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Post Reply Is being single or in a relationship better?
Posted 12/9/13 , edited 12/9/13
Should probably add this, It is me in the future.

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It all depends on where you are in life. If you're single, and you are unhappy single, being single is your best option. You want to be a complete, self-pleased individual before you move on to things like a relationship. So, in my opinion, people that get sad or depressed that they aren't in a relationship are the ones that do not need to be in one to begin with.

Once you are at a point in your life where you feel like you've become a complete individual all on your own, then perhaps you could think of relationships, but even then the formation of a relationship should always be organic. I never understood the modern desire to jump straight to exclusivity. I believe that dating should be a gradual progression towards exclusivity. That way you DON'T wonder what else is out there, because you've seen it and decided that what you want is better than what "could be".
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I'm 70 and I want to christianmingle with the singles ;]
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PRose- wrote:

I'm 70 and I want to christianmingle with the singles ;]


you can mingle with me, i like em old
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Posted 2/9/14
Well i'm pretty happy with my girlfriend right now, we get along really well since we both love watching anime, and have alot of other shared interests
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I think my last relationship made me want to stay single for a while because I needed freedom and a lot of personal space but that effect is wearing off and I'm starting to feel lonely sometimes.

I need a girlfriend!
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I prefer being single I've never been in a real relationship before, though I dated a senior boy in highschool when I was a freshman and that didn't work out, I was way too shy and not ready to commit to holding hands and kissing I like having my space and if a guy out there wants to bother with me and try to push past my barrier and succeeds well, yup haha that's all. I just don't feel like I'll enjoy being in a relationship since it's such a big fuss.
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Posted 2/9/14
From my experience I'd rather stau single
But there are times when I wanna be with someone but not too romantically because I don't feel comfortable with it.
Idek which one I really want
A cuddle buddy maybe
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Posted 2/9/14
I like being single right now as I can focus on my future.
There are other occasions where it does feel boring when you go solo to events like dances, concert, and expos.
Besides the in between part, socializing solves and making friends.
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Single duh!! that way u have more time to watch anime!
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Ive been single for almost eighteen years
I think being in a relationship is fun but being single is better
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Single is better overall. You just have to worry about yourself. Minimal drama, no concerns on your spontaneous plans effecting your lover. It's a bit selfish but it is just human nature to look out for yourself before others the majority of the time. Just being single means it is only about you. It isn't a "duo" thing and trying to keep balance in a relationship.

I just think people stress too much over their relationships or needing a partner in life.
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