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Post Reply Is being single or in a relationship better?
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Posted 1/13/13

chili17 wrote:

a good and true relationship please!

it's better to share a cake than eat it all by yourself.....


I feel the same way I just want to find someone who is serious about being together instead them of just wanting to have a replaceable person that's there for them.
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spazzy06 wrote:

I don't know. I think they both have their perks.


This.
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Pros to being single: Freedom, pursue your own interests, on the market, etc.
Cons: If you got no game, you'd get no poon or dick. Loneliness, etc.

Pros to being in a relationship: For guys, the secks. For women, the money, the hugging, etc.
Cons: Nagging, complaining, tied down, etc.
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Ikiryoh_Nam wrote:

To be honest ~!~! is there such thing as true love in reality??? you rather be single and do whatever you want or in a relationship when your boyfriend or girlfriend telling you not to do this or that, or they'll complain this and that?



Love in reality is a deep deep deep concept to talk about and I'd love to chat sometime with you personally if you'd be interested in going down that deep rabbit hole. But personally I prefer being alone than in a relationship at this point in my life because I can't dedicate the time properly to another person to really make them aware of how serious I am.

There is bad and good in all, it just depends on how you weigh your scales when you are making the judgement call.
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It all depends on the person. If a person doesn't wanna be tied down or if they know they aren't faithful, they should just stick to being single. If you're willing to be honest, faithful, respectful, caring & loving, then a relationship is good for you. Eventually everyone finds that one person they truly would do anything for. It just takes time.
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Posted 1/15/13
It is up to you. There is no such thing as better.
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For the vast Majority of my life I have been single, until recently I was...Ok with that fact. It's not because I wanted to be single, quite the opposite, I just have little to no game, and when I do have game, i tend to be friend zoned cause of the "Nice Guy Syndrome"

It wasnt until recently that I actually fell in honest to god love with someone, and now i cant even imagine my life without her. Corny as all hell, but when you find "The One"...you know, and its the best feeling in the world.
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Personally I think that love is similar to a drug. The only reason people "love" is because it gives them a "good feeling" just like a drug. Love is also used as an escape from reality much like a drug and is even more addicting than one.

If you think about it, love is simply an instinct that was developed to help humans reproduce but is now no longer needed for survival and is thus useless.

Relationships however can be used to boost self confidence and just pass the time. Unlike most drugs love doesn't damage your health (unless you become obsessed with it) so it can be a very fun experience.

to answer your question, it depends on whether you have the time for a relationship as they tend to require a lot of action.

P.S. try not to let it consume you like the sap above me. It’s only a feeling like pain or sorrow and should be treated like one.
Posted 1/15/13
It's all up to you. Personally I think being single is better because I get to have more freedom and don't have to worry about pleasing someone else. But then after a while, lonliness does come into play. Then I'd start wondering about sharing moments with a special person and all that lovey jazz.

Being in a relationship takes a lot of responsibility, effort, and TIME. It's pretty stressful, but if you and a partner can take the time to learn about each other, set some rules, or work together then a good relationship will flourish.
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Relationships can change some people for better or for worse, Its difficult to say which one is better. I suppose there are pro's and con's to both, having a partner in life is always nice yet having your own space without having to worry about anyone other than yourself can be less stressful and carefree.
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agreed with the person above me.. i second that motion
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As long as I'm in a healthy mature relationship, then I prefer a relationship. Right now I am in a relationship and we're pretty stable and happy. Haven't been this happy in a long time and we are similar in a lot of ways. Of course there are pros and cons to everything but I like to stay positive on this matter
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Although I have never been in a relationship I personally believe that being single is better then being in a relationship..I have so many friends who have boyfriends and girlfriends and all I see is the pain and sadness they go through which I don't ever want to experience...I do believe in love and want to fall in love just like ever other girl but I don't want to risk getting hurt..I also have so many things I want to do in life and I feel that if I am in a relationship I wont be able to accomplish those things..I believe that if true love really exist and if I was really meant to fall in love maybe just maybe someday I will stumble upon love and let love find me..
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hanayori wrote:

Although I have never been in a relationship I personally believe that being single is better then being in a relationship..I have so many friends who have boyfriends and girlfriends and all I see is the pain and sadness they go through which I don't ever want to experience...I do believe in love and want to fall in love just like ever other girl but I don't want to risk getting hurt..I also have so many things I want to do in life and I feel that if I am in a relationship I wont be able to accomplish those things..I believe that if true love really exist and if I was really meant to fall in love maybe just maybe someday I will stumble upon love and let love find me..


I think having hopes of "having love find you" is exactly the reason for your friends and loved ones for going through so much pain. You have to work at finding someone who is compatible with not only your personaly, but your dreams. But also be willing to mutually sacrifice for the benefit of your new/shared dream.

"Falling" in love, forgive me if I am wrong, seems to say you wouldn't mind being in a love-at-first-sight fairy tale sort of dream, but that's the exact kind of love that usually ends with more bad than good. Just take your time, and seriously try to avoid the trappings of "falling" in love.

Besides, if being single was so much better than being in a relationship, blow up dolls and vibrators would be held in higher regard than X-box and Kid friendly Television.
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Posted 1/16/13
I think it depends on the person. I personally feel like my fiancee kinda completes me, and I him. But I know there are people out there who are completely happy being single.
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