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Post Reply Is being single better or in a relationship better?
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Posted 2/19/11
I don't know i just find it single is better.... not much relationship last forever anyway from what i see... better be with no one than be with the wrong one. After you b-up with him/her you'll be having this feeling that wanted be a kid again skinned knee heal faster than a broken heart..
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Both have their pros and cons. Sometimes I prefer to be single, other times I prefer to be in a relationship.

Being in a relationship is always more comfortable. It's nice knowing you have someone who cares about you. Also, I find I tend to go out more when I have a boyfriend since we hang with both his friends and my friends. And a cuddle buddy and is always nice

But being single means having more freedom. I can flirt with, date, and have sex with whomever I want. Also, I have more time to spend with my girlfriends, and generally more time to do anything else. Still, it gets pretty lonely though.
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Well I would perfer to be in a relationship cuz i really am not a flirty person at all and dont like when guys flirt with me so i'd rather be taken and i would rather think of my Boyfriend to be one of my Best friends too not just play the boyfriend role. Plus I've only had one bf so i really dont date all the time so yeah
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You need someone you love in your life. Not being myself forever.
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Posted 2/19/11
It´s not a question of "WHAT IS BETTER".

It´s rather a question of "what type of human being you are".

Humans are animals. They go for herds. They dislike beeing alone. That´s a fact.

But when you know, you´ve got no time for a relationship....a could be a good idea not to have one.

I know, it would be GOOD to have any relations with any other people.
But I´m working about 14-16 hours a day? Even my cats are angry with me for that.
It´s no question, that I dont have the time to get to know other humans.
It´s no question, that i dont have the time to start a relationship. And even if i COULD.... i´ve no time to keep that relationship alive.

So, i DO think, the best way is to have no relationship at all. No one ist beeing upset, when I get home late.
No one is waiting invain.... that´s not the best for me (sure..)

But the best for anyone else.
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Posted 2/19/11
i'd rather be in a relationship, because sadly i admit i dont feel that anybody loves me, being in a relationship changes that though
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IoI what the heck? xD I dun ask for stuff, guys just give me things. And I gave my ex a $200 watch when we were still dating and told him he could keep it even after we broke up, so honestly have no idea what you are talking about =P
Posted 2/19/11
i've been single too long to think that it's better.... it's not. i hate it.
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Posted 2/19/11
Depends if you really like a girl then you wish you were i a relationship but if you don't have any particular feelings for anyone single is better.
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Posted 2/19/11

healthguide wrote:

Depends if you really like a girl then you wish you were i a relationship but if you don't have any particular feelings for anyone single is better.


but sometime even you really love this person you still need to let go. loving someone doesn't mean you have to be with her. Just wishing/hoping she happy from miles and miles away, will still make you happy even your single and lonely over here
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Posted 2/19/11

Ikiryoh_Nam wrote:


healthguide wrote:

Depends if you really like a girl then you wish you were i a relationship but if you don't have any particular feelings for anyone single is better.


but sometime even you really love this person you still need to let go. loving someone doesn't mean you have to be with her. Just wishing/hoping she happy from miles and miles away, will still make you happy even your single and lonely over here


True I see your point, I was merely saying that when you love someone you still long to be in that relationship even though at some instances its not possible or its best not to be.

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Posted 2/19/11

starrinite wrote:

IoI what the heck? xD I dun ask for stuff, guys just give me things. And I gave my ex a $200 watch when we were still dating and told him he could keep it even after we broke up, so honestly have no idea what you are talking about =P


It means that your Ex is originally a jerk. You should learn from now.
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Posted 2/19/11, edited 2/19/11
Theres a saying that it is better to have a evil wife than to be alone.
Which means human beings needs to have someone next to them
Unless they're gifted in being solo...
Posted 2/19/11
SINGLE =D but i wont lie it gets lonely after a while
Posted 2/19/11
Depends on the occupation along with current preference. I would not accept a relationship right now.
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