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If a guy get's married and the girl dies but falls in love with another girl years after, which one is his true love?
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The second one, he wasn't in love enough with the first one to keep loving her


just because you love someone doesnt mean you cant take someone else to fill the void. it pisses me off when people say he didnt love her enough. How do you know that? if she was still alive im sure he would have stayed with her. But now because she's gone you cant expect him to be alone for ever? its human nature to be with a partner and to have love around you. Or else you'll go mentally insane @___@


then a guess the forty year old virgin was insane, which he was. But what your describing is not love, your just describe the universal human need for companionship, anyway if love is simply that then the man was never in love to begin with
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the first one because if he didn't like her alot then why would it take years to find another girl??????
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Well it depends on the situation if the girl that died is his true love, it would took him years to get over their realtionship. If he his true love was the girl that he was remarried too, he must have taken him a short time to get over the girl that died and also it took them a short time to love each other


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yep, love is complicated.

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well one of em wasnt true enough to stay alive so the new one? unless they had kids and all that.


*dies laughing*

Oh man...

Anyway, c'est la vie. I don't know that I believe in a "true" love. I think you can truly and deeply love many people.. it's all about time and place when determining which one you will find and stay with. If one dies, it's possible to find another that you could have loved just as truly and deeply without the first. Or maybe losing the first makes you the person that can truly love the second. *shrugs* It's that sort of thinking that almost lost Prince Henry his Danielle.
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both, because at the time the first one was his true love and at the time the second one was his true love
idk if that made any sense, it makes sense in my head
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Well, if the girl didn't pass away, then it would be here (that is if they were to be together until the end) And because the first girl pass away, she was tehr eto teach the guy what it feels like to fall in love, so she was his first love and for him to fall in love with the second girl and able to make a family and stay until the end with her will also make her his love. Just because some you love pass away doesn't mean you can't move one with life and love another (if one is able to find another that is true). I am sure the one that pass would want that person who is alive to find happiness, even if it means with someone else.
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hmmm maybe the 1st one...w8 i hav a question...is your 1st love ur true love?
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its possible to be d 1st .. its also pssible for it to b the 2nd. or.. simply both.
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You said that "The second one, he wasn't in love enough with the first one to keep loving he" Im sure he would have kept her if she was alive, but because she is DEAD and not living anymore that doesnt mean he doesnt love her just because he found a new wife. Your sentence was like saying "the second one because he choose the second one over the first" because its wrong, he didnt choose her. his first wife died.


But thats the case, if he loved the first one more, he would not need the companionship of another, because he fell in love with another girl, he shows that the memories of his first love were not enough to console him. Therefore, he loves the second one, not because he didn't love the first, but he was not truly in love.
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I reckon...both.

I'd hate to think that people only get one shot at love, cause if love dies...you're screwd.
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AngelzAndDeath wrote:

Well it depends on the situation if the girl that died is his true love, it would took him years to get over their realtionship. If he his true love was the girl that he was remarried too, he must have taken him a short time to get over the girl that died and also it took them a short time to love each other


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totally agree
love is complicated
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But thats the case, if he loved the first one more, he would not need the companionship of another, because he fell in love with another girl, he shows that the memories of his first love were not enough to console him. Therefore, he loves the second one, not because he didn't love the first, but he was not truly in love.


no, like i said its human nature to need a campanion. You cant expect a male to be single all his life especial if he is young. like i said the second one is just to fill the void of the first one. Mostly likely he just THINKS he loves the second one just to forget the harsh memory of loosing his wife. Plus he probably chose a girl thats similar to his old wife which makes it less love but more of a fake love..


Fake love...hmm, It sucks when love is fake. But as you said they probably dated for years therefore they may be in their 30's when they actually get married. If he sets aside the years and memories they had together for another girl, then one can argue he loves the second girl more, considering altough he a great time with the first one he would RATHER have a great time with the second one then live alone with only the memories of the first one. I personally believe love is complicated and the information provided is not enough to make a sure deduction
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jayzone900 wrote:

The second one, he wasn't in love enough with the first one to keep loving her

BTW was he in a celebrity marriage cuz the usually never last.


r u saying that guy who cuda been abt 23yrs old will be lonely for the rest of his life becos he already lost his true love??? thats stupid. i still love my x bf and i belive it was true love but we didnt work out in the end doesnt mean i stop lovin him. look at all those couples who have a gr8 marriage and gr8 life with kids but end up divorcing yrs down the line. did they marry on a whim?

ppl change all the time, especially with time u grow as a person almost into sumone completly different. wen u look bk on ur life u'll go yea it was true love, but for that time in ur life.
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You said that "The second one, he wasn't in love enough with the first one to keep loving he" Im sure he would have kept her if she was alive, but because she is DEAD and not living anymore that doesnt mean he doesnt love her just because he found a new wife. Your sentence was like saying "the second one because he choose the second one over the first" because its wrong, he didnt choose her. his first wife died.


But thats the case, if he loved the first one more, he would not need the companionship of another, because he fell in love with another girl, he shows that the memories of his first love were not enough to console him. Therefore, he loves the second one, not because he didn't love the first, but he was not truly in love.


You seriously underestimate the average male sex drive


LOL, yah so we can have extremely high and uncontrollable sex drives but the question says he falls in love, so we can't assume he only fell in love for the Super Nasty Fun thing

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