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Posted 12/8/13
Well I think that if your girlfriend/ boyfriend is bossing you around and controlling your life, there's something wrong there. Also, being in a relationship isn't about having no problems at all, its being able to get over them together. I think lots of people think that being a relationship will mean a world of flowers and rainbows and don't realize there will be problems. That aside, going back to the question, it really depends on you. Everyone has different preferences so the answer will obviously vary. Personally I think being in a relationship is better than being single because I know we both care about each other's well being.
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Everybody is in a single relationship.It's just that most can't admit the self indulgence.
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I suppose it all depends on the timing. Personally I like solitude and not having to stress occasionally over another person but you do get those moments deep loneliness when you crave the company of another. I like being single but some nights I wonder what it would be like to hold another human in my arms instead of my pillow...
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I don't think there's a clear answer to which is "better" probably just depends on what kind of person you are and what kind of person your with (if you in a relationship) personally I don't want to put up a fake image just cause I like some girl, if I can't be myself and like the things I like then staying single is the way to go.
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SmileyBambi wrote:

I suppose it all depends on the timing. Personally I like solitude and not having to stress occasionally over another person but you do get those moments deep loneliness when you crave the company of another. I like being single but some nights I wonder what it would be like to hold another human in my arms instead of my pillow...

^Preach lol

I think the same thing exact way. The only thing is that I tend to bump into people and then end up getting so attached to them that I can't imagine my life without them. The way I feel with this person makes it feel like if I can't be with them that life isn't worth living (depressing right) but for some reason I seem to bump into people that stress me out to the point were I'm constantly freaking out and stressing trying to make them happy........... what was the question again? lol can I just choose "Death" O_O
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23 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 12/8/13
People are really hard to please, thinks idealistically, have a cliche way of thinking( "I wanna get married and start a family"), clingy, sex-crazed, mentality is questionable, and overall difficult.

Everyone loves taunting the ones that never dated nor had sex just because they can constantly kiss and screw some random stranger in a "romantic" sense.

Dating is clearly not for everyone and some people should realize that.

Since I'm low self esteem people pleaser, putting me in an either a bad or good relationship is a struggle/nightmare for me. Nobody wants to deal with that and I'll die inside just knowing that.

I rather be single and focus on me.
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99 / F / Your boundaries
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A non-relationship is the best.
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It all depends if you've got a clingy bitch.
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24 / F / Limbo
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Posted 12/9/13
Single all the way. I don't need to worry about anyone but me. Being both asexual and aromantic helps too, of course.
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19 / F / Outer space.
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Being single gets lonely but it beats being in a relationship.
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I love the single life~
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27 / M / So-Cal
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their def isn't a better, more like timing. Don't force yourself to be single caue you think you can't find someone or believe that person isn't out there. Same goes for desperately trying to find someone for the fear of being lonely or because your friends are in one.

Be single, have friends, have fun. When you do met that person who doesn't complete you but complements you then go with it. I say the best feeling is being with someone who you can be yourself with, your serious, nerdy, all around self all in all as long as your happy doesn't matter
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I do believe that true love exist but... I think many people get too obsess about getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. Then when they have one they regret it because that relationship limits their freedom. Then they are single again and they realize they don't want to be alone so... the vicious circle start all over again, result? they are unhappy 24/7.
To be honest, I think also society puts a lot of pressure on people. In many countries people act like there is something wrong with you if you still single after the age of 30 or if you decide to not have kids. The irony behind it is that many of the people who put pressure on others are also unhappy too so...
I don't think there is a right or wrong answer but I think is better being single until you decide what you want instead of going around having unhappy relationships and make someone else miserable. If you decide being with someone, the chances are that your freedom will be a bit more limited if you decide being single the chances are that sometimes you wish you had someone close to you. Each decision has his consequences and I think sometimes we just have to accept that we can't have everything when we want to.
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