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Post Reply Is being single or in a relationship better?
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I met my wife to be on the fields of battle, where our love was tested in the clashes of war, our love song is that of the screams of our enemies, our wedding altar, made from the crowns of conquered kings, when my bride will walk down the aisle I know she will do so weapon in hand and dress soaked red in the blood of our enemies.

THAT is real love to me. So yes being in a relationship is certainly more appealing and also tactically sound, especially since you can get flanking.

-Arcadum
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Let me speak out of experience if you will permit me.

I've been in love with the girl I've had a crush on for five years. I only started dating her three years ago and we are still dating. Heck, we even went to the point where we call each other husband and wife, yet we're still in our senior year of high school. But the point that people miss is that you don't fall in love to quench your social status as not single anymore, but to find happiness. If someone gets possessive like "Wo was that girl you were taking too?!" don't add gas to the fire like saying "None of your business". Think about how that person feels when you mean so much to her.

When you commit yourself to any relationship, you must be ready for both good and bad times.

That's just a general synopsis. Being single or in a relationship isn't bad at all. If you're single and people look down on you, don't mind them. It's your life and happiness. If you want to be in a relationship with a girl/boy, then take it slow. You'll find happiness eventually. Only if you try hard for it.
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Posted 12/30/12
If you're single, who tells you how stupid you are?
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It depends on your opinion. There is no such thing as write or wrong here.
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I'd rather be alone than be in a relationship with someone who uses/exploit me or a chronic liar.


If the person is a good person and can love me like the way my mother loves me (caring and selfless) then it's better to be in a relationship.
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Posted 12/30/12

moonhawk81 wrote:

If you're single, who tells you how stupid you are?


Hopefully your friends. I've had a few pull me to the curb. done the same for them once or twice too.


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well if you are in or had good relationships then its better to be in one. however if you havent had that many good ones i say single, for two reasons to keep trying for better ones or you can do things without anyone nagging you about the stuff you do. for me i no longer get nagged about drinking at really weird or random hours of the day.
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Posted 12/30/12
Obviously relationship is better.
Abusive, not really.
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Friends with benefits all the waaaaaay brooooo <3
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Well I've been with my fiancee for about four years. No I don't wish to be single, not now at least, I'm happy and I think that's all that matters. I don't spend my nights wondering if get hurt -I rather live in the current than keep my mind worried with things that might never happen. I know what it's like to loose someone you love and I've gone through that kind of pain.

But I think it's worthless to remain afraid and apathetic. Nothing will last forever and no matter what you'll get hurt sometime -were you whether in a relationship or not. Happiness is meant to be enjoyed and pain is meant to be endured. -That's how I see it.
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If you could find the idealistic love of the person who completes you and never betrays you and makes you a better person then sure. Good luck with that. I haven't given up but man is it tough to find someone that matches you that way. It's hard enough just to talk to new people all the time without them looking at you funny or being creeped out!

In the US anyway we are becoming a society of people that does not interact with each other outside our personal circles or groups of friends. It seems odd now when someone random approaches you just to talk or get to know you. Anyway ideally in a relationship but if you can't find someone worth being in one with then single.
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Everyone has preference.
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meh i agree with the idea that with the right person a relationship would be better but if you cant find that person then single, but then again i have never dated so...not the best person to talk i guess
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Well, misery loves company... jk Anyhoo, I read somewhere that guys that are married live 5yrs longer than their single counterparts. I think it had something to do with the spouse alleviating his stress and looking out for his health.

About being "told what to do/what not to do" in a relationship, I've worked it out this way: If they don't wan't you to do something, then they have to not do something you don't like in return.......If they want you to do something, then they have to do something in return. There, all even.
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Love is not real!

Until further notice, at least.
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