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Post Reply being single is better or in a relationship is better?
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zingle..
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i Bet being Single is fun...awesome even.
So while your at it do not take it for granted. It's a phase in life where you only focus on your self like your career and finances.


Then eventually,

Life is full of surprises that you'll meet someone that will make you happy even when his doing nothing.
And your never be the same again. You do not look back on how fun it was being single you just jump in and be in a relationship.
Sure it has it's pros and cons however, all aspect of life is that way...it is directly up to you where do you think you stand firmly and be happy.
Posted 1/8/13
On a level if you aren't pushing the figures by the time your 30 you are going to struggle so i think yu don't need the destruction before then unless you met someone who motivates you to do better.
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it's better to rent.
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No relationship is better than a bad relationship, by far.

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Depends. A relationship you get those "cute" nights you get. Pardon the cringe. But yeah relationships can be expensive as well and tend to force friends away, well that's whats happened to me sometimes, or its the other way round. Single life you can do whatever you want, have a one night stand.. if you believe in those sort of things. Depends on the preference, I prefer to be single.. go out with mates, no worries.
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single...
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I don't know if its just the way I roll or what but I date women when it suits me. I don't stress myself out over it because dating is supposed to be fun and it is! But some common mistakes I see are: (Men) Too scared to initiate the relationship (just ask her out you dumbass!), get too invested too early, mistake the fear of being single again (because they are too lazy to meet someone else) for love.

My relationships usually last 3 months and then I'll realize I don't love them, that doesn't necessarily mean I don't like them but you just have to keep moving cause there are a lot of women to meet until you find the one that you want to be with forever. Of course its completely random of when you might meet this person, it might be the next person you date or the 200th person you date. But anyway, I'd suggest that you are happy with yourself before you date, none of this "poor me, I'm a loser" crap, who would want to date that? If you're not happy with yourself, CHANGE YOUR LIFE. And don't say that you can't---> ["poor me, I'm a loser"] Get ACTIVE, get HEALTHY, get ACTIVE hobbies and participate in them ACTIVELY. Because an active person is a interesting person, is a healthy person, is a attractive person, is a successful person.

And this concludes our rant. Thank you.
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Blurr25 wrote:

I don't know if its just the way I roll or what but I date women when it suits me. I don't stress myself out over it because dating is supposed to be fun and it is! But some common mistakes I see are: (Men) Too scared to initiate the relationship (just ask her out you dumbass!), get too invested too early, mistake the fear of being single again (because they are too lazy to meet someone else) for love.

My relationships usually last 3 months and then I'll realize I don't love them, that doesn't necessarily mean I don't like them but you just have to keep moving cause there are a lot of women to meet until you find the one that you want to be with forever. Of course its completely random of when you might meet this person, it might be the next person you date or the 200th person you date. But anyway, I'd suggest that you are happy with yourself before you date, none of this "poor me, I'm a loser" crap, who would want to date that? If you're not happy with yourself, CHANGE YOUR LIFE. And don't say that you can't---> ["poor me, I'm a loser"] Get ACTIVE, get HEALTHY, get ACTIVE hobbies and participate in them ACTIVELY. Because an active person is a interesting person, is a healthy person, is a attractive person, is a successful person.

And this concludes our rant. Thank you.


hit the nail on the head, this one did lol
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I love being single... was in a serious relationship once. and felt held down... now I can just up and go when ever I want.
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Thanks SanKun my brotha.

And another thing, to the people who have had one or more relationships that they felt like they were "tied down" or they couldn't go out with your friends whenever and that's why being single is better. Why would you get so invested in that person that it ruins your perspective on being in a relationship? If you're seeing a girl and you want to see your friends but she "won't let you", she's obviously not, mature or understanding and also not worth your time so the next step is easy..."this isn't working out." Believe it or not there are women out there that understand you had a life before them and they don't smother you. You just have to know what you want in a women and keep looking, you'll find it eventually. Just don't get discouraged by a few "bumps in the road".

Love is a supplement to life, it's like a vitamin. But you can't survive on a vitamin alone. The rest of your life comes from you and how you make yourself happy.
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I hate being single myself, I enjoy having the company of a companion.
Posted 1/13/13
being single is better imo
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a good and true relationship please!

it's better to share a cake than eat it all by yourself.....
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Posted 1/13/13

chili17 wrote:

a good and true relationship please!

it's better to share a cake than eat it all by yourself.....


I feel the same way I just want to find someone who is serious about being together instead them of just wanting to have a replaceable person that's there for them.
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