a little bit.

anyways, yea. it's 2012 now. it's really not that big a deal to just give someone a kiss, if you really get interested in them, even on the first date. (hell, to some people it's really not that big a deal to go all the way, if you really get into them, even on the first date.)
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Posted 2/4/12 , edited 2/4/12
We can't answer the question for you. What works and doesn't work varies from person to person and situation to situation.

You can come back in a few weeks and give us the answer.

What works in one relationship might not in another and vice versa. That's why when something doesn't work you can't simply say, "Well, I will never do that again."

Good luck and I hope it works out.
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Posted 2/5/12

Lanman007 wrote:
You can come back in a few weeks and give us the answer.


read the date of the original post.

we're only a few days away from the 1 year anniversary of this thread.
(feb 10, 2011 for anyone that doesn't want to scroll back)
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I personally I do not think there is anything wrong with a woman kissing on a first date as long as things do not go any further. If a woman kissed me for the first time and then wanted to sleep with me soon after, I would think that she is using me in some way and that she has no sincere feelings for me. If she kissed me, I think I would see it as her telling me that she liked my company and would like to do it again some time.

I'm not trying to be sexist or anything, but if I was a girl and a guy kissed me on a first date, I would probably have a hand on the pepper spray just in case he tried to go any further.
Posted 2/5/12
Well if you go straight in there tongues wagging he's gonna think "woah" most likely but at the same time at least he knows you're interested. Go down the safe route of a kiss on the cheek
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Posted 2/5/12
Cute.
But I wouldn't judge a person so quickly.
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20 / F / Pluto
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I would think less of you .____.
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nope i dont think so
Posted 2/5/12
It's whorific! I mean, horrific!

But don't worry. I've made far worse first impressions on people. Like that time I went to cinema so drunk and left my car strangely parked taking 2 slots right in front of the cinema. And on my way out I had to face the truth.
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24 / M / Behind you
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Yes, yes it is.
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Well, who are you kissing and why are you kissing them? 0.o What are both of your intentions? That's what really counts.

I kissed someone I hardly knew. The possibility of getting to know him was open but I wasn't trying to kill myself when he didn't oblige. The problem was him not being up front, and he ACTED like he wanted to know me to get something. In general, yeah, they probably will think you're easy - if you're someone who likes to focus on the latter, you do need to prepare for the worst.
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32 / M / Buffalo, NY
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No way is it a bad impression...not in your case anyways. Kissing someone the first time you meet them on impulse, and kissing someone the first time you met because it felt right..are two different things. I think those kisses are some of the most romantic kind!
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